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My High School Coach Changed My Life

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Beam & Branch Realty TREC #547752

I am enjoying getting to know my fellow Active Rain friends regarding, Who They Are. These deeper conversations allow us to see beyond the market reports, professional expertise, and local involvement. All of these, of course, are important topics so it is fun when we have the opportunity to peel back the onion to understand our AR friends in a different spotlight.

My life was greatly impacted by my high school coach, Leta Andrews. You talk about a fireball of a woman! Coach Andrews is not only a local and national legend, she helped to shape my life in numerous ways. 

WORK ETHIC - When I moved back to Granbury nine years ago, I heard the door to my brokerage open and then jumped to attention when I heard Coach Andrew's voice ring out. Hearing her voice immediately brought me back many decades as I had the urge to drop and give her 40 pushups! 

When Coach Andrews asked us to jump, we responded with, "How high and how many times"? We never questioned her as we knew she was a force who would get us to be our very best. We were a scrappy group of girls who she moulded into superior athletes taking us to state in both basketball and track during our senior year.

I learned that hard work, dedication, and striving for excellence would take me far in life. The principles she embedded within me ring strongly today. I am forever grateful for her encouragement and for pushing me to reach goals I considered to be unattainable. 

MORAL CHARACTER - Although none of us are perfect, one of the big life lessons I learned from Coach Andrews was that even though we were athletes, we could still act like "ladies". What she meant by this was we were expected to use good manners on and off the court. We were also taught the value of how to win with class and to lose with grace.

We were never allowed to gloat over a win. We were required to look our opponents in the eye at the end of a game and give them a handshake with a smile. This lesson has proven to be extremely valuable in all areas of life, and specifically in business. I am thankful to have learned this skill early in my life.

HAVE FUN - Coach Andrews has an infectious laugh. No matter what, she could laugh at herself and us when it was warranted. One specific memory comes to mind when I was in a jump ball situation with a much, larger girl. I was hanging on to that ball with all that I had as I heard Coach Andrew's voice in my head saying, "Don't you ever let go of that ball!"

Well, I didn't let go of that ball and the other girl released both myself and the ball and watched us fly across the basketball court. I remember hearing my coach laughing hysterically as I lay prostrate on the floor wrapped around that ball! I was like, "Hey, I hung on!" The lesson, however, it's ok to laugh! It keeps things real.

There are so many other life lessons I have learned from Coach Andrews. She is still living in Granbury and is active as a vibrant volunteer. Today, she can still be found giving back, smiling, and telling funny stories. I love seeing her around town!

To honor her, we named one of our hotel rooms after her, the Leta Mae Suite. We feature her accomplishments which are numerous and impressive. Coach Andrews is one of those people who touches and impacts many lives! I am eternally thankful that I was one of those. Thank you, Coach!

This is my entry to the March 25, AR Challenge.

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Patricia Feager
Flower Mound, TX

Paula, Coach Andrews was a diamond in the rough. You heard her voice, listened, and learned! Isn't that wonderful! She taught you a lot more than what you could have learned from reading a book on your own. Plus, she did change your life! This an excellent contribution to the March 2025 Challenge, and I am glad you accepted the AR Challenge. 

Thank you very much!

Mar 14, 2025 10:52 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald

Thank you, Patricia. She is and still is a blessing in my life.

Mar 14, 2025 11:02 AM
Aura Alex
Seattle, WA
Retired Real Estate Pro

Hello Paula,

Your story serves as a shining example to the extraordinary dedication some of us have experienced, reminding us all of the incredible heights we can achieve through unity and perseverance.

FEATURED in the Old Farts Club.

Mar 14, 2025 11:38 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald

Thank you so much, Alex. She is a wonderful woman.

Mar 14, 2025 11:52 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Sports role models often help direct so many other things than just being a good sport. Your coach is one of those special people , Paula!

Mar 14, 2025 11:45 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald

So true, Wanda. I have taken the lessons she taught me into all areas of my life.

Mar 14, 2025 11:52 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a touching tribute, Dr. Paula McDonald! Your story about Coach Andrews truly captures the power of mentorship and the lasting lessons that shape who we become. Thanks for sharing such a heartfelt reflection—it’s a reminder that great coaches often leave a mark far beyond the game!

Mar 14, 2025 11:53 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald

Thank you, Lew. She is a force in may ways. She has impacted thousands of young women and I was blessed to be one of them.

Mar 14, 2025 12:02 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Love this post, Paula, thank you for sharing and want to feature it in BananaTUDES. Your coach is an amazing woman who has touched many lives in such a positive manner!

Mar 14, 2025 12:00 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Paula,
Participating in team sports can teach us so much, and coaches like Leta Mae make it even more valuable for a lifetime. She sounds like my kind of woman.

Mar 14, 2025 12:17 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald

Carol, you would love her. She is a force and these kinds of life-influencers are so rare.

Mar 14, 2025 12:20 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Hello, Dr. Paula McDonald I love how this comes full circle, she still lives in Granbury and you have honored her by naming one of your hotel rooms after Leta Mae Andrews.  Love it! 

 

Mar 14, 2025 03:49 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald

Thank you, my dear friend. She is a gem for sure. We were so happy to honor her in this way.

Mar 14, 2025 04:53 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Paula- what a beautiful woman!!!  Coaches can play such an important part in a person's life, just as Coach Andrews has been  in yours!  I love that she loved to laugh as well. And, what a beautiful gesture to name a room for her. 

Mar 14, 2025 05:49 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald

Yes, she is beautiful inside and out. She has the BEST, Texas drawl as well.

Mar 14, 2025 06:42 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Paula - infectious laughter is another indication that contagiousness of many kinds can catch on.  Nicely told story.  

Mar 15, 2025 04:12 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

There have been a number of coaches in my life as well.  I used to coach basketball and I hope that some of those that I coached at least have fond memories of me doing so, haha.

Mar 15, 2025 04:30 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Paula. Coach Andrews sounds like a gem! We should all be so lucky to have someone in our lives to help put us on the right path and provide fun and laughter while doing so.

Mar 15, 2025 05:58 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

OMG Paula I love your post about your coach Leta!  What a powerhouse of a woman she is to this day!  Love it!  I also had a dynamite coach in HS and loved her.  Lots of great memories and life lessons from coaches, as you well know!

Mar 15, 2025 05:34 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Mar 15, 2025 06:00 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good  morning Paula,

I'm so glad that Kathy Streib featured your post in her Sunday Series as I missed it. Coach Andrews certainly sounds like the kind of inspiring all coaches should be. Combining hard work and still be able to laugh is a recipe for success. Glad she was in your life to encourage you and push you to reach goals you considered to be unattainable.

Mar 16, 2025 07:39 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Paula:

Coach Andrews is clearly a very special person who know doubt has influenced many in addition to what you shared about your own life and her impact on you. People like this are, sadly, rather rare in our world. This is such a wonderful tribute.

Jeff

Mar 16, 2025 05:35 PM