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Motivational Monday…Lit from Within

 

When we lived in FL, I met a neighbor who was one of the most beautiful women I’d ever seen.  She was a doctor who was from Iran. 

 

She always showed up at the Christmas cookie exchange, with cookies that were so good, no one wanted to share them with their family members. 

 

She spoke to everyone as if she’d known them for years. She wasn’t loud nor did she monopolize the conversations. She looked at you and listened (and heard) every word you said. 

 

I cannot remember hearing a negative word from her. She lifted the spirits of everyone around her. 

 

When I met her, she had breast cancer. Through the years, there were successes, treatments, remissions, and the return of it. She remained beautiful through it all. 

 

It wasn’t only her physical beauty. her true beauty came from within. It was as if there was a light from within that shined and brightened all things around her. 

 

That beautiful woman is no longer with us but when someone mentions a beautiful woman, I want to tell them what true beauty is. 

 

 

Is your true beauty shining through?

 

 

Beauty is not in the face; beauty is a light in the heart.
  Kahlil Gibran 

 

People are like stained - glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within.
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

 

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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. While not a huge fan of of Kahlil Gibran, he did have some quotes that are hard to argue. Enjoy your day.

Dec 02, 2024 05:02 AM
Kathy Streib

Wayne Martin the quote fits my friend well. You don't meet many like her. 

Dec 02, 2024 04:35 PM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

Good Morning Kathy Streib 

Everyone has that light within themselves. Sometimes there is a darkness that tries to extinguish it but then comes along someone whose light brings out the light in others.

Dec 02, 2024 05:15 AM
Kathy Streib

Doug Dawes excellent point. I've always felt that there is good is most people. It just needs to be encouraged to shine. 

Dec 02, 2024 04:36 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Kathy, Not all carry a spark within them, and she was inspiring to make others shine too!

Dec 02, 2024 05:21 AM
Kathy Streib

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 She was such a kind person. You couldn't help but smile when she came into the room. 

Dec 02, 2024 04:41 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Kathy,

What a blessing she was in everyone's life and so glad you were there first hand to experience the inner glow of this woman. She obviously made an impression on you and many others and is an inspiration. By you using her as an example this morning her essence is out there in the world once again because of the footprint she left here on earth.

Dec 02, 2024 05:25 AM
Kathy Streib

Dorie Dillard Austin TX it is the kind of legacy I would want to leave. When someone talks about beautiful women she comes to mind. Gracious is how I'd describe her. 

Dec 02, 2024 04:42 PM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

It truly mindboggling how different people handle adversity. Some people have such grace, it is hard to comprehend the world without them.

Dec 02, 2024 06:08 AM
Kathy Streib

I agree Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty we don't use the word "gracious" enough in describing people. 

Dec 02, 2024 04:48 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Kathy,
I love this post! It reminds me of the saying "the best conversationalists listen more than they talk".  Your neighbor was blessed with physical beauty, but also the beauty of being truly interested in other people. I bet she was an amazing doctor.

Dec 02, 2024 06:35 AM
Kathy Streib

Carol Williams She was someone who looked at you directly while you spoke and you knew she listened to every word. A rarity. 

Dec 02, 2024 04:51 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Hi Kathy... when we are fortunate to meet people like your Iranian friend, we never forget them. The leave an indelible image in our hearts and minds.

People are like stained - glass windows. They sparkle and shine when the sun is out, but when the darkness sets in, their true beauty is revealed only if there is a light from within.
Elisabeth Kubler-Ross

Dec 02, 2024 06:38 AM
Kathy Streib

Nina Hollander, Broker that quotes describes her so well. 

Dec 02, 2024 04:52 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thanks, Kathy, for sharing this story. I like your quote selections.

Have a great day!

Dec 02, 2024 08:37 AM
Kathy Streib

Roy Kelley thank you!  Hello to Chef Dolores. 

Dec 02, 2024 04:53 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy this sounds like a very special woman.  When someone is beautiful withing, they will be seen as beautiful without even if they are not.

Dec 02, 2024 10:16 AM
Kathy Streib

George Souto I agree. There are some who many would say are nice looking but when you get to know them and speak with them they shine!

Dec 02, 2024 04:56 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Kathy and I wish I could meet her, people like this are worth knowing.  Thank you for sharing with us.

Dec 02, 2024 10:40 AM
Kathy Streib

Will Hamm I wish she were still with us. She lived a remarkable life. 

Dec 02, 2024 05:00 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you for sharing this heartfelt reflection on true beauty, Kathy Streib; your words remind us that the light we carry within us can profoundly impact those around us, even in the face of adversity.

Dec 02, 2024 01:46 PM
Kathy Streib

Lew Corcoran some people have that ability or trait. They have such an impact on others. 

Dec 02, 2024 05:01 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I think we have all had contact with one or more people that are lit from within.  They are among the angels that walk beside us.

Dec 02, 2024 07:27 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Beauty is not just from the outside but from the inside, sorry to read that this special person in your life is no longer with us. Endre

Dec 02, 2024 09:01 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

She certainly sounds like such an amazing woman and now I kind of have a craving for cookies, haha.

Dec 03, 2024 04:32 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Kathy what an absolutely beautiful tribute to  your friend who's know in heaven.  She truly shared her 'beauty' with all she met and it makes me smile thinking of the peace and joy she brought to so many.  May we all be so blessed!

 

Featured in BananaTude!

 

Dec 03, 2024 02:21 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

I love meeting people like this beautiful woman you described. Their light absolutely shines through to those around them.

Dec 05, 2024 09:05 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

What a beautiful tribute to a beautiful woman. You were blessed to have known her.

Dec 07, 2024 05:23 AM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

Love the last quote and so true about beauty shining from within. Thank you for sharing.

Dec 07, 2024 07:36 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

What a beautiful memory! A great message for us all too...even after you are gone from this world, you will live on in the minds of others.

Dec 09, 2024 09:04 AM