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šŸŽ…šŸ» Jingle All the Way: Rain in Holiday Gifts!šŸŽ

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Real Estate Agent with Big Block LPT Realty 858.232.8722 CA BRE# 01261476

The best gift I ever received was a keychain. šŸ¤” Huh?

Over the years, I have been fortunate enough to receive wonderful gifts: drum equipment, clothing, gadgets, books, music, leather jackets, jewelry, technology, tools, and even the original hood of my 1957 Chevy one Christmas! So many amazing gifts.

However, about six years ago, Ailina NelsonĀ  gave me a small, unassuming distressed metal keychain engraved with the following coordinates:

37.57053149604448, -122.33591326372574.

What could that possibly mean?

Those numbers marked the GPS coordinates of where we first met—the moment I laid eyes on her and felt my heart skip a beat. It was a crisp October morning in 1999 when I walked into my real estate office, just like I had for the past six months. But that day, there was a new smile at the front desk of Cashin Company REALTORS in San Mateo, CA.

Now, Cashin is long gone, and our old office has turned into a dental office, but the building still looks the same.

Little did I know that morning, my life was about to change dramatically. I would soon realize that my current life wasn’t working for me. I hadn't planned it with purpose and that reality hit me deeply, I couldn't shake it. For the first time, I understood that I needed to take control and make changes, no matter the cost.

I knew that if I didn’t act on what my heart, mind, and gut were urging me to do, I would end up being the guy who dies with his music still in him. As Tennyson once urged, we must be strong in will, strive, seek, find, and never yield.

That keychain, those coordinates, and all that they represent have been the greatest gift I’ve ever received, a gift that continues to unfold in my life each day. They symbolize a profound turning point, encapsulating not just a moment in time, but a journey of growth, love, and transformation over the last 25 years.

Each time I see those coordinates, I am reminded of the serendipity of life, the beauty of love found, and the importance of embracing change. Truly, it is this gift that keeps on giving, enriching my life and filling my ā¤ļø heart with gratitude.Ā 

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Thomas J. Nelson
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Thomas...Ā  if this challenge was a real "contest" I think your entry would be the winner hands-down!

Dec 14, 2024 06:24 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

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Dec 14, 2024 08:01 AM
Carol Williams

I was thinking that, too, Nina Hollander, Broker  ā¤ļø

Dec 14, 2024 08:10 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, ePROĀ 

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What a beautiful gift! Your entry is a perfect example of why this month's contest is repeated each year... so meaningful.

Dec 14, 2024 07:05 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Thomas - the specialness of this gift is undeniable.Ā Ā 

Dec 14, 2024 07:09 AM
Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

What a great story of love and gift giving. Congratulations to YOU Thomas! Jeff

Dec 14, 2024 07:55 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Thomas.
What a perfect gift. It makes me wish I would have thought of that when my husband was alive. ā¤ļø

Dec 14, 2024 08:11 AM
Carol Williams

Wow. Thank you, Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, ePRO   Now I need to figure out a unique way to use it. ā¤ļø

Dec 14, 2024 09:39 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Where did you two first meet? That first encounter Carol Williams ?

Dec 14, 2024 08:18 AM
Carol Williams

Hi Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, ePRO 
We first met at the Wenatchee airport where we were both being interviewed for a 2-year leadership group. We were both selected for the program and spent the next two years getting to know each other as we car-pooled to monthly events around the state.  We were married a year after the program ended. ā¤ļø

Dec 14, 2024 08:30 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Oh Carol Williams  I love your story, a work romance like Ailina & I.
You and your husband's coordinates ā¤ļø forever are:

47.40456623778565, -120.21022200562334

Those will take you to the front entrance of the airport
and down memory lane! Merry Christmas!!!

Dec 14, 2024 09:38 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Thomas. What a great story. I had a similar journey, no keychain, with 47 plus years of marriage the was not in the plans oh so long ago. Like you I chose wisely. Congrats! Enjoy your day.

Dec 14, 2024 08:58 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you for sharing this heartfelt reflection on the true meaning behind gifts, Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, ePRO! Your story beautifully illustrates how something seemingly simple can carry deep emotional significance and inspire personal growth.

Dec 14, 2024 11:55 AM
Ailina Nelson
Vision Drive Realty - La Jolla, CA
Learn To Dance In The Rain

Reading this brought tears to my eyes! Joyful ones of course!!! Thank you for the kind words and for making what I thought was a small gesture into something that you still remember and cherish!!

I'm grateful for all of our moments that we have had throughout our adventurous journey! Love you so much

Dec 14, 2024 05:27 PM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Dec 14, 2024 05:52 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Thomas- I love this!!!Ā  Ā It makes me want to get the coordinates of where Larry and I first met. And...I love that pic of you and Ailina!!!

Dec 14, 2024 07:10 PM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

ā¤ļø Thank you Kathy Streib - this contest make me reach deep inside for this and I appreciated the reminder of my true gifts in this life! šŸŽ„Season's GreetingsšŸŽ…šŸ» and much success to you in 2025! šŸ„‚šŸ¾

Dec 15, 2024 07:35 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Dec 14, 2024 07:24 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Thomas,

Somehow I missed your loving post! What a sensational story! Thank goodness Kathy Streib featured your post in her Sunday series or I would have missed it!

Dec 15, 2024 05:00 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Ah thank you Dorie Dillard Austin TX - it was a pleasure to write this one. Thanks for catching it on the replay! šŸ˜‰

Dec 15, 2024 07:36 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Awww, I love this story of your most treasured gift! I just might have to get something similar for my hubby.

Dec 15, 2024 07:09 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Yes & thank you Kat - it's a very sentimental thing to do, it really got into my heart to know she did the research and wanted to memorialize our first meeting - it means that much more when you've been together for decades! šŸŽ„Merry ChristmasšŸŽ…šŸ» and much success to you in 2025! šŸ„‚šŸ¾

Dec 15, 2024 07:37 AM
Kat Palmiotti

Thank you Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, ePRO - I wanted to come back to let you know I ordered a key chain as well, with the coordinates of the first time my hubby and I met in person - on a sidewalk in front of a restaurant. And he used to teach celestial and terrestrial navigation so coordinates are right up his alley. I can't wait to get it and give it to him!

Dec 16, 2024 06:18 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTORĀ® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

That is such an amazing gift and I am glad it was such a turning point in your life!Ā  You and Ailina Nelson have such an amazing relationship and are good people!

Dec 16, 2024 05:39 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Thomas this has got to be the sweetest post ever!Ā  And you win hands down if there was a surprise for this months challenge!Ā  Love it!Ā  Love it!Ā  Love it!

Dec 16, 2024 11:33 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

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Dec 16, 2024 08:29 PM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

What a wonderful gift and a treasure for the rest of you life together. Loved the story!

Dec 23, 2024 07:50 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTORĀ®, EcoBroker, GREEN

What a beautiful story/gift!Ā  What a heartwarming story and profound change for you.Ā  Knowing what your heart wants is the first step toward your future. Thank you so much for sharing!

Dec 27, 2024 11:12 AM
Steffy Hristova
HomeSmart Elite Group Tempe AZ Tel: 602.710.8161 - Tempe, AZ
Tempe AZ Realtor - Your Home Close to Your Work!

Thomas, what an interesting story. A keychain with precise coordinates where you met. I loved the photos you included.

Dec 28, 2024 01:40 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Are we voting on the best entry? (LOL)

Winner Winner - his wife and life are winners.Ā 

Ever since I started following you and reading your posts, I've known how much you love and appreciate your wife, Ailina.Ā 

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Dec 28, 2024 02:15 PM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR Ā® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Oh wow Thank You Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist - that's very kind of you to share.

Dec 28, 2024 07:55 PM