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“Mommas don’t let your babies grow up to be clueless.”

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Cornerstone Business Group Inc 0225086119

“Mommas don’t let your babies grow up to be clueless.” Oh, that is so true. I recently had an event happen with our real estate company that made me speechless. In our real estate brokerage, we do sales, but we also do property management. In the 30 years of managing other people’s property, I feel like I’ve seen it all. Oh, I am so wrong on that.

Late in January I received a call from a frantic student-tenant saying that the ceiling in her kitchen collapsed and water was pouring into the kitchen. What? What could have happened to cause that? I took off to see what was going on and she was right. What happened? The students took off for Christmas break around 12/23. They set the furnace back to 60 degrees and left town. That wasn’t the problem.

When I started quizzing the students, they told me they put 275 gallons of heating oil in the tank the week they left for Christmas break. They were required by their lease to call our office to inform us if they are going to be gone for more than 14 days. They didn’t. During their break, we had the coldest period for 2024 and for the beginning of 2025. They were gone for 35 days.

We did a calculation of oil use based on temperature and discovered that they had 22 days of heating oil. They were gone 35 days; 13 days longer than their oil would have lasted. In the process of doing a little investigating, I discovered they put oil in the tank in early October and it was 200 gallons rather than 275. It didn’t matter. Either one would haven given the same outcome. They swore they didn’t use the heat until they set it before leaving on 12/23. That may be true, but the weather had been the coldest in years during the period prior to their departure. During their absence the pipes froze breaking the water lines and radiator lines, destroying the radiators and soaking the house from top to bottom.

While we were in the process of assessing the damage, they started calling, coming by our office, and having their parents call and come by as well spewing profanities to my staff. They wanted us to provide them with housing. They just did $100,000 damage to my client’s property and they had the audacity to demand that we provide them with housing because their rental was no longer habitable. Mommas don’t let your babies grow up to be clueless. Not only did the students take no responsibility for their actions, but their parents were equally clueless about their accountability.

   

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Andrea Bedard
Thompson Company, REALTORS® 240.593.2860 - Silver Spring, MD
Fluent in Real Estate & German, M.A. ABR ASP CIPS

Yikes, Mike! This sounds like a chapter straight out of "Landlord's Nightmares". Mistakes happen - sometimes costly ones - and I am sure they all were just excited to get home for winter break, but accountability rules. I am sorry that you and your landlord have to go through this. 

Mar 14, 2025 02:29 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

What a nightmare! I'm sure the parents don't see their kids did anything at all wrong! You will have to keep us posted with the outcome!

Mar 14, 2025 03:26 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Mike- clueless, Yes!!   A big mistake? Yes!!  Ok but parents, don't add to that by teaching your children not to be accountable for their actions or lack of them. 

Mar 14, 2025 05:59 PM
Patricia Feager
Flower Mound, TX

Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV - Oh my gosh! This would make a great Zoom Session for Debe Maxwell, CRS and attendees and a good case study too! I am gobsmacked!

Also, you picked th4e PERFECT Title!!!

Mar 14, 2025 06:27 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Mike - any time spent in the practice of real estate can be eye opening to say the least.  Timing is important to remember.  So is remembering the process of baby steps and growing up.  It's all a part of a process.  So many examples.

Mar 15, 2025 04:21 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Wow, that is crazy!  I have never wanted to have rentals of my own since I have seen how tenants neglect the warning signs of things that end up becoming big issues for the owner.

Mar 15, 2025 04:32 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

It sounds like, in this instance, the quote should have been "Grandmommas don't let your babies grow up to be clueless" because if the parents were acting just as badly as the students, there's definitely a string of no-accountability going on there. I'm so sorry this happened to one of your client's houses. Geez.

Mar 15, 2025 06:14 AM
Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV

Kat, you are so right. I'm thankful I wasn't at the office when they showed up. I'm sure I would have told the students that they didn't have a chance in life if the mother that was there spewing was their example. 

Mar 15, 2025 07:02 AM
Lisa Friedman
Great American Dream Realty - Manchester Center, VT
37 Years of Real Estate Experience!

Wow, that is terrible. But I could see how they would think a full (ish) tank of oil would last for a month. How unfortunate all the way around. No excuse for the lack of respect or expletives though.

Mar 15, 2025 10:46 AM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.WarrenCountyOhioRealEstate.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Mike, back in the glory days of short sales we had a beautiful home for sale, intricate woodwork, flooring, everything from days past (not modernized in the least).  The bank foreclosed and what didn't they do?  Keep the heat on after foreclosure.  I got to show a buyer the home after the home was back on the market, complete with all kinds of holes cut in the walls from the burst pipe repairs.  Such a shame to see.

Mar 15, 2025 11:26 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

What an incredible story and it makes me so angry. When I used to teach high school, one of the saddest things was watching the parents who screamed the loudest when "you" (the teacher) failed that student. Parents are the ones who fail their students when they fail to teach them important lessons in life.

Mar 15, 2025 12:32 PM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

Ah, and this is why I love living in Florida. Heat is the AC unit flicking over to emergency heat (and I can do it with my phone). I have come to one conclusion in my life...you can not fix stupid.

Mar 16, 2025 07:34 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Oh wow, that is terrible. Hopefully one of the parents will take responsibility and inform the kids of their responsibility and hopefully they have insurance to cover the damage they have caused.

Mar 17, 2025 01:36 PM
Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

     A local doctor with a gorgeous Victorian had just replaced his oil hot water baseboard furnace before taking off for weeks sailing in the Carribean. House not for sale.

     No one deputized to check on the place, no winter watchman in the window to cause the blinking red light when the winter temperature inside the home drops. No app on the phone to contact the plumber or heating oil supplier with the android voice like the HAL 2000 announcing we have a problem.

     Like your example, big old cast iron steam radiators burst, the 100 year old rust rich interiors when they opened up stained water logged floors, ruined tin ceilings, caused mold, plaster sections to drop everywhere and it created a classic three floors of freeze up water damage.

     Owner figured brand new furnace, did not see it not running like a top, coming on as it should. Plenty of oil, running out was not the problem. It was on automatic fill up calculated on heating degree days so it never would be thirsty for oil.

     If your lease provided tenants (mom and dad) pay up front for a full tank of oil going in, automatic fill up with oil pro-ration when they leave, what if the furnace had no one to push the red burner reset button when it still did not come on?

     These tenants were gone 35 days and no one knew or checked the place during the cold snap? Hope property owners don't think you are responsible Mike Cooper, Broker VA,WV,

     

Mar 18, 2025 03:54 AM
Kelly McGovern
Realty Concierge International - Bellingham, MA
Working with Kelly is a good move

Whenever I hear that song, I think of Bud and Sissy.  Scary post!  In this case the apples didn't fall far from the tree.  What a nightmare!

Mar 24, 2025 08:28 AM