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Taking a Sabbatical to hang with the children and Grandchildren

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Turn Key Real Estate 31RA0874656

I took a much-needed Sabbatical the last few months, hanging out with my kids and grandkids.  For the most part, I haven't made any posts because I was and am having way too much fun with them. and wasn't really concerned or worried about business.  However, I actually had the best Dec, Jan, and Feb in 32 years of doing real estate full-time.  I guess my referral branding and consistent advertising enabled me to accomplish those very lucrative 3 months.  I guess luck is equal to timing, and mine was perfectly spot on.

Had tons of fun with the kids while earning what I thought would have been a slower winter period, but never imagined it would have been this good.  So I benefited on the family end as well as in my bank account.  Double whammy.

Taking time off for me was a fantastic way to chill and recharge my battery.  It's not as if I didn't work, but focused on those things that were most important, the family as well as balancing the work time by being a one-minute manager (great book by Kenneth H. Blanchard.  I read his book many years ago and slowly but surely implemented his concepts.  For me it's still a work in progress; especially when creating that stability between the career, family and friends.  

The money can attempt to pull you away from what is sometimes much more  important, relationships and having those crucial and critical connections.  When all is said and done, there will be no U-Haul behind your hearse and we will take nothing with us but our Soul and Memories.  So I have been laser focused on building and inventorying and increasing my memories bank account and not really concerning as much about and for my financial bank account because, really, how much does one really need to have an enjoyable existence.

Here is a little riddle that I concocted during my last year in college.  I am always conveying this to as many people as I can just to see how many figure it out.  So far in 55 years there have been only 3 individuals who have guessed it correctly.  Most recently it was a gentleman from India who I do business with and the one before that was a 25 year old multi-millionaire who I do some serious business with today.

If you had all the money that you ever needed and all the time to spend it, what one word=money + time.  Understanding that there are those who have tremendous wealth, earn a huge amount of money, but have NO TIME.  Then there are those who have a lot of time and NO MONEY or are dead broke at 65 reliant on someone else's (children's) income.  This one word is something that I approximate that 95% of the world's population will never experience, not because of discrimination or outside issues, but mainly because of themselves and not having the wherewithal, the concerted effort, disciplined actions and sacrifice of the one thing that you cannot gain back, re-invent or grow, one's valuable time in order to gain the knowledge to ascertain how to attain that one word.

Everyone will have 3 guesses.  Send them to me and by next week, I will provide you the answer.  My professor at Buffalo University, had asked me how I came up with this concept.  I said one night I had an epiphany and got out of bed and began writing and formulating what had popped into my mind.

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Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Philip- good for you for taking time to enjoy your family!!!! Family first!  I will take a look at the riddle and see if I can figure it out!!!

Mar 17, 2025 08:13 PM
Philip A. Raices

Hi Kathy, I learned many many years ago what was truly important in life.  But it has always been a "work in progress."   But on Dec 28, I will be married for 50 years; although I have known my wife for 55 years!  Life would only be better if I was 5 1/2" taller, lol

Mar 18, 2025 10:43 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I have to say I love That you’re taking time away to spend time with the family there’s nothing more worthy than that. :)

Mar 17, 2025 08:24 PM
Philip A. Raices

Good afternoon Laura,  yes very true.  As I said in my blog, there will be no U-Haul behind our hearses as we only take with us your Souls and Memories, so everyone, START BUILDING YOUR MEMORIES BANK ACCOUNT AND DON'T WORRY ABOUT YOUR FINANCIAL BANK ACCOUNTS AS MUCH, AS LONG AS YOU HAVE THAT ONE WORD THAT I AM LOOKING FOR TO SOLVE THAT MONEY + TIME=????????

Mar 18, 2025 10:45 AM
Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

Family and kids together is what makes our world go round. Thanks for your "right on" post Philip. Jeff

Mar 17, 2025 10:59 PM
Philip A. Raices

THANKS, JEFF, READ MY RESPONSES TO KATHY AND LAURA.

Mar 18, 2025 10:46 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Philip A. Raices what wonderful pictures, Philip! I'm delighted you enjoyed your sabbatical. Family time is so important. We spent Christmas week with kids, grands, and great grands this past year and it was a fantastic time for us all.

Mar 18, 2025 05:23 AM
Philip A. Raices

NINA, ISN'T IT THE BEST TIME OF OUR LIVES??? YOU ALMOST WANT TO LIVE FOREVER TO EXPERIENCE ALL THE GOOD AND SOMETIMES BAD TIMES, BUT WATCHING YOUR CHILDREN AND GRANDCHILDREN AND MAYBE GREAT-GRANDCHILDREN BLOSSOM AND BLOOM IS THE MOST WONDERFUL AND ENJOYABLE MOMENT THAT ONE CAN EXPERIENCE, AS LONG AS THERE IS QUALITY OF LIFE AND NOT QUANTITY.  SO STAY HEALTHY AND HAPPY AND HAVE A FEW SHECKLES TO HAVE A PLENTIFUL AND FULLING LIFE!

Mar 18, 2025 10:50 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Philip. Congrats to you for taking a sabbatical. I retired and relocated to spend time with my grandkids. And that was a good choice for the wife and I. Enjoy your day.

Mar 18, 2025 05:26 AM
Philip A. Raices

Hey Wayne, it's the best time of our lives, as I conveyed to Nina.  Nothing could be better than maybe being 5 1/2" taller, as I mentioned to Kathy.

 

I have soooo many blogs and columns that I have to catch up on.  So, I look forward to posting over the next few weeks.  probably will do 2-3 per week! FYI, I am negotiating with Money magazine, USA Today, and Fortune to syndicate my column, negotiations are always a stumbling point, but it will happen, so stay tuned!

Mar 18, 2025 10:53 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Mar 22, 2025 06:16 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Philip,

I love all your photos and that you took a sabbatical to be with your kids and grands. "Family First" is always my motto. I'm so fortunate to live in the same town as my kids and my younger grands. I've always attended their sport games and activities and being part of their lives is a game changer for me.

Mar 23, 2025 05:28 AM
Philip A. Raices

Hi Dorie,

Sorry for the delayed response, but I have been truly enjoying my time with all of them.  WE only live once, and as I always say, there will be no U-Haul behind our hearse to take any possessions with us.  However, we will take our Soul and All Our Memories!

Apr 01, 2025 01:38 PM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

This sounds like the perfect way to achieve gratitudepeace and happiness in life

Mar 23, 2025 06:32 AM
Philip A. Raices

Hi Lise,

You hit it right on the nose, spot on!  Having the blast of my life.  Once they hit teenagers, we may not be as important as their peers, so I am enjoying it for as long as possible with my 11, 9, 5, and as of just turned 1 yr old.

Apr 01, 2025 01:35 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

The only word that comes to mind is, "love". Thank you for sharing this special time! You will never regret these memories.

Mar 23, 2025 09:11 AM
Philip A. Raices

Hi Paula,

Yes, it's all about the family as there will never be a U-Haul behind our hearses to take any possessions with us, no $$$, jewelry, or anything else.  The only things we take with us are our Soul and Memories, so I am 1000% focused on that most valuable commodity.

Apr 01, 2025 01:34 PM
Kris Collis, Associate Broker
Smart Way America Realty - East Stroudsburg, PA
Professional Results you Expect 570-801-5525

Philip, wonderful to hear about your sabbatical with the family, taking a break from the usual schedule. Keeping our priorities straight pays many dividends which shine through in your experience here. Very refreshing and inspiring post. Thanks!

Mar 23, 2025 06:06 PM
Philip A. Raices

Hey Kris,  Sorry for the late response, but I am still chill'n with the kids and grandkids.  It's all about the Memories as I conveyed to Charles.

Apr 01, 2025 01:32 PM
Charles Ross - eXp Realty (Salina Group) | Broker
Salina Group - Salina, KS
Love To Help People

What an uplifting and soulful reflection, Philip A. Raices! Balancing purpose, prosperity, and presence with family is the ultimate win. Your energy and outlook are a breath of fresh air! 🌅👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 #StayMotivated #FamilyFirst #LifeBalance 💖✨

Mar 24, 2025 07:12 PM
Philip A. Raices

Hey Charles,  

I'm sorry for not getting back to you sooner, as I'm still partially in the chill stage with my kids and grandkids.  It's all about memories and not $$$$, thanks for your kind thoughts!

Apr 01, 2025 01:30 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I just now realized I already commented on this one, but this really is the thing to do to take some time. :)

Mar 24, 2025 07:28 PM