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Hardships Are Stepping Stones to Success

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Real Estate Agent with Sandpoint Realty rain@lakeandhomes.com AB36782

The real estate industry is full of highs and lows. Markets crash, deals fall through, clients walk away, and challenges arise when you least expect them. But those who persevere through hardships are often the ones who come out stronger, wiser, and more successful. C.S. Lewis’s words—"Hardships often prepare ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny."—ring especially true in real estate.

Overcoming Challenges: My Own Journey
I’ve seen firsthand how adversity creates opportunity. In the 1980s, I was new to realestate.  Interest rates were sky-high, many buyers struggled to secure financing. Rather than letting the market dictate my success, I focused on wrap-around loans, a creative financing strategy that helped buyers and sellers make deals work. That challenge taught me the power of thinking outside the box.

Fast forward to 2008—one of the toughest years in real estate history. While many agents struggled to survive, I flourished because I adapted. The market was flooded with distressed properties, so I became an expert in short sales and REOs. Instead of resisting change, I leaned into the opportunity and built a thriving business when others were leaving the industry.


Why Hardships Are Stepping Stones to Success
1. Tough Markets Force You to Innovate
If I had ignored creative financing in the 1980s or refused to work with distressed properties in 2008, I wouldn’t have had the success I did. Every downturn presents new opportunities—those who adapt will thrive.

2. Setbacks Build Resilience
Losing a deal or struggling through a slow season can feel discouraging, but each challenge makes you stronger. Real estate is not for the faint of heart. Agents who stick with it through the tough times build the resilience needed for long-term success.

3. Hardships Separate the Good from the Great
Many agents left the industry during market downturns, but those who stayed and learned how to navigate the challenges became leaders. Hardships refine your skills, expand your expertise, and position you as an authority in your field.

What Today’s Challenges Could Mean for Your Future
If you’re struggling in today’s market, remember this: every hardship is preparing you for your next big success. Maybe the key to your breakthrough is mastering a new skill, embracing a fresh marketing strategy, or exploring creative financing options.

The next time you face an obstacle, don’t see it as a dead end—see it as a stepping stone to something greater.

Extraordinary success is often built on the foundation of ordinary people who refused to give up.

Are you ready to turn your challenges into opportunities?

 

Rain Silverhawk  Sandpoint Realty 208-610-0011

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Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

Thanks for sharing Rain!!!

If you’re struggling in today’s market, remember this: every hardship is preparing you for your next big success. Maybe the key to your breakthrough is mastering a new skill, embracing a fresh marketing strategy, or exploring creative financing options.

Feb 12, 2025 04:22 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Rain. Those who are innovative adapt but cutting themselves a bigger piece of a smaller pie. They continue to succeed by focusing on what they can control and not what they can't control. Kudos to you! Enjoy your day.

Feb 12, 2025 05:20 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I love the message here, and it's equally true in the other areas of our lives!

Feb 12, 2025 05:24 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Rain - each of our lives is a journey.  It includes steps, detours as well as unexpected twists and turns.  

Feb 12, 2025 06:45 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Rain,

I love your message...turn challenges into opportunities! Its the same in our personal lives!

Feb 12, 2025 05:15 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

hi Rain- what an inspirational post. While it's good to be strong like the mighty Oak, there are times when we must learn to bend with the wind.  You've learned something from your journey!!!

Feb 12, 2025 06:07 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Home Stager/Redesign

Feb 15, 2025 06:50 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

A great reminder to adapt and trim and adjust one's sails to either avoid the storm or sail through it. 

Feb 16, 2025 10:49 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Oh so true Rain!  I began in the 80's and I learned right off the starting gate how to handle wraps, carry backs you name it.  And that gave me the knowing that 'if' one adjusts one can work through it all.  I can bet you that many of the agents I've known over the years didn't last long in the business.  Maybe the top 15 to 20% that had the fortitude and strength to figure it out and SHIFT when needed made it through all these.  And the public thinks real estate is an easy business!  LOL

Feb 16, 2025 12:07 PM
Mike McCann Nebraska Land Broker
Mike McCann - Broker, Mach1 Realty Farm & Commercial Land Broker-Auctioneer Serving Nebraska - Kearney, NE
Farm & Commercial Property For Sale 308-627-3700

Hi Rain Silverhawk  Thank you for your fresh perspective on how to turn adverse conditions into positive and winning methods.  I agree with you!  I had a broker decades ago in Colorado Springs who always said to be prepared in the rough times; that there will be a lot of opportunities for success.  He was right then and his words still ring true today in 2025!

Feb 16, 2025 05:12 PM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

Ah, yes! Short sales!

I can so remember faxing pages and pages of data to lenders who then said the information never arrived.

Glad that is in the past.

Feb 16, 2025 05:46 PM