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ActiveRain March Challenge: Recovery Time

Patricia Feager and Lew Corcoran are the hosts for the "March 2025 ActiveRain Challenge: Sharing the Gift of Who You Are." The ActiveRain challenge is to share the profound impact someone had on you in shaping you to who you are today.

During this first week of the ActiveRain March Challenge, I am personally challenged by being a patient in recovery after major surgery.

Many years ago, I had some surgery to correct a lesion in my left ear and was advised that it was successful. Like many, I have had my share of ear aches when we get ear drops to remove the pain and then move on. During the past couple of years, my health conditions have negatively impacted my personal activities. I had a major case of vertigo that required a trip to the emergency room. After that experience, I lost my hearing in my left ear and have had over 35 medical appointments and therapy sessions related to balance issues, jaw pain, fainting and recurring ear infections.

In November, I finally learned about the cause of my ear problems when Dr. Pete Sorensen at The Centers for Advanced ENT CARE advised that I had a cholesteatoma that would require surgery. He referred me to Dr. Wade Chien, the Medical Director of the Johns Hopkins Medicine Department of Otolaryngology - Head and Neck Surgery in Bethesda, Maryland. 

On Monday, March 3, I was admitted at the Johns Hopkins Medicine Suburban Hospital in Bethesda for tympanoplasty with mastoidectomy surgery. I was fortunate to be referred to one of the most respected surgeons for this kind of surgery. My family support was also comforting. My wife, Dolores and my sister and brother-in-law, Wynne and Dave Roos, spent the day at the hospital until I was released to go home that afternoon. My family also took me for an additional appointment to see Dr. Chien on Tuesday afternoon after some excessive bleeding.

I am at home and Dr. Chien advised be to take it easy and my condition should improve each day. Normally, it takes a couple of weeks or more to return to normal activities after this kind of surgery.

Kathy Streib asked me to let her know when I had surgery and this post will serve to let her know. 

Please forgive me for any errors or typos in this blog post. Consider them to be 'senior moments'.  You may need to use Google for some definitions.

 

Miltoniopsis Orchids, Longwood Gardens,

Kennett Square, Pennsylvania USA IMG 6848
Canon PowerShot G11 Camera
Photograph by Roy Kelley
Roy and Dolores Kelley Photographs

Posted by

Roy Kelley, Retired, Former Associate Broker, RE/MAX Realty Group

Gaithersburg, Maryland  

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Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Roy,
I'm glad they finally figured out what the problem was and it has now been corrected. I hope your recovery goes well and you're back to living a normal life again soon. Thanks for letting us know and keep us posted how you are doing.

And, by-the-way, I did Google cholesteatoma and the tympanoplasty with mastoidectomy surgery surgery. 😊


Mar 07, 2025 03:33 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

 

I'm back again today as I just saw this Roy and want to wish you a speedy recovery. Glad you had your family by your side!

Mar 07, 2025 04:12 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Oh wow, Roy. Sending you my best, best, best wishes for a speedy recovery. And also hoping that this surgery will result in ending the vertigo issues you've been having.

Mar 07, 2025 04:24 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Oh, I'm so sorry to hear about your most recent health issue. I am glad they finally figured out what was wrong, and I wish you a speedy recovery.

Mar 07, 2025 05:21 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I am glad to hear that the surgery went well and you are doing ok.  Lucky that you have chef Dolores there to take good care of you!

Mar 07, 2025 06:04 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thanks to all for your comments. Your support is much appreciated.

Mar 07, 2025 07:29 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Glad to hear that you are on the road to recovery, keep looking at those plants they will encourage you in your recovery. Heal swiftly!

Mar 07, 2025 07:59 AM
Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

Roy, thank you for sharing your beautiful photography with us. It's always a joy to see the beauty you capture with your camera and your eye.

Wishing you a restful and restorative recovery after your surgery, and patience and love from your caregivers.

Mar 07, 2025 10:39 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good afternoon Roy,

Thank you for letting us know and wishing you a speedy recovery. You've has quite an ordeal and glad you found the right doctor who got to the bottom of the problem you were experiencing!

Mar 07, 2025 11:17 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you, Roy Kelley, for sharing your personal journey through such a challenging time. Your story not only highlights the importance of resilience and support, but also serves as a reminder of the strength we find in our communities during tough moments. Wishing you a speedy recovery.

Mar 07, 2025 11:54 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Prayers for you, Roy. Take care, listen to your body, and rest. Hugs to you.

Mar 07, 2025 04:04 PM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Roy Kelley God bless you and wish you a speedy recovery. I have an appointment scheduled with an EMT as I have had some issues with minor vertigo and fluid in the ears. Our Kathy Streib is a ray of sunshine. So glad you posted this as a March Challenge and that is was chosen as a Featured post 

Mar 07, 2025 07:14 PM
Roy Kelley

Hannah Williams 

If your ENT issues continue, request a CT scan to see if you have a cholesteatoma.

Mar 08, 2025 07:07 AM
Hannah Williams

Roy Kelley I will discuss it when I see him. I do not get any ringing or discharge, which is a good sign. I will not put off making my appointment as I understand the serious issues my doctor was explaining. Be well my friend 

Mar 08, 2025 09:15 AM
Aura Alex
Seattle, WA
Retired Real Estate Pro

Hi Roy,

The beauty of the flowers you shared assures me of your strength and resilience, if not already evident. Spring is almost here, Roy. Take care.

 

Mar 07, 2025 11:15 PM
Patricia Feager
Flower Mound, TX

Good morning, Roy Kelley 

I hope you have a good day and feeling stronger day-by-day. I'll bet you're very happy to be back home with Dolores and I just know, she's making you good tasting meals. I don't understand why hospital food is so yucky!

Mar 08, 2025 04:03 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Oh my goodness Roy Kelley I am so sorry to hear you've been going through all this.  But I'm very glad you now in recovery, in good hands and back to feeling good, very soon I  hope.  I'll keep you in my prayers. God Bless You 🙏

Mar 08, 2025 10:43 AM
Scott Schulte
Scott Schulte LLC - Phoenix, AZ

Get well soon! Glad to hear you are just a couple of weeks away from being back to normal!  Stay Strong! 

Mar 09, 2025 04:53 AM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

So good to read the surgery appears to be successful.  Yes take it easy and get well soon.

Mar 09, 2025 10:22 AM
Ray Henson
Retired - Goodyear, AZ
Retired Real Estate Agent

I hope the surgery was 100% successful and that you recover quickly. 

Mar 10, 2025 07:40 AM
Danny Frank
JLA Realty - Pearland, TX
The Pearland Real Estate Expert

I have noticed recently that ActiveRain may be losing its Google Juice. I am not seeing posts like I used to rank high in Google. 


Has any one else noticed this as well?

Mar 10, 2025 12:04 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Recovery’s Path

The road to healing, slow and steep,
With trials vast and wounds so deep.
A journey fraught with pain and fear,
Yet hope and love still linger near.

Long ago, an ear’s distress,
Repaired with promise of success.
Yet fate had more it chose to weave,
A silent loss, hard to believe.

The spinning world, the balance lost,
A simple step became a cost.
With doctor’s hands and wisdom bright,
They sought to bring me back to light.

Through tests and trials, pain and doubt,
I searched to find a clearer route.
Then answers came—though long delayed—
A surgeon’s skill, his hand well-played.

With family close, their love so true,
They saw me through the trials I knew.
By bedside strong, they stood and stayed,
Their warmth a light that never swayed.

Now healing calls, though slow it seems,
Each passing day restores my dreams.
The path ahead is marked with grace,
With patience guiding every pace.

 

So here I stand, though weak today,
I’ll rise again in my own way.
For strength is found in love’s embrace,
And time will bring me back my place.

Mar 16, 2025 02:43 PM