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Why do I love ❤️ what I do? It's not what you think! 🤔

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Real Estate Agent with Big Block LPT Realty 858.232.8722 CA BRE# 01261476

The February Challenge invites us to reflect deeply:

Why We Love What We Do?

I must begin with a truth—real estate sales, while a part of my journey, does not stir my "love". Admittedly, I have found a passion for it and success in it, navigating its challenges with a blend of skill and strategy. I enjoy aspects like marketing, negotiating, and problem-solving; in fact, I revel in the thrill of the process. Yes, fun can be found amidst the complexities.

So, if not real estate, what do I truly love?

True love is something I reserve for my cherished bride Ailina Nelson , my beloved son Wyatt, my family and friends, and of course, our dear Mr. Whiskey Wiggles.

Yet, the challenge requires me to express why I love my work - what I do. And I can! Because at the core of what I do is something much more significant than just real estate. It transcends the titles of REALTOR® or Entrepreneur—though I cherish being an entrepreneur immensely.

Why I truly love what I do, is because what I do has the built-in opportunity to serve others using my talents and abilities. I find profound joy in impacting and enhancing the lives of those around me. My legacy will be measured not in transactions, but in the number of lives I have touched and uplifted during my life's journey. I take pride in building relationships, and in being a catalyst that connects people, allowing them to flourish through the opportunities that arise from our connections. Because, after all, it is relationships that foster growth and opportunities across all industries.

My entrepreneurial spirit ignited at the tender age of ten when I launched my first business—washing cars in my neighborhood. It blossomed remarkably, rooted in trust built through the relationships I had with my neighbors. Those very neighbors turned into advocates and loyal customers, propelling my success solely through word-of-mouth and referrals—without signs, door-knocking, or any form of advertising.

This pattern of success has repeated itself: my house painting business flourished in the same way, as did my night club DJ & and mobile DJ services, which eventually expanded through the very networks I created. My foray into real estate followed this same organic path. Long before I formalized the principles of Working By Referral through my coaching at Buffini & Company, I was living and breathing them.

What I do is a thread that weaves through all my ventures, and it remains adaptable for whatever comes next. I am not finished yet, for I love what I do, and the journey is far from over!

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Thomas J. Nelson
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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Thomas - "love" is a challenging word.  And its many interpretations and usages further complicate exploring any aspect of it.  That said, a very good post that I enjoyed reading.  And, doggone it, any mention of Whiskey captures my attention.  🐾

Feb 16, 2025 06:59 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

🐾 Doggone it Michael Jacobs - your word-play is never lost on me 😂 - I do enjoy your comments and posts as well my friend, thank you!

Feb 16, 2025 07:03 AM
Bill Salvatore - East Valley
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

Some days I just want to pull my hair out,  Thanks for sharing, make it a great Sunday and enjoy your weekend!

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Feb 16, 2025 09:44 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Thomas I can see you as a little 10 year old coming around to see if you could wash the neighbors cars!  Cute!  And I so get it, it's not what you do it's who you're doing it or all these years.....the people that put their trust in you to do the right thing for them and to make it as enjoyable experience as possible.

Feb 16, 2025 11:43 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

I love how you've shared your passion for serving others, Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP – it’s truly inspiring! Thanks for this insightful post and your heartfelt perspective on the "why" behind your work.

Feb 16, 2025 12:24 PM
Aura Alex
Seattle, WA
Retired Real Estate Pro

Hello Thomas,

Love is floating around like confetti—ready for anyone to grab. Cherish your family and those who truly leave their fingerprints on your heart (yes, even the furry, four-legged ones count!). Cherish them because in the end, love is all that truly matters.

Feb 16, 2025 12:49 PM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

OH! Aura Alex that may be the quote of the month! Nice! Thank you for you comment!

Love is floating around like confetti—ready for anyone to grab.

Feb 17, 2025 05:47 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Oh, I love this, TJ! I think we may be somehow related as our work ethic is quite similar - and it began before Buffini but, we both found like-mindedness within that organization. It's a blessing to be able to serve others and that is truly what I love about what I do. 

Thank you so much for sharing your ❤️ in this month's challenge!

Feb 16, 2025 03:06 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Thomas- first of all, thank you for giving us a glimpse of Whiskey!!!! What you do is not who you are!  Who you are allows you to do what you do and do it well!!!

Feb 16, 2025 06:11 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

What a fantastic read, from your days as a ten year old car washer all the way up to your current real estate business. Thank you for sharing your love of being able to impact and enhance the lives of those around you. Great job!

Feb 17, 2025 08:53 AM
Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

Thank you for setting us straight on what comes first - family, friends and Whiskey! That's such a great name for a pet; I wish I were that clever. And thank you for writing such a great post for the February "LOVE" challenge.

Feb 18, 2025 10:20 AM
Ailina Nelson
Vision Drive Realty - La Jolla, CA
Learn To Dance In The Rain

You inspire me! You are such a great Realtor, not because of all your transactions, but because of the relationships you build with your clients that turn into lifelong friends. I see how much you truly care, not just your clients, but to the tradesmen who complete work on your listings.  I see the 'backstage' side of you, and all the hard work and extra things you do, that a lot of people do not realize. I see how you take care of people, and the trust that you instill on them. And I see how you fight for people.  I also see how sometimes things don't go the way you'd like, but you always manage to get it fixed. I have a deep appreciation for all you do.

Feb 26, 2025 01:16 PM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

I'm falling in love all over again here Ailina Nelson ❤️
Thank You my love!

Feb 26, 2025 06:15 PM