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Tuesdays Thoughts…Rough Seas

 

Last week, Dorie Dillard Austin TX wrote beautiful post featuring a quote from Leonard Cohen.

It reminded me of our many years spent fishing in lakes and on the Atlantic. It was after one of our first ventures into the Atlantic after we'd moved to Delray Beach, when we learned that anything above 3 to 5 foot seas meant a rough trip.

 

We learned how to catch our own baitfish…which for us was ballyhoo. We anchored just offshore and tossed raw oats in. We had teeny hooks baited with even tinier bits of squid. The oats drew the ballyhoo to the boat and BAM…we hooked the ballyhoo when they took the bait.

 

This meant a lot of time staring into the clear water, which was fine if the seas were calm. My first experience with being seasick came when the seas were a roly-poly motion.

 

I was so sick, I begged Larry to let me swim to shore while he and our friend went fishing.  Being the gentleman he is, it was anchors away and we headed offshore. 

The speed and movement was what I needed. He also gave me the best advice to avoid getting seasick…FOCUS ON THE HORIZON. 

OK…How does this relate to anything???

Life is much like the ocean. When it’s calm, it’s one of my favorite places. Blue skies, 1 to 2 foot waves and a gentle breeze. 

 

However, when the winds pick up and the seas are rough, if you’re focused only on what’s in front of you, you may begin to feel sick. You may lose hope or want to give up.

Before you do that, try this first…

~Look to the horizon…have faith in what lies ahead. 

~Keep pushing and moving forward…momentum is the best cure for the queasy feeling you get in rough times. 

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Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Kathy:

This is such a good analogy about life and the surprises and rough times it can bring us...and some excellent advice.

Jeff

Feb 11, 2025 12:47 PM
Kathy Streib

Thank you Jeff Dowler, CRS Much appreciated coming from you!

Feb 11, 2025 03:20 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Kathy, I think we all go through things and we have to have quite a bit more patience with each other than we usually do because you never know what somebody’s going through unless you have that patience

Feb 11, 2025 01:13 PM
Kathy Streib

That's an excellent point, Laura Cerrano We don't know what others are experiencing and patience and compassion are needed. 

Feb 11, 2025 03:21 PM
Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho
Sandpoint Realty LLC - Sandpoint, ID
North Idaho Real Estate - 208-255.6227

Good Segway Kathy.  Yes moving, especially forward, always important.  m 

Feb 11, 2025 01:20 PM
Kathy Streib

Mark Don McInnes, Sandpoint-Idaho Thank you!!! Keep moving forward or whichever way you can!

Feb 11, 2025 03:22 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy this is a very good analogy!

Buy the way, I have only been seasick once and I upchucked all over the biggest fish I ever caught as I was pulling him into the boat ....... LOL

Feb 11, 2025 01:42 PM
Kathy Streib

George Souto oh my gosh! Please tell me you didn't get a picture of that!!!  When we were boating, all of our friends (and us) called it "Blowing oats!"

Feb 11, 2025 03:23 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

I truly appreciate your thoughtful reflection on life’s ups and downs, Kathy Streib, likening it to the ocean's unpredictable nature! Your advice to focus on the horizon is a beautiful reminder to keep moving forward, no matter how choppy things get—thanks for sharing such wisdom!

Feb 11, 2025 01:48 PM
Kathy Streib

Thank you Lew Corcoran I'm so glad I didn't have to swim to shore that day!  Keep moving and focus on the future. 

Feb 11, 2025 03:24 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Wonderful, sage advice Kathy. I hope you are not going through any rough seas right now. Hugs to you.

Feb 11, 2025 02:27 PM
Kathy Streib

Dr. Paula McDonald no rough seas here!!!  Thank you!!!  Thanks for the hugs and back at 'ya!!!

Feb 11, 2025 03:29 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Kathy - sea-ze the day!   🚤🏄⛵

Feb 11, 2025 03:48 PM
Mike Young
203kOnLine.com, covering the USA - Hickory, NC
FHA 203k Consultant 916-758-1809 cell direct

Hey Kathy, you have a way with words. We got caught in a storm on a cruise one time, it took me a few years to muster the courage to cruise again. So far it's not happened again. Now watch it happen next month when go on the next cruise. 

Feb 11, 2025 03:52 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Rough waters seem to be ahead for all of the corrupt politicians since they are being found out and they are fighting against the information coming out in some pretty nasty ways.  I hope that good will prevail and they will be held accountable for their past actions!  They sure have a lot of explaining to do, which I think will be a lot of lying coming from them instead of accountability, haha.

Feb 12, 2025 05:38 AM
Patricia Feager
Flower Mound, TX

Kathy Streib - what a great and very inspiring Motivational story you shared. Going from seasick to embracing the change in the horizon ahead of you, your focus shifted to something you never would have thought possible, if you didn't keep going forward. 

This was a good feature here on ActiveRain. Thank you for sharing.

Feb 12, 2025 06:05 AM
Mike McCann Broker - Mach1 Realty
Mike McCann - Broker, Mach1 Realty Broker-Auctioneer Serving Nebraska - Kearney, NE
ALL Types of Property For Sale 308-627-3700

Fantastic Blog Kathy Streib !  I lived in Orlando for a couple years when I was younger and a client of mine loved to fish.  He took me on a float boat and we caught mostly dolphinfish (mahi-mahi...the kind you eat).  That was a riot.  We did that a couple times.  He also took me deep sea fishing for trophy fish and the seas were very rough.  I was miserable, got extremely sea sick, and have zero desire to ever do that again!!  LOL.  m

Feb 12, 2025 07:03 AM
Chris Lima
Turtle Reef Realty - Port St Lucie, FL
Local or Global-Allow me to open doors for you.

This is a great anaology Kathy Streib.  I have never been sea sick in the ocean but getting through the inlets is an entirely different story.  I am anxious and nauseous until we are out. I think I need a boat day! 

Feb 12, 2025 07:18 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

You know exactly how I feel about rough seas. 

I prefer cruise ships to privately owned ships. LOL

Feb 12, 2025 08:42 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Kathy Streib I have never been seasick, but I know that sinking feeling in the belly you get when things are tough , Think positive better times are coming 

Feb 12, 2025 02:53 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Love this post! I was given the same advice about looking to the horizon when fishing/in a boat. Luckily I only needed it a few times. The other advice was NOT to sit inside if you're feeling nauseous but to go on deck. I'm sure there's an analogy there to life as well.

Feb 13, 2025 06:55 AM
Don Baker
Lane Realty - Eatonton, GA
Lake Sinclair Specialist

I worked on a fishing boat in Alaska when I lived there at 14 and 15 and was taught the same.  And I have to say the advice carried over into the rest of my life as well.  Just keep your head up and look at what is to come.

Feb 13, 2025 08:49 AM
Steve Higgins
RE/MAX Kelowna - Kelowna, BC

Hi Kathy,

Great post! I enjoyed reading it. I like your analogy of the horizon being a new and better day. There are days when we all need to focus on that horizon at one time or another! 

Feb 13, 2025 01:54 PM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

The horizon is the vision of where one wants to eventually be.  Rough seas are obstacles known and unknown. Calm seas allow us to achieve our results. Very well thought out and a great analogy. Congrats on the feature.

Feb 14, 2025 10:51 AM
Dennis Neal
Exp Realty of Southern California, Inc. - Big Bear Lake, CA
Your Home Sold in 21 Days or We Sell It For Free

Kathy, your insightful analogy between rough seas and life's challenges is beautifully written and relatable. Your message of focusing on the horizon and maintaining momentum is both practical and inspiring. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and offering such a valuable perspective.

Feb 15, 2025 03:42 PM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

Your post, Kathy Streib, brings back memories of party boat fishing with friends in the San Francisco Bay. It also brings to my memory the time we went under the Golden Gate Bridge and into the open ocean.

Yes, I do remember getting seasick.

Feb 15, 2025 06:11 PM