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PERSON U ARE TODAY (came from yesterday)

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with people first...then business Ran Right Realty 636943 licensed to thrill

Hindsight is very revealing for improving on one's journey & prospects. It teaches us what works, what doesn't & something not talked about enough i.e. ignorance of the self. Stop to consider your journey from (?) up until the now (reading this). Not only is it remarkable, but it was unplanned. We were a part of the past while journeying to the present, but we did not know that until revealed afterwards. Why? We lived that prior life thus revealing its history not just existed in it

THE TRUTH of the MATTER

Let's start out by putting in its place, the clever lie that makes the rounds & disrupts if we let it. Should have, could have & would have will now be brought into the light of exploration (reality). Why? For a very good reason that will follow

TAKE THE MOMENT YOU ARE IN RIGHT NOW

You are exactly where you want to be! It is as simple as that. If you got up from your chair, or walked across the room, that's where you would be if you did that. In other words, wherever you go, there you are! There is no such thing as REGRET

WORTHY NOTE: The NOW is more important than we give credit for. It is your yesterday yet to be, being formed, but forms with every millisecond. Mind boggles 

FURTHER TAKE THIS MOMENT

Who is stopping you from doing anything right here, right now? Leave out blame, excuses & stories to the contrary. You see, if you let it, you will lie to yourself about the "what could have been" & "why didn't I" nonsense. Apply it now to test it

DIDN'T SEIZE THE MOMENT?

I have had a few (?) of those (LOL) for what they are. Lack of courage, conviction, ignorance, fear, doubt, hesitation & confusion went to work on me (you too), & had their way. There can only be so many of those dynamics until you wake-up & do something about it, again, demonstrating your ability to do or not do

THE PERSON I WILL BE TOMMORROW COMES FROM TODAY

As we go, we learn. It cannot be helped or hindered. All life that we know or don't know operates on this principle i.e. it is alive, wants to thrive, & survive & it does. We get to control more outcomes than an amoeba, lizard or elephant. It is inherent

YESTERDAYS PERSON IS HERE NOW BUT TOMMORROW IS NOT

Look at yourself & behold the truth. Why? It will not only set you free & make best friends with you but will also make for a good guide if we allow. What was is gone, what is here, should be respected & our walk for tomorrow, let's see what happens

LET'S RECOUNT THE STAGES

Between birth & 10 years old, we only know to come & go, liking what we do or don't, & being no smarter than that age will allow. No one can force this either. Let's take between 10 & 20 years old. We rose to the occasion; it didn't lower itself. From 20-30, 30-40 & so on all operate on submitting to you themselves i.e. to do with as you please. Turn it up or down, you are living it & it is subtle as it passes too

MENTORING, GUIDING & BEING TOLD

Here is what I learned: I can take a teen, young adult or an adult & give them excellent feedback & input influencing them for the better if they allow it. In my case, there was no one to initiate, to alter my course, so it just played out. Imagine if that direction was grafted into my journey? Now consider if you had input & rejected it? Oh my! But reality says: it's done & it's gone. Learn & continue

LIFE WHILE MYSTERIOUS IS FAIR

If you disagree, then are you promoting death was better? Countless chances keep visiting with us, without the asking, to give opportunity & betterment. Life does throw in a wild card i.e. time only so you respect the system at play here

SIMPLICITY LOVES YOU

Thinking, dreaming, regrets, fantasizing & not acting your age disrespects your now, (the present), which is all that counts regardless of who you are, what you did or didn't do. Be grateful for your turn & not so much on how you didn't capture it all. Who did/does? Acceptance of the greater systems at work makes them watch over you here & now & into the beyond. Let it be so

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Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thank you very much for sharing your experience and advice. I posted your blog on X.

Mar 18, 2025 08:27 AM
Richard Alan Naggar

What a plus you are Roy Kelley ...as we go through life together thank U

Mar 18, 2025 08:30 AM
Patricia Feager
Flower Mound, TX

Richard Alan Naggar - fully understanding life events can be a lifelong challenge. Some people care; others pay it no mind. But the impact we have others remains. The various stages of life were meant to tested so we can learn.

What a wonderful gift of who you are! Thanks for participating in the March 20205 AR Challenge: This Is Who I Am!

Mar 18, 2025 08:54 AM
Richard Alan Naggar

As the hostess of this fine event that invites us to reflect with meaning & respect, Your "mark" is made. Now, to keep up the good work thank you Patricia Feager ...my like kind

Mar 18, 2025 09:26 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thanks for the thought-provoking insights, Richard Alan Naggar! It’s so refreshing to be reminded that the present moment is a powerful place to be, and I love how you encourage us to embrace it without the weight of regret. Here’s to making the most of today and all the possibilities that come with it!

Mar 18, 2025 09:09 AM
Richard Alan Naggar

Commenting of the highest order thank you Lew Corcoran ...here's my favorite part:  "present moment is a powerful place to be, and I love how you encourage us to embrace it without the weight of regret".

Mar 18, 2025 09:23 AM
Katina Hargrove 352-551-0308
Stake Your Land Realty, Inc. - Eustis, FL
Broker/Owner, SFR®, e-PRO®, GRI, AHWD, REALTOR®

Richard Alan Naggar 

You have a great mind like no other, keep enjoying the present moments and be blessed:) Katina

Mar 18, 2025 09:50 AM
Richard Alan Naggar

Include yourself, my like kind as we are journeying through life together Katina Hargrove 352-551-0308 ...how beautiful is that? Best K.H.

Mar 18, 2025 09:58 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Richie,

Your post is thought-provoking and full of depth, but I must admit, it left me pondering rather than completely clear on the message.

I see a mix of reflection, self-awareness, and a call to action, reminding us that hindsight teaches, but we must live in the present and take responsibility for our choices.  In reality, many wrestle with the weight of what could have been, experiencing regret. Still, I appreciate the reminder that tomorrow’s version of ourselves is shaped by what we do today.

The concept of life presenting endless opportunities, whether we take them or not, is so true.

I particularly liked this part:

"Simplicity loves you."

 

 

Mar 18, 2025 09:52 AM
Richard Alan Naggar

If we could purchase "ponder or pondering", it would sell out! Why? it stimulates for all the right reasons including hope & mystery types of manna Carol Williams Simplicity loves your inner child Carol...Your commenting is appreciated & spot on thank you C.W.

Mar 18, 2025 09:56 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Richie - for those of us still participating in life on Planet Earth, our book is still in process.  Pages and chapters are still being written.  Twists and turns remain a part of the plot.  And, of course, surprises and some expectations too.  

Mar 19, 2025 03:29 AM
Richard Alan Naggar

Michael Jacobs ...ladies & gentleman, & after reading Michael's comment, the next logical step is to turn the page of life. May the book never end too

Mar 19, 2025 06:39 AM