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A Letter to Cousin Faye. 💌

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A Letter to Cousin Faye. 💌

 

A cross-country trip from San Diego to Georgia back in the 1960's meant financially challenging times ahead. Thankfully, we were taken in by kind relatives because life for a divorcee wasn't easy, especially with 6 children in tow.

 

One cousin grabbed the heart immediately, though older by 8 years, Faye and I bonded for life. As a 4-year old, starting kindergarten, she walked me to school every day, holding hands the whole time and then home again.

 

 

Through much day-to-day chaos, she was steady, giving the attention that was very much needed at that time. As I grew, so did the appreciation and admiration for Faye. It's true that friends are forever and cousins are for life!

 

Though we eventually moved away from Georgia, part of me remained. Visits were sporadic at best through the years, we remained in touch, I often reminded her how much she meant to me, always connecting at the heart. 

 

 

My cousin Faye was a genuine soul, generous in nature with a raucous sense of humor, who loved fiercely. Her daughter Shay, an only child, was lavished in affection her entire life, their relationship true with sincere intentions.

 

 

Recently, Faye became ill and passed away on December 6th, 2024, on the same day as my mother's birthday. Her daughter posted this poem in her honor:

Warm summer sun,
Shine kindly here,
Warm southern wind,
Blow softly here.
Green sod above,
Lie light, lie light,
Good night, dear heart.
Good night, good night.
-Mark Twain
 
 
You see, love is a gift that can last a lifetime. Though the letter may not be written down on paper now, the true affection felt for Faye will forever reside in my heart. Good night dear cousin 'till we meet again. 💌
 
 
 
This is an entry to: December 2024 ActiveRain Holiday Gift Challenge. Many thanks to Carol Williams and Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 for hosting this months challenge!
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Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

It could have a double meaning and I'll bet they are both celebrating their reunion in the heavens, Will Hamm!

Dec 08, 2024 05:24 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

The sadness felt means we were connected at the heart and now I must wait until final graduation to see her again, Aura Alex. Thank you for the thought-full comment!

Dec 08, 2024 05:27 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Thank you, Roy, there are no guarantees of tomorrow, that is why we live for today!

Dec 08, 2024 05:28 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Miles have separated us for the majority of years, Lew Corcoran and the connection was strong and the love does live on!

Dec 08, 2024 05:29 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

I remember as a young teen going back to visit the Georgia relatives, Faye showed me around the chicken processing plant where she worked, she loved it! I didn't eat chicken for several years after that...

Some things just hit hard that way, Michael Jacobs!

Dec 08, 2024 05:38 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Hello Dorie Dillard Austin TX, she will remain there as long as I live but thankfully, her memory will go on through her daughter and family!

Dec 08, 2024 05:40 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

God knew I needed someone at that time in life and he put us together and I thank him for that, George Souto. He is good!

Dec 08, 2024 05:45 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Navigating death is not an easy feat, Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375. Seems like I have been in a constant state of grief over loved ones passing in the last several years.

Thank you for the kind words, they are appreciated!

Dec 08, 2024 05:47 PM
Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

Thank you Wanda for the story and for your loss but happy memories. We all need a "Faye" in our lives. Jeff

Dec 08, 2024 06:44 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! Thanks for the heartfelt entry. You were fortunate to have had Faye, but I think she was just as lucky to have you, your admiration, and your love!

Dec 08, 2024 07:42 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Wanda- I am so sorry for the loss of your cousin. What a beautiful, giving soul she must have been, and I have a feeling you have a lot of Faye in you. 

Dec 08, 2024 08:03 PM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Wanda it breaks my heart reading this story and I am so proud of you to be able to write about it two days later, you are a strong woman, My thoughts are with you with the loss of your cousin, Endre

Dec 08, 2024 10:32 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Such a wonderful person your cousin Faye was and I am so sorry to hear of her passing.  I can tell that you loved her very much.

Dec 09, 2024 03:37 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Awww, I am so sorry to hear your Faye passed away. What a beautiful tribute to a wonderful woman. Sending you hugs.

Dec 09, 2024 05:24 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

She did more for me than she ever realized, Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI. This heart sincerely knows!

Dec 09, 2024 06:01 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Kindness comes in many forms, Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400. Faye had a profound impact on my young life and am thankful beytond measure!

Dec 09, 2024 06:06 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

Our hearts melded and that forged our relationship, Kathy Streib. It was beneficial for a little girl who needed someone to care enough, Faye did!

Dec 09, 2024 06:17 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

After Faye suddenly passed away, I felt it necessary to honor her in a way that no one else did, with my words, Endre Barath, Jr.. Thank you, sincerely.

Dec 09, 2024 07:18 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

The true connections we make in life are often unbreakable, until death's finality separates us, Brian England. The wonderful memories are the result!

Dec 09, 2024 07:20 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

She was the best, Kat Palmiotti and the last to pass in her immediate family of 2 brothers and 4 sisters. Was blessed to be in her life!

Dec 09, 2024 07:28 AM