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The Ultimate Gift Exchange

December 2024 AR Challenge Entry. . .

 

While I may not always participate, each AR challenge presents the opportunity to ponder.  And thanks to Carol Williams* and co-host Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 this month, I share this pondertunity. Coincidentally the term which combines ponder with opportunity was originally coined by Carol. *Sorry, Carol no royalties to share, as none have been received.

 

These days this former real estate practitioner reads more than I comment. And comments more than I post. Although the blog roll can be a mixed assortment, I believe it’s a gift as well as an opportunity to give. It can be a ponderworthy experience.

 

Initial involvement with this platform saw rare comments on posts I wrote. Commenting on other posts was also unfamiliar to me. ActiveRain participation was and remains a lesson in learning in countless ways.

 

So, yes, I think giving the gift of a thoughtful comment works in the present and as an offer in kind. Admittedly, I don't always succeed in that goal, but I attempt to share something worthy of reading. Over the years, I may have provided a White Elephant experience but there is often a reason behind every exchange.

 

 

While I understand how reciprocity plays into commenting for some, I see it differently. It may be additional evidence that each of us is unique in that way. Or it may be something else. Overall, I feel fortunate for the reception I have received throughout my membership.

 

 

 

 

 

Even the recent AR message calling me a phony baloney was a gift as it prompted thoughts. I transferred that criticism and put it into its proper place. Ironically, the utterance transported me to Bologna Italy where I had visited many years ago.  That remark also brings this familiar-to-me-advertising tune to mind:

 

 

 

 

 

My bologna has a first name,

it's O-S-C-A-R.

My bologna has a second name,

it's M-A-Y-E-R.

Oh, I love to eat it everyday,

And if you ask me why I'll say,

'Cause Oscar Mayer has a way with B-O-L-O-G-N-A

 

 

 

 

Sure, this combination-of-challenge-options entry may be unconventional, but be advised no pigs of any kind have been slaughtered in the blending of its ingredients. As for the images, the feature graphic is from this site and the others in this post are from canstockphoto.com. And, yes, while it may be less, I will still comment when and where I wish unless I hear otherwise from you. Thank you for the gift of giving.

Posted by

Michael Jacobs

 

CalBRE # 01165532

P. O. Box 587

Pasadena, CA 91102

Call/Text:  818.516.4393

mtj916@gmail.com

 

 

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Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Doug Jones I think that’s the beauty of it to see everything everybody has to offer. I’m very macro and micro levels all at once.

Dec 11, 2024 09:14 PM
Michael Jacobs

Laura Cerrano - I'm unsure of your comment but thanks. 

Dec 12, 2024 06:54 AM
Debra Leisek
Bay Realty,Inc Homer Alaska - Homer, AK

I cannot believe someone said that about you! What a ding dong!  And not at all worthy of your attention. 

Better not to ponder on that too much Michael Jacobs

Now we are all singing it!

Dec 12, 2024 12:03 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

AMEN, Debra Leisek! There are far too many here that adore Michael to waste any energy on the bully. 

Dec 12, 2024 06:17 AM
Michael Jacobs

Debra Leisek and Debe Maxwell, CRS - despite those who think otherwise, I am not so naive to that I am universally loved or even tolerated. However, I am aware that the world is a big place filled with many sorts of people.  So is the community of  ActiveRain.  And while I may no longer be active in the industry, "moving on" remains an excellent strategy.  Challenges and not.  

Dec 12, 2024 07:05 AM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Hi. Long time no talk.  I've been busy.  Finally figured out how to log on again (thx to support...which actually provided support!  Nice to see a familiar face. Congrats on the feature and I hope you have a nice sandwich soon.

Dec 12, 2024 08:41 AM
Michael Jacobs

Debbie Gartner - what a nice surprise to "see" you make an AR appearance.  Would it be incorrect to say it "floors" me?  There's no doubt "that" covers much of what surfaces in and around ActiveRainLand these days. But let's be mindful - such things have long been a part of social media.

I hope this return trip to this community means that all is well with you and in your world.  Happy Thursday - Happy 2024 as it comes to a close.  And best wishes as 2025 rushes to make its entrance.  

Dec 12, 2024 09:42 AM
John Pusa
Glendale, CA

Hello Michael Jacobs you always post great educational blogs, and good pondering. 

Dec 12, 2024 08:20 PM
Michael Jacobs

John Pusa - thank you.  

Dec 13, 2024 03:09 AM
Brenda J. Andrew
ULTIMA REAL ESTATE - Willis, TX
Professional Realtor in N Houston & Corpus Christi

That was hilarious Michael Jacobs - you never disappoint.  Now I’ll have that song on my mind all day!  Have a great weekend and thanks for the smiles!

Dec 13, 2024 06:35 AM
Michael Jacobs

Brenda J. Andrew - I am happy the memory of that commercial inspired a smile.  Happy Friday the 13th.  

Dec 13, 2024 06:48 AM
Michael J. Perry
Fathom Realty - Lancaster, PA
Lancaster, PA Relo Specialist

Michael , your comments always make me think. Often , I read them two times (lol) ......

Dec 13, 2024 08:14 AM
Michael Jacobs

Michael J. Perry - admittedly, I read/re-read them multiple times too.  For multiple reasons.  🙃

Dec 14, 2024 10:20 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Saturday morning, Michael. Have a great day and an outstanding weekend.

Dolores and I plan to watch the Army/Navy game this afternoon.

Dec 14, 2024 09:52 AM
Michael Jacobs

Roy Kelley - I am looking forward to another good day in Southern California, I hope you enjoy yours in Maryland too.

Dec 14, 2024 10:22 AM
Barbara Michaluk
Weichert Realtors | Phone Direct 240-506-2434 | 301-681-0550 office - Silver Spring, MD
Leisure World Specialist / Full Service REALTOR

Michael, I agree that your comments are a gift and I appreciate your way of gifting. Keep being your unique self and sharing that with all of us on this platform.

Dec 15, 2024 04:41 AM
Michael Jacobs

Barbara Michaluk - I apologize for the tardy reply to your thoughtful comment.  I hope this December continues to go well for you and in your world. 🌲🌎🌲

Dec 21, 2024 08:54 AM
Matthew Klinowski, PA
Downing Frye Realty - Naples, FL
Naples Golf Guy | Find Your Dream Lifestyle

Michael, very witty and inspirational comments. At the same time bringing back childhood memories...My bolonga has a first name! Enjoy your Sunday.

Dec 15, 2024 06:32 AM
Michael Jacobs

Matthew Klinowski, PA - you're right that comments can add a lot to a post.  And while bologna may not flavorful by itself, the extras added to it when used in a sandwich can make it quite appealing. Thank you spicing up the comments on this post today. Happy Sunday.  

Dec 15, 2024 07:29 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Tuesday morning, Michael. Thanks for your comments on my recent post.

Have a great day!

Dec 17, 2024 07:50 AM
Michael Jacobs

Roy Kelley - your AR December 2024 Challenge entry was a good read.  Thank you. 

Dec 17, 2024 04:40 PM
Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

     Mystery meat, meat by products, swept up from whatever fell on the floor. Some blog posts and comments are just lipstick on a pig. But yours are more thought provoking. Make you stop, smile and climb up up and beyond the daily din of life Michael Jacobs.

     Keep up the rattle and hum good kind of writing that stands out among the rest of rush hour drive time bloggers. AR experience, this ain't no disco, ain't no country club either.

 

Dec 18, 2024 04:05 AM
Michael Jacobs

Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573 - thank you for the comment which has much to "chew on".  

Dec 18, 2024 08:09 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573  great choice  this says it all 😍

Dec 18, 2024 07:27 AM
Michael Jacobs

Hannah Williams - I agree.  

Dec 18, 2024 08:10 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP
DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Selling Homes Changing Lives

Michael Jacobs - giving the gift of comments is something everyone should consider. I know, I believe in gifting comments, and I have appreciated your comments over the last several years. It's always good to hear from you and you really, really read blog posts and leave appropriate comments too. That's something I will always remember about you. 

Dec 21, 2024 04:54 AM
Michael Jacobs

Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP - you continue to share thoughtful comments.  I see evidence of this not only on my posts but on those written by other members.  Such things matter.  Thank you.   

Dec 21, 2024 08:56 AM
Patricia Feager, ABR,CRS,GRI,MRP

Michael Jacobs - we are in agreement. Thoughtful and deeply appreciated comments are the gifts that keep on giving.

Dec 21, 2024 12:15 PM
Gloria Todor
Premier Property Sales & Rentals - Springfield, PA
& Doug Durren (484) 431-3686 in SE PA

Michael thanks for sharing how you turned that negative bologna comment into a positive nugget for us all us to ponder and to be reminded of a jingle from the past.  So true, writing comments is a gift to others, usually positive gifts by most here.

And...I am always amazed at the output of so many here who are able to comment with such frequency. 

Enjoy this holiday season.

Dec 21, 2024 06:47 PM
Michael Jacobs

Gloria Todor - while turning lemons into lemonade can be admired, it's not a skill I can practice with skill.  I agree that comments on posts can add a lot more to any post.  

Dec 22, 2024 04:39 PM
Jeff&Grace Safrin
F.C.Tucker 1st Team Real Estate - Valparaiso, IN
SpousesSellingHousesTM

Michael I like that you took a tasteless bologna comment and made it into a delicious Bolognese sauce :)

Happy Holidays  or  Buone Feste !

Sincerely, 

Grace

Dec 22, 2024 03:56 PM
Michael Jacobs

Grace Jeff&Grace Safrin - appropriately enough this member has a reputation of sorts for stirring up a lot of stuff in this community. Oh, well - it's best to move on to the next course.  Happy Holidays to you as well - thank you for the comment.  

Dec 22, 2024 04:44 PM
Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

You are a funny man with a twisted sense of humor. I'm happy you commented on my recent post so I could come here and reciprocate. 

Here in the South we love the Oscar Meyer ditty and know it word for word. Marketing at its finest!

Dec 23, 2024 03:37 PM
Michael Jacobs

Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty - I, too, love examples of marketing.  The cleverness of a message makes it more special.  And memorable in many ways.  While I may need to verify the lyrics and refrain from singing them out loud, many are quite hummable.  Merry Christmas Eve.  

Dec 24, 2024 02:59 AM
Steffy Hristova
HomeSmart Elite Group Tempe AZ Tel: 602.710.8161 - Tempe, AZ
Tempe AZ Realtor - Your Home Close to Your Work!

Michael, what an entertaining post. I have never thought of comments as gifts, but they are indeed. I always enjoy your comments, and blog posts. I have a memory of the market reports you were writing - it was a learning for me at the time. 

Dec 28, 2024 01:49 PM
Michael Jacobs

Steffy Hristova - ActiveRain membership is a medley, a mixture, a mishmash, a mishap, maybe a mashup of events. . .   Mmmm. . .     And much more.

Dec 29, 2024 05:30 AM
Lanre-"THE REAL ESTATE FARMER" Folayan
Samson Properties - Bowie, MD
I don't make promises.I deliver results.SOLD HOMES

Michael not the My bologna has a first name,it's O-S-C-A-R. I haven't heard that in years. Pondertunity is a new word for me. You learn something new everyday even here on Activerain. Thanks for sharing.

Dec 30, 2024 09:52 PM
Michael Jacobs

Lanre-"THE REAL ESTATE FARMER" Folayan - pondertunity is a fun word even if it's made up.  Kinda like the Oscar Mayer bologna lyrics.  May your close of 2024 continue to bring success in 2025.  Happy New Year.  

Dec 31, 2024 03:52 AM
Ann Hayden 636-399-7544
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties-St. Louis Missouri 314-775-2050 - Des Peres, MO
SelectAnn.com

Michael Jacobs ,

Thank you for posting your pondertunity.  It makes me think about how often I have the time to comment and the friendships that have been created through those interactions.  ActiveRain has taught me that I have kindred spirits everywhere.  

Happy New Year!!

Ann Hayden in Cold Missouri

Dec 31, 2024 10:50 AM
Michael Jacobs

Ann Hayden 636-399-7544 - an ActiveRain membership definitely creates opportunities to ponder and wonder about the interactions that are created in this community.  Thank you for the thoughtful comment.  

Dec 31, 2024 11:41 AM
Ann Hayden 636-399-7544
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Select Properties-St. Louis Missouri 314-775-2050 - Des Peres, MO
SelectAnn.com

Michael Jacobs ,

Thank you for replying to my comment.  The people I have "met" here are so very nice in person! (too).

Ann

 

Dec 31, 2024 11:44 AM