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Grateful for Homeownership

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Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty of California, Inc. CA DRE #01490977

I'm Grateful for Homeownership

 

These 3 simple words in the title mean so much, and no doubt for others who own their homes. Indeed, it goes beyond owning a home but would include a rental that is your home. But for this post, my focus is being thankful for home ownership.

 

We are in our 10th primary house (there have been a couple of vacation homes, too, on Cape Cod) that we’ve owned – perhaps not a lot compared to many others, but the number is not important.

 

We’ve also lived in 4 rentals (2 apartments, 2 single family homes) in our life journey together. Some were due to the relocation process before buying a home in the new location and some were personal choices. These rentals met our needs on a temporary basis. But there was something particularly meaningful to us about living in a home we owned as opposed to being in a rental. But a home is home, right?!

 

Each home we have owned has been special to us for different reasons. Amenities, features and sizes have varied, as have the locations – 1 home in Michigan, 5 in Massachusetts, 2 in Minnesota and 2 in California. Some needed a fair amount of remodeling, which we took care of, while others did not – 1 was a new build. Some floorplans were preferred over others. And yards have varied in size from a few thousand square feet to almost 2 wooded acres.

 

 

While we were certainly thankful for having a rental as our home when the time was right, we’ve always been grateful for being able to own our home. There’s a powerful sense of pride and achievement in homeownership…a place that’s yours to do what you want and where you create wonderful memories (which of course can happen wherever you live). Your home – owned or rented - is a place for sharing and enjoying your life with friends, family and neighbors year after year. Owning our home is what has really mattered, not its size or cost.

 

Our current home is far from perfect, as other places have been, and there are things we wish were different (single versus 2-story) or that we would like to change. But I’m very grateful for what we have and where we are (not far from our daughters and their families in LA), and what we have had over our years together.

 

As a side note I’m also thankful to be able to help others with achieving their homeownership dreams, as I understand what it really means so well.

 

This is my third entry in the November Gratitude Challenge hosted by Debe Maxwell, CRS 

 

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Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Central CT Real Estate Broker

I only rented for a brief period of time when I got out of service and have always felt that owning one's own home ws truly the best way to go due to stability, privacy and the independence it afforded.

Nov 24, 2024 04:05 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Thank you Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Those are certainly important reasons for owning your own home.

Jeff

Nov 24, 2024 12:02 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I like the look of your home!  It's definitely something to be grateful for.  Being a homeowner is so much better than having to rent.

Nov 24, 2024 04:19 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Thank you Brian England 

Having rented and owned multiple homes I definitely prefer the value of ownership.

Jeff

Nov 24, 2024 12:03 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Jeff,
Homeownership is definitely something to be grateful for. Since I went out on my own, I rented an apartment for a year and then bought my first home. I'm on home #5 now, which will likely be my last unless I downsize to a condo.

Nov 24, 2024 04:50 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Thank you for stopping by and commenting Carol Williams  I fully expect we will downsize at some point - time will tell.

Jeff

Nov 24, 2024 12:06 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Jeff Dowler, CRS - Over the years, I've learned to appreciate you and how you live but I didn't know about all those different homes you rented and bought in so many different places, including climates! No wonder, you're a great REALTOR - you understand the needs of people and how important it is to help others fulfill their dreams. 

No matter where the road takes you next, may you always be healthy and happy. 

Nov 24, 2024 04:58 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Thank you for such a nice compliment Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP plus the well wishes for health and happiness.

Jeff

Nov 24, 2024 12:07 PM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

☺️

Nov 25, 2024 03:29 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Jeff... amongst immigrant families like mine, homeownership was considered the ultimate in success. I've lived in many homes, rented and owned, and I've always said that each was my favorite... for that time.

Nov 24, 2024 05:13 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

That's a wonderful perspective to have as a homeowner Nina Hollander, Broker 

Thank you!

Jeff

Nov 24, 2024 12:08 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Jeff, now you have me how many homes I have purchase over the years. I have to say only four.

Nov 24, 2024 09:05 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

I'd say 4 is a pretty good number to have owned Will Hamm  Many do not ever own 1!

Jeff

Nov 24, 2024 12:09 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Dolores and I are also thankful for a very comfortable home. We've lived here, in Maryland, since 1995, the longest we have stayed in any home. Our previous homes were in Virginia, my home state.

Nov 24, 2024 11:08 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Hi Roy Kelley Thanks for stopping by!

We just hit 10 years in our current home, the longest we have ever been in one of our homes.

Jeff

Nov 24, 2024 12:25 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Jeff I have only owned two homes, and purchasing them were among the BEST decisions I have made.

Nov 24, 2024 11:23 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Good for you George Souto! Thanks for stopping by!

Jeff

Nov 24, 2024 12:27 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you, Jeff Dowler, CRS, for sharing your heartfelt reflections on the significance of homeownership. Your appreciation for the experiences and memories built within your homes beautifully emphasizes the value of having a space that truly feels like yours.

Nov 24, 2024 02:07 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Thank you for such a nice compliment Lew Corcoran

Owning your own home means ever so much and the memories are such a blessing.

Jeff

Nov 24, 2024 03:30 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Owning your own home Jeff Dowler, CRS is something to be grateful. It still remains high on the priority list of so many Americans. I feel we are so blessed to be the business of helping others with achieving their homeownership dreams!

Nov 24, 2024 02:59 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Thank you Dorie Dillard Austin TX!

We are, indeed, double blessed if we own our own homes and can also help others achieve the goal of homeownership.

Jeff

Nov 24, 2024 03:34 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Jeff- they say home is where the heart is and that is definitely true. I love your perspective on this. When we were in our home in Leesburg, it was more home than we needed and one I'd never even dreamed of. And yet, we were not near our friends or family so as much as I loved it, it paled in comparison to our other homes that were near friends and family. 

Nov 25, 2024 07:41 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Thank you Kathy Streib

That is such a wonderful quote, and oh, so true. Being near family and friends makes such a difference to being happy where you live.

Jeff

Nov 26, 2024 11:39 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

And, this is what we work so hard for too, Jeff! I'm so thankful for homeownership as well. I'm anxious to share with Ray that you've lived in 10 homes! We've lived in 6 and he thinks that is WAY too many! LOL It's a little more difficult for us to move than most so, I understand his 'stress' when we do.

Thank you for your entry, Jeff! I love it.

Nov 25, 2024 08:34 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Thank you so much Debe Maxwell, CRS 

Yes, you certainly have some other important life issues to consider in a home.

Jeff

Nov 26, 2024 11:42 AM
Jennifer Fivelsdal
JFIVE Home Realty LLC | 845-758-6842|162 Deer Run Rd Red Hook NY 12571 - Red Hook, NY
Mid Hudson Valley real estate connection

Hi Jeff, Many dreams of homeownership, and some have achieved it. Helping clients to this point is always a happy occasion.

Like you, I wish my present house was one level, so I could age in place ☺️

Nov 26, 2024 05:30 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Thank you Jennifer Fivelsdal 

I feel badly for those who would love to own their home but cannot afford to do so.

Our first home here in CA was single story and was, perhaps, our favorite although it was larger than we really needed.

Jeff

Nov 26, 2024 11:57 AM
Barbara Michaluk
Weichert Realtors | Phone Direct 240-506-2434 | 301-681-0550 office - Silver Spring, MD
Leisure World Specialist / Full Service REALTOR

Hi Jeff,  It sounds like you've had the opportunity to move around over the years.  My journey has been the opposite since we lived in the same home for 32 years and another home for 7 years prior to that.  However, we recently moved to a 1-level home so I can now say I truly appreciate what's involved in downsizing. 

Nov 27, 2024 10:03 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Hi Barbara Michaluk 

I think our own moves and experiences as buyers and sellers serve our clients well. Moving is a challenge as is relocating. The longest we have been in one house is 10 years.

Jeff

Nov 30, 2024 07:38 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Only your own home or property in general can be a little boost. You need some days and it really does help.!

Nov 30, 2024 10:10 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Thank you Laura Cerrano I think owning your own home means a great deal to most if not all.

Jeff

Dec 01, 2024 11:45 AM
Barbara Michaluk
Weichert Realtors | Phone Direct 240-506-2434 | 301-681-0550 office - Silver Spring, MD
Leisure World Specialist / Full Service REALTOR

Laura, Like so many other life experiences, owning a home gives us a first hand experience to prepare us as realtors.

Dec 01, 2024 04:51 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

A point well made Barbara Michaluk  Thank you!

Jeff

Dec 01, 2024 11:34 AM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

Wonderful blog, Jeff Dowler, CRS 

When I was quite young, I thought home ownership was everyone's goal and dream. I know that I have never regretted it.

Dec 01, 2024 10:34 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Hi John Juarez  Thank you!

I know I have never regretted it either.

Jeff

Dec 01, 2024 11:33 AM
Doug Rogers
RE/MAX Coastal Properties - Destin, FL
Your Real Estate Resource!

Home ownership has benefits that go beyond financial. Awesome post!

Dec 03, 2024 08:22 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS

Thank you for stopping by Doug Rogers  There are indeed many benefits to owning your own home.

Jeff

Dec 06, 2024 10:28 AM
Kris Collis, Associate Broker
Smart Way America Realty - East Stroudsburg, PA
Professional Results you Expect 570-801-5525

Jeff, Love hearing the saga of your location and homes, your journey from East Coast to West Coast. With many memories and gifts of Thanksgiving.

Dec 05, 2024 06:28 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Kris Collis, Associate Broker 

I'm glad you enjoy it - it has been an interesting journey from OH to MI to MA to MN back to MA and finally to CA. No plans to move for now!

Jeff

Dec 06, 2024 10:32 AM