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Monday Motivational Thoughts by John Wooden...

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Real Estate Agent with Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties 01238708

As most of you know I am a huge fan of positive motivations, hence I love Monday and this platform allows me to post about motivations, not just on Mondays, but any time.

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How do you handle Criticism and Praise? like John Wooden I take criticism from outsiders with a grain of salt.

"...You're also going to receive praise on occasions. Some of it will be deserved and some of it will be undeserved. Either way, deserved or undeserved, you're going to love to like it..."

"...however, your strength as an individual depends on how you respond to both criticism and praise. If you let either one have any special effect on you, it's going to hurt us. Whether it's criticism or praise, deserve or undeserved makes no difference. If we let it affect us, it hurts us".

May I ask you to read the above quotes at least twice and let it sink in. This is truly wisdom and if you get it, then it will motivate you to be a better person, not just on this platform but in life. I find it is not that easy to handle the above message. Nevertheless, it is a powerful message.

 

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Wishing you a safe and healthy life and I look forward to your comments. If you are looking for a knowledgeable, focused and goal-oriented Realtor in the Beverly Hills area who will help you achieve your Real Estate goals, please reach out to me directly! If you are looking for a pet friendly Beverly Hills Realtor who can handle and sell the most difficult properties that no one else could, please reach out to me directly!! If you are considering buying or selling a home, a luxury home, luxury investment real estate, luxury vacation homes, or luxury beach properties in Southern California, Los Angeles, Century City, Westwood, West Hollywood, Beverly Hills, Marina Del Rey, Venice or Malibu, feel free to contact me at 310.486.1002 ( m) homes@endrebarath.com or visit one of my websites at https://www.endrebarath.com I contribute a portion of my commission to local animal rescue organizations. Endre Barath, Jr. Realtor at Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties DRE#01238708 

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Doug Rogers
RE/MAX Coastal Properties - Destin, FL
Your Real Estate Resource!

I need to add this to my reading list. Thanks for the suggestion!

Dec 03, 2024 04:19 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

This is a book that I should definitely consider having in my home since I have always been a fan of John Wooden.  I recently purchased the Marcus Aurelius book Meditations, so I am looking forward to reading that.

Dec 03, 2024 04:48 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Endre. John Wooden was terrific basketball coach but even better as a thinker and developer of men. Just ask some of his former players. Enjoy your day.

Dec 03, 2024 04:59 AM
Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

Thanks for sharing Endre, great quotes from John Wooden!!!

"...Your strength as an individual depends on how you respond to both criticism and praise. If you let either one have any special effect on you, it's going to hurt us. Whether it's criticism or praise, deserve or undeserved makes no difference. If we let it affect us, it hurts us".

Dec 03, 2024 05:21 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Most people seem to give more weight to criticism than praise, and that does them no good.

Dec 03, 2024 05:51 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Endre, John Wooden's true greatness is his wisdom and ability to shape character! 

Dec 03, 2024 06:02 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Those are truly wise words, and well worth reading multiple times not just twice. I never got to see him coaching but have heard a lot about him and stories about him too. He seems like a great person as a mentor and guide for life.

Dec 03, 2024 06:57 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Endre, John Wooden received lots of both praise and criticism during his time, and in my opinion, he handled both in the graceful way he handled everything else.

Dec 03, 2024 07:17 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Endre... John Wooden would certainly know about praise and criticism. And he's a prime example of how to handle both.

Dec 03, 2024 08:12 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Endre- the key is we have control over how we respond to something and it is that act that determines who we are. 

Dec 03, 2024 07:28 PM
Joe Mojica
Laer Realty Partners Bowen - Port St Lucie, FL
Your Home Adds Value to You

Endre- John Wooden was an honorable man and coach; he had a long life.  He touched many with his famous quotes. I try to read anywhere from 10-20 books a year. This is one I plan to read. Thanks for sharing it with the AR community.  Have a terrific day. - Joe

Dec 04, 2024 04:09 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning chef Endre Barath, Jr. ,

I had to read these quotes several times and let the message sink in! John Wooden's true greatness is his wisdom and his ability to touch so many with is quotes. Thank you for sharing these ..good ones to reflect on.

Dec 04, 2024 05:11 AM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

This is one book I don't have. Over the years I have read many quotes by John Wooden and he provided incredible insight and wisdom.

Dec 04, 2024 05:21 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

This is a little bit of a different direction Endre.....not so much about me but rather another person.  I posted a very upbeat post and received a very 'odd' answer from someone I've known most of my life. I knew it was about him, and not me at all.  But I was concerned that something was not quite right with him in the moment....or who knows bigger than that.  I reached out, and he's chosen to be pretty much 'mum;s the word',  Which I respect.  I reached out to my brother to see if he knew what could be going on.  He had a pretty good idea.  We're both going to continue 'loving' him as much as he'll allow and if not, well, we'll still love him!  So that's way off the track but it's been on my mind for a day or so now....thanks for listening!

Dec 04, 2024 09:57 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Endre:

Thank you for the inspiration. I have only read what you have shared from John Wooden but perhaps should just go buy the book!

Jeff

Dec 04, 2024 07:34 PM
Beth Atalay
Cam Realty and Property Management - Clermont, FL
Cam Realty of Clermont FL

Hello Endre Barath, Jr. great way to start any day, great quotes by John Wooden.

Dec 06, 2024 02:46 AM