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Those Darn Curmudgeons

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O course I have heard the word curmudgeon before, decades ago BUT where did my 23 year old son hear that word?

Where ever he heard it it must have been defined well because I think he applied it perfectly. Webster says: A curmudgeon is a crusty, ill-tempered, and usually old man. I am happy to say that I'm pretty sure that I am NOT a curmudgeon, at least not very often.

As a devoted Christian when I hear the word Christmas my immediate thought is the birth of Christ, my Lord and Saviour. I do think that Santa is a distraction from the true meaning of Christmas but still, images like the one above makes me smile. 

For those who do not know the true reason for the season this can be an extremely stressful time of year. Financial pressures, relational problems, and loneliness can bring on horrible depression. A Christian can reflect upon the Christmas story and remember that he/she is the one who received the greatest gift ever given, truly a gift from God, the gift of His own flesh and blood. This gift lifted the heavy burden of the Law off of the Christians shoulders and replacing it with grace and forgiveness. 

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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning again, Bob... one thing I appreciate about getting older is that when I'm a crabby old lady people get it! :)))

Dec 09, 2024 06:53 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

🎅Thanks for the LOL Nina Hollander, Broker , my Love. 

Dec 09, 2024 07:50 AM
Bill Salvatore - East Valley
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

My wife calls me this often, great information. Thanks for sharing it.

Have a super fantastic week!

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Dec 09, 2024 07:15 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

Thank you Bill Salvatore - East Valley . Hard to believe you could be a cumudgeon.

Dec 09, 2024 07:48 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Bob - I don't know where Timmothy "found" curmudgeon as I guess I'm too old to know it was "lost".   Although, it may not be commonly used, I believe it's usage could apply to those who exhibit those "qualities" at any age.  

Dec 09, 2024 07:17 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

Any age for sure Michael Jacobs but I need to work to avoid being a  "Grumpy Old Man" more often then I'd like to admit.

Dec 09, 2024 07:47 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Bob,
Sadly, even those who know the "reason for the season" are under stress due to its over-commercialization. I love the idea of giving, but there is too much pressure to buy things. Let's give the gift of our time.

Dec 09, 2024 07:54 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

Exactly Carol Williams . My mom super showered us kids with presents and I think that act alone warped our perception of the meaning of Christmas. I'm glad I figured it out eventually. While Carol and I were generous with our kids we went out of our way to let them know the true meaning of Christmas.

Dec 09, 2024 08:28 AM
Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

Good Morning Bob "RealMan" Timm 

There are so many forces, seen and unseen, at work in our lives that it is easy to become overwhelmed and grumpy and maybe even get stuck in that mode. 

Dec 09, 2024 08:09 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

All very true Doug Dawes . I don't think I've ever been "stuck" in that mode because I am well aware that if I am unhappy it's usually by my own choice.

Dec 09, 2024 08:31 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Happy  Monday Bob and can not say I heard this word before but my wife said she did.  Make it a great week.

 

Dec 09, 2024 09:22 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

That's the plan... to make it a great week Will Hamm ☺️. You too.

Dec 09, 2024 11:03 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Bob,

My dad use to use the word curmudgeon for a man who lived down the street from us. He always told us to kill him with kindness and one day he might break out a smile. My dad was right! He did!

Dec 09, 2024 09:24 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

Great story and great lesson Dorie Dillard Austin TX . Your dads understanding has been proven over and over again in my life as well.

Dec 09, 2024 11:02 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

I'm waiting for the answer to the last question, Bob.  Too funny!

Dec 09, 2024 04:18 PM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

I thought it was a great question as well Myrl Jeffcoat . Let's hope he didn't drive home that way.

Dec 10, 2024 07:13 AM
Myrl Jeffcoat
Sacramento, CA
Greater Sacramento Realtor - Retired

CONGRATULATIONS Bob, on having this blog FEATURED in the Old Farts Clubgroup!  

Dec 09, 2024 04:19 PM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

Cool! Thank you Myrl Jeffcoat it is always an honor to be featured in the Old Farts Clubgroup!  

Dec 10, 2024 07:14 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

Good for you Bob "RealMan" Timm  and your strong faith, having been born in a communist country and then immigrated to Austria one of the most Catholic countries in Europe, I went to Catholic Gramar school and became an altar boy.... so with that said I love your post, Endre

Dec 09, 2024 10:33 PM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

Thank you Endre Barath, Jr. I find your story very captivating, I would certainly purchase a book of your exploits if one was available???

Dec 10, 2024 07:17 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Haha, I am getting a visual of a curmudgeon doing that to someone in the grocery store wearing a Santa hat and it made me laugh.

Dec 10, 2024 03:48 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

It is fun (and easy) to imagine Brian England but in this time even a curmudgeon would be in fear of their life committing such an action. 😳

Dec 10, 2024 07:20 AM