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From Frustration to Action: Maya Angelou's Timeless Wisdom

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Maya Angelou's quote, "If you don't like something, change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude," carries profound wisdom, especially during times of division and frustration, like what many feel after a contentious presidential election.

At its core, the quote invites us to examine how we respond to challenges and adversities. The first part, "If you don't like something, change it," encourages proactive engagement. In the context of an election, it might mean becoming more involved in the democratic process—advocating for policies you believe in, volunteering for causes, educating yourself and others, or working toward electoral reforms. It's a call to action that acknowledges the power of collective effort to bring about meaningful change.

The second part, "If you can't change it, change your attitude," emphasizes resilience and perspective. After an election, not everyone will agree with the outcome, but shifting our mindset can help us move forward constructively. Instead of focusing on anger or despair, this attitude shift can be about finding opportunities to build bridges, understanding differing viewpoints, or channeling energy into productive dialogue and future planning.

For our country, this quote serves as a reminder that while we may not control every outcome, we do control how we respond. Anger and frustration can be transformed into motivation for change or a willingness to find common ground. Both paths—changing circumstances or our perspective—lead to growth and, ultimately, a stronger and more unified society.

 

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Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

She was always one of my favorite reads. I wish we had more wisdom coming at us today.

Dec 02, 2024 09:33 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Hopefully we will Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty 

Dec 02, 2024 02:47 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Dorie anger and frustration only produces more anger and frustration.  The quicker those emotions are channeled towards a constructive and positive attitude the better.

Dec 02, 2024 09:49 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

I agree 100% George Souto 

Dec 02, 2024 02:47 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Dorie - adaptation and adjustment along with lots of other things "live" among us.  It can be challenging to sort through it.  

Dec 02, 2024 09:53 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

VERY! But it has to be done Michael Jacobs 

Dec 02, 2024 02:48 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Dorie and this is so true and love the information in your blog today.  Make ita great day!

 

Dec 02, 2024 09:54 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Thank you for stopping by Will Hamm 

Dec 02, 2024 02:48 PM
Dennis Neal
Exp Realty of Southern California, Inc. - Big Bear Lake, CA
Your Home Sold in 21 Days or We Sell It For Free

Maya Angelou’s wisdom is incredibly relevant in today’s world. Whether we’re navigating a difficult election or facing challenges in real estate, her message reminds us of the power we have to take action or shift our perspective. Embracing change—either by getting involved or adjusting our mindset—can lead to growth and positive outcomes.

Dec 02, 2024 09:54 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

You are so right Dennis Neal The only constant is change and we must embrace it by getting involved or adjusting our mindset. Anger and hatred is a dangerous combination!

Dec 02, 2024 02:50 PM
Adam Feinberg
Elegran - Manhattan, NY
NYC Condo, Co-op, and Townhouse Advisor

Maya Angelou had a townhouse in Harlem (with an elevator), sold after her passing. I have been thinking about an episode on my Harlem Stories Podcast about Maya Angelou in an untraditional way- connecting dots that probably were never intended to be connected - so it's not an easy episode to create. For example i.e. Maya Angelou had a home in Harlem, she was featured on a coin, and the former headquarters for the American Numismatic (coin collectors) Society- the ANS was also based in upper Manhattan. It's a work in progress- and I have been thinking about this topic for the last couple of years. Maybe next year I will find the right way to weave these points into an interesting story for the podcast..to be determined. 

Dec 02, 2024 12:27 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

There is no question you will be able to do it Adam Feinberg 

Dec 02, 2024 02:51 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Maya Angelou's wisdom shows us that if we face change by doing something or thinking differently, we can grow and make things better!

Dec 02, 2024 12:57 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Absolutely Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 

Dec 02, 2024 02:51 PM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 
So nice to see your names! Lynn

Dec 02, 2024 05:34 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you for sharing this insightful blog post, Dorie Dillard Austin TX, which beautifully captures Maya Angelou's wisdom on resilience and proactive engagement in challenging times. Your reflections inspire a constructive approach to navigating division and fostering positive change.

Dec 02, 2024 01:34 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Thank you Lew Corcoran ..wallowing in anger and hatred is a dangerous combination!

Dec 02, 2024 02:53 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Dorie- This has always been a favorite quote of mine. The immature child stomps their foot, grabs their toys and says "I'm outta here."  Maturity is what Maya Angelou's quote is talking about. 

Dec 02, 2024 05:15 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

You nailed it Kathy Streib !!

Dec 02, 2024 08:12 PM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside - Atlanta, GA
Concierge Service for Our Atlanta Sellers & Buyers

Dorie Dillard Austin TX 
Just the reminder I need tonight. Stuck in a difficult project and need to keep my anger down. Her comment which you have shared with us reminds me of the Serenity Prayer.
All the best - Lynn
GOD grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, courage to change the things I can, and wisdom to know the difference.”

Dec 02, 2024 05:37 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Yes Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375 ..they both ring true!

Dec 02, 2024 08:12 PM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

Maya Angelou's wisdom is timeless.  It boils down to what we can't change externally, we can change within ourselves.

Dec 02, 2024 07:21 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX

Well said Myrl Jeffcoat 

Dec 02, 2024 08:13 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Loved your post Dorie Dillard Austin TX  I am all about changing my attitude and I have on this platform, thanks to many phony baloney members and who the nameless faceless ARMS are but ironically, I did learn who they are and no wonder I unfriended them years ago:)), Endre

Dec 02, 2024 09:13 PM
Joe Mojica
Laer Realty Partners Bowen - Port St Lucie, FL
Your Home Adds Value to You

Dorie - Maya Angelou's profound wisdom is timeless. It took years for me to follow put her quote into motion, "If you don't like something change it. If you can't change it, change your attitude."  Once I was able to put it into motion, it change how I handle matters in life. Attitude is a powerful tool. It helps us navigate our circumstances in a way that makes enormous impact. 

Dec 03, 2024 03:52 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

A very wise woman indeed.  I am really looking forward to all of the positive changes being made in the world around us.

Dec 03, 2024 04:37 AM