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The Hole in the Door

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Real Estate Agent with Foster Realty, Inc. RB-15721

I’ve seen my fair share of tenant disputes as a property manager. Most are run-of-the-mill gripes about security deposit deductions for cleaning or minor repairs, but nothing prepared me for this tenant.

His complaint stemmed from a $40 deduction to repair a hole in the bedroom door of a condo he had recently vacated. During the final walkthrough, I noted the damage as a glaring defect compared to the pre-move-in photos. I’d sent him the usual itemized list with photo evidence, expecting him to grumble. He was a difficult guy. What I got instead was a full-on meltdown.

He stormed into the office unannounced, a towering man with a red face and an energy that radiated anger. Before I could speak, he marched straight up to my desk and launched into a tirade about “unfair charges” and “being set up.”

“I didn’t damage that door!” he yelled, his voice reverberating through the office, frightening everyone.

“We took detailed photos before you moved in—” I began, sliding the printed evidence across the desk. The pictures were dated and time-stamped. “I don’t know if it was you, but somebody in the home while you rented it put a hole in that door.”

“YOU THINK I’M PAYING FOR THAT DOOR?” he screamed, raising a fist at me. “I want my $40 right NOW!”

I looked at one of my staff, standing rigid against the wall, and motioned for her to call 911. As she ran toward the phone, I turned back to the tenant and said, “Your behavior right now is only proving that you put the hole in that door.”

That’s when he lost it and jumped onto my desk, knocking over my soda and scattering papers everywhere.

By now, my assistant was on the phone with 911. Calmly, I stood and started backing away. “Threatening me doesn’t change the facts. The photos are proof that I can use in court.”

“Oh, so now I’m guilty because I punched one little hole in a door?” he spat, inadvertently confessing.

The tenant jumped down and walked out, still muttering about me being “a greedy f*cker.” When the police showed up, I filed a report and went about my day, relieved that I had good pictures of that door before and after his tenancy. Property management is not just about managing units and leases; it is also about managing chaos. And sometimes, that chaos lands squarely on your desk.

🔑 Always take tons of pictures before a tenant moves in and encourage the tenant to do the same.

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Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Wishing you a wonderful 2025 - filled with love and laughter, joy and health, peace and prosperity

Dec 31, 2024 04:20 PM
Sylvia "Elsie" Foster

Happy New Year!

Jan 01, 2025 11:29 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you, Sylvia "Elsie" Foster, for sharing this intense and enlightening story from your experience in property management. Your insights highlight the importance of documentation and effective communication in handling difficult situations!

Jan 01, 2025 02:58 AM
Sylvia "Elsie" Foster

Thank you Lew! We do what we can, but I think some folks are so stressed out that they will lash out at us no matter what we do, whether in property management or sales. Thank you for reading!

Jan 01, 2025 11:29 AM
Bill Salvatore - East Valley
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

 Make 2025 the best year ever, Bill

Thanks for sharing and enjoy your week!

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Jan 01, 2025 03:06 AM
Sylvia "Elsie" Foster

Happy New Year Bill!

Jan 01, 2025 11:25 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Oh my gosh. I'm so glad you had someone else in the office to help out on that day. Certain people can be very scary. You did the right thing, and thank you for sharing.

Jan 01, 2025 04:49 AM
Sylvia "Elsie" Foster

Thank you, Pat! When this happened, we only locked the office door if only one person was working. Now, it is always locked, and visitors must be let in. It is a shame that it has come to this, but violence is a growing concern, even in our business. Stay well!

Jan 01, 2025 11:25 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Elsie. What an encounter! Years ago as an asset manager for a portfolio of many apartment complexes, I did encounter a few disturbed tenants but never a situation as you described. And since I dealt in large numbers was not as organized as you with multiple photos. Kudos to you. Enjoy your day. 

Jan 01, 2025 05:15 AM
Sylvia "Elsie" Foster

Thanks, Wayne! I appreciate that. It is very important that Property Managers be extremely organized. There are just so many little details that can become huge problems. Thanks for reading!

Jan 01, 2025 11:22 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Wow, Sylvia. I'm glad I never experienced anything like that as a Property Manager. His behavior was definitely evidence that he had an anger issue and most assuredly put the hole in the door. He's lucky you didn't charge him more than $40.

Jan 01, 2025 05:57 AM
Sylvia "Elsie" Foster

Exactly Carol! I could have charged him to replace the entire door. Thanks for your comment!

Jan 01, 2025 11:18 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Elsie - like Kat Palmiotti, I am glad there was someone else in the office.  The stiry you share is a sad one, but I am happy that it deescalated before additional harm was done.  Continue to be safe in 2025.  And, of course, document - document - document.  This is an excellent example of evidence of that practice.  

Jan 01, 2025 06:12 AM
Sylvia "Elsie" Foster

Hi Michael! Yes, I was lucky. As agents, we always have to be prepared for anything. Thanks for reading!

Jan 01, 2025 11:17 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

God morning Sylvia "Elsie" Foster ,

Wow! So glad someone else was in the room with you and called 911. You were brave to stand up to him as some of the lunatics are packing guns these days! You are right..take lots of photos before a tenant moves in and many after they move out. It always seems the scales are tipped more in the favor of the tenant so you need lots of proof to support the facts!

Jan 01, 2025 06:53 AM
Sylvia "Elsie" Foster

Happy New Year, Dorie! Yes, the scales definitely tip that way, so we must take hundreds of photos that speak louder than words. 

Jan 01, 2025 11:16 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Sylvia, and this is EXACTLY why I never wanted to get into Property Management.  Too many crazies!  Glad you were safe, but sure you were rattled.

Jan 01, 2025 07:21 AM
Sylvia "Elsie" Foster

Thanks, Joan! I feel you! My mentor told me some 30 years ago that only agents with a screw loose become Property Managers. :) 

Jan 01, 2025 11:14 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Sylvia:

Thank goodness there was someone else in the office when this tenant accosted you. Sounds like a pretty scary situation. Fortunately you had some documentation, and a witness to his behavior.

Jeff

Jan 01, 2025 05:13 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
The best agent in Southern Utah!

That could have ended so badly, glad you maintaimned composure and he left after spewing and flexing, Sylvia. Had a renter back me up on a hill one time because he didn't want to allow the property to be shown, scary stuff!

Jan 01, 2025 05:16 PM
Kris Collis, Associate Broker
Smart Way America Realty - East Stroudsburg, PA
Professional Results you Expect 570-801-5525

Your quick and proactive thinking and that of your assistant saved the day and hastened a good outcone with law enforcement on the scene. Good work.

Jan 01, 2025 05:30 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Just goes to show if you repair small things you don’t have to repair big things very often.

Jan 01, 2025 08:05 PM
Doug Rogers
RE/MAX Coastal Properties - Destin, FL
Your Real Estate Resource!

I saw MANY holes like that in foreclosures and more than my share when I managed properties. Some people are just creeps. And yes, it's always someone else's fault. 

Jan 02, 2025 05:48 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

He just assumed that because it was only $40 you would back down. He is lucky you did not press charges.

Jan 02, 2025 06:43 AM
Gary J. Muccio, Associate Broker
Keller Williams of Central PA - Camp Hill, PA
Exceptional Customer Service!

Happy New Year, Sylvia! And thanks for sharing your story. I'm glad you or no one in your office was harmed by this outraged tenant. And to think, that much rage over a door, he obviously has deeper issues. It is crucial to be detailed when doing property managment, especially since most state laws are lean more toward the tenant than the landlord. Continued success to you in 2025!

Jan 02, 2025 07:13 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

How frightening this man came at you like that. I am so glad you are alright. Wow. Great points about having tons of pictures and evidence as we never know when we might need them.

Jan 02, 2025 09:46 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello and thank you for sharing this great blog with us here in the Rain.  We always have to watch ourselves.

 

Jan 02, 2025 10:15 AM
Michael J. Perry
Fathom Realty - Lancaster, PA
Lancaster, PA Relo Specialist

Interesting Blog Post . Property Managers have all kinds of interesting stories in dealing with Tenants ! ..................

Jan 09, 2025 07:02 PM