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🌟 5 New Ways to Grant Yourself Grace 2025 🌸💖

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Real Estate Agent with Scott Schulte LLC

Real estate is relentless. The calls never stop, hours are never-ending, the deals are never certain, and the competition feels endless. As we dive into 2025, it’s more important than ever to remember one thing: you are human. You’re not just a dealmaker or a salesperson. You have dreams, fears, and a life outside this business. And yet, it’s so easy to forget that under the weight of constant demands.

In 2022, the article "5 Ways to Grant Yourself Grace in Real Estate" reminded us how crucial it is to allow ourselves grace in this demanding industry. Today, in 2025, the need for grace is still the same... if not more urgent. The difference? The micro stressors accumulate over time, draining your energy and focus. These tiny stressors, while often overlooked, can quietly build up, creating a hidden toll that impacts your well-being. Let’s explore how to grant yourself grace while tackling these microstressors head-on in 2025.


The Goal for 2025: Reduce Microstressors and Grant Yourself Grace🛀

In 2025, the goal is clear: it’s time to reduce the microstressors that chip away at our productivity and peace of mind. The relentless small stresses that add up throughout the day can have a huge impact on our emotional and mental well-being. By consciously choosing to grant ourselves grace... by saying no, simplifying our work, and focusing on what really matters—we not only enhance our performance but also create space for a more balanced, fulfilling life. This year, it’s about acknowledging the small moments of stress and making the choice to overcome them with kindness toward ourselves.


1. Automate to Alleviate🧑🏽‍💻

In 2022, we talked about reducing overwhelm through delegation. Today, automation is the new delegation. The constant flow of emails, scheduling, and follow-ups can easily lead to microstressors. Automating these tasks using technology gives you the space to focus on what truly matters, whether negotiating a deal or simply having time to breathe. Free up mental bandwidth, and give yourself grace by leaning on tools that lighten the load.


 

2. Say “No” and Mean It👎

How often do you agree to something out of guilt or obligation, only to regret it later? These moments create microstressors, leaving you feeling overwhelmed and undervalued. Saying “no” isn’t selfish—it’s self-preservation. Protect your time like the precious resource it is, and don’t let unnecessary commitments chip away at your peace of mind.

 

🤪Study Chart on How to Properly Say No 🤔🚫

Just Say No!

 


3. Simplify Your Tech 📟 📠 📜

Do you feel overwhelmed by your tech stack? With so many apps and platforms, it's easy to get lost in a sea of notifications and tasks. In 2022, we talked about finding what works best for you; today, it's about trimming the fat. By cutting out tools that create more confusion than clarity, you can focus on the tools that actually help you grow your business. This simplification reduces microstressors and helps you stay centered.


4. Celebrate the Small Wins 🥳🎉

In real estate, it’s easy to get caught up in the rush for the next big deal. But those small victories the call that turned into a client, the contract that got signed...deserve recognition. When you acknowledge these micro-wins, you’re giving yourself grace in the face of microstressors. Celebrate these moments, no matter how small they seem. They remind you that you’re moving forward, and that’s worth appreciating.


5. Reconnect With Your “Why”🏡

Why did you get into real estate? In 2022, we encouraged agents to reflect on their motivations, and that advice still holds true today. Microstressors can cloud your sense of purpose, but reconnecting with your “why” can clear the fog. Whether it’s the joy of helping a family find their dream home or building a legacy, remembering your purpose will anchor you in times of stress. Note to: 🌵🌵Bloom Where You Are Planted!🏜️🌵🌞


Final Thought: Grace is Your Superpower🦸‍♂️

Microstressors are a silent threat. They sneak into your day, piling up until they feel overwhelming. But they don’t have to define your 2025. This year, grant yourself the grace to recognize these stressors, address them, and move forward with clarity. Give yourself permission to slow down, to not be perfect, and to prioritize your well-being.

🏡 Real estate agents are resilient, but resilience without grace leads to burnout.
🌟 Treat yourself with the same kindness and patience you offer your clients.
💖 You’re doing better than you think—and that’s more than enough. 🌱

🤔How do you plan📋 on granting yourself grace in 2025⁇

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Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Great post, it is so easy to allow things to become overwhelming. We need to reexamine everything we use and do to see if it is worthwhile. Working from home our dog is a constant reminder to step away and take a few minutes to enjoy the fresh air, even on a cold and windy day, even when raining, that break can be so beneficial.

Jan 14, 2025 07:19 AM
Scott Schulte
Scott Schulte LLC - Phoenix, AZ

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 Thanks, oh yes. 2024 was my wake-up call in so many ways. 

Jan 14, 2025 07:21 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Scott - the power of "NO" is quite powerful in real estate.  And in different aspects as well as approaches.  

Jan 14, 2025 07:26 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Scott and thank you for your entry in the Rain for this month.  It is very interesting to see your points.  Thank you.

Jan 14, 2025 08:42 AM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

An post with depth and insight.  Yes we can be overwhelm. Years ago I learned not to worry about the competition as we drive by more business than we will ever have. (Per a colleague's wisdom.) So agree with learning to stay committed to NO as sometimes our hearts overcome our rational brain and our past experiences. Thank you for your third entry.

Jan 14, 2025 10:33 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Your insights on granting ourselves grace in this crazy industry are just what we need to hear, Scott! Thanks for sharing such thoughtful strategies to tackle microstressors and prioritize our well-being in 2025—it’s a reminder that we all need a little kindness now and then!

 

In 2025, I plan to grant myself grace by setting clear boundaries to protect my time, celebrating my small wins regularly, and making a conscious effort to slow down and reflect on my “why” in this journey. I’ll embrace automation to lighten my workload and remember that it’s okay to say no when needed, so I can focus on what truly matters. 🌟

Jan 14, 2025 01:40 PM
Scott Schulte
Scott Schulte LLC - Phoenix, AZ

Lew Corcoran Here’s to a 2025 full of grace and balance! 🌟

 

Jan 14, 2025 02:20 PM
Scott Schulte
Scott Schulte LLC - Phoenix, AZ

Leanne Smith Staying committed to "no" is a challenge, but it’s so important for staying focused and balanced. Appreciate your thoughtful response!

Jan 14, 2025 02:21 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

I love this, Scott. And, I don't think we use the term "grace" enough. We would grant grace to others so why not ourselves. We allow and accept it when others say "no" to us...so again...why not us?   

Jan 14, 2025 07:29 PM
Scott Schulte
Scott Schulte LLC - Phoenix, AZ

Kathy Streib I'm glad you enjoyed it. I don't know if anyone caught the ways to say no on the chart, but at least I entertained myself with that. 

Jan 15, 2025 05:07 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

These are great tips!  We all need and deserve grace in our lives, especially if our jobs are stressful.

Jan 15, 2025 05:09 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Jan 18, 2025 07:35 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Scott,

I love your post and so glad I caught it when Kathy featured it in her Sunday series! Such fantastic advice because we do need to learn to grant ourselves the grace to recognize  stressors, address them, and move forward with clarity! I've given myself permission to slow down and to prioritize my life to be more balanced and I'm happier because of it!

Jan 19, 2025 07:30 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Scott,

I love your post and so glad I caught it when Kathy featured it in her Sunday series! Such fantastic advice because we do need to learn to grant ourselves the grace to recognize  stressors, address them, and move forward with clarity! I've given myself permission to slow down and to prioritize my life to be more balanced and I'm happier because of it!

Jan 19, 2025 07:30 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

What a great post!  Love your thoughts on this topic.  The word "grace" is one i used with full intent recently in a FB post.  Moving forward with grace, including your intentions, is an excellent way to be sustainable! 

Jan 20, 2025 02:38 PM
Scott Schulte
Scott Schulte LLC - Phoenix, AZ

Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ Thank you for the kind words

Jan 21, 2025 02:28 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ

You're welcome!

 

Jan 21, 2025 06:20 AM
Endre Barath, Jr.
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Beverly Hills, CA
Realtor - Los Angeles Home Sales 310.486.1002

What an amazing post so sorry that I missed it the first time around, Endre

Jan 22, 2025 10:25 PM
Barbara Michaluk
Weichert Realtors | Phone Direct 240-506-2434 | 301-681-0550 office - Silver Spring, MD
Leisure World Specialist / Full Service REALTOR

Hi Scott, I like your list of all the ways to say No. I have learned over the years to be cautious about what I agree to do and then regret.  I'll have to try some of these ideas.

Jan 29, 2025 03:45 AM
Scott Schulte
Scott Schulte LLC - Phoenix, AZ

Barbara Michaluk Lol I was hoping someone would catch that! Probably keep most of them with my inside voice... 

Jan 29, 2025 04:32 AM