Admin

My Blood Line

By
Real Estate Agent with Premier Property Sales & Rentals RS284559

This post is in response to the ActiveRain March Challenge: Sharing The Gift of Who You Are, thanks to Patricia Feager and Lew Corcoran.

------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Ukie stuffI am second generation American. My grandparents on both sides of my family came to America in the early 1900’s from Ukraine. They migrated because life was very hard back there, and I grew up hearing stories of how they settled in and raised my parents in and around the Philadelphia area.

My father’s parents moved around a bit after they were married. My grandfather would purchase farms at auction. He would sell things from his farms in the city, as a huckster, using a horse and wagon as transport his goods for sale. His last farm was in Atco NJ, a 40 acres farm, which had a blueberry patch and various other crops, and some livestock. My grandmother worked as a cleaning person for many years to help, then did some small garden work after my grandfather died. Both were hard workers to the end.

My mother’s parents ended up in Conshohocken, where the Blue Route is now located, on a farm where they had eleven children. My grandfather worked in the coal mines in northern Pennsylvania so he was gone for long stretches leaving the working of the farm and raising my aunts and uncles to my grandmother. She was also a runner for a bootlegger during prohibition.

All of my grandparents were hard workers, all carried on their Ukrainian traditions and foods throughout their lives which was passed down to my parents and down to me. I still make many Ukrainian dishes because I crave them and they keep me connected to my roots. Over the years I have been inspired to make pysanky, decorations on eggs with beeswax and dyes, and to keep creating Ukrainian embroidered pieces.

Upon reflection, I still feel my Ukrainian heritage within me that was passed down to me, thanks to my grandparents and my parents.  And I continue to honor this fact by the foods I crave and make throughout the year, and the craft work that still makes its way from my heart and through my hands.

Ukrainian Food

 

Posted by

Gloria

Gloria Todor and Doug Durren, Realtors®, SFR®

Premier Property Sales & Rentals
610-328 2400 Office Springfield, PA 19064  

gloriaTrealestate@gmail.com
484-431-3686 

 2 Professionals Helping Sellers and Buyers since 2004
--Contact Us For A Free Consultation--
Real Estate Guides

 Monthly Market Reports Posted Here

     Facebook    LinkedIN   You Tube

More Links:
Day Trips From Delaware County PA

Real Estate Delaware County PA

Ask me

 

Comments(16)

Show All Comments Sort:
Aura Alex
Seattle, WA
Retired Real Estate Pro

Hello Gloria,

Your heritage continues to resonate as a recognizable tune that touches both your emotional center and intellectual depths. Deep-rooted connections wind through your soul’s fibers and establish a fundamental sense of belonging.

It crafts a delicate tale that speaks softly about the common strands that unite us beyond our differences. Love moves across every barrier with graceful ease, just as rivers flow without stopping.

FEATURED in the Old Farts Club.

Mar 22, 2025 10:49 AM
Gloria Todor

Thank you very much Aura Alex for your kind words and the Feature.  Have a Happy Spring.  Thanks again.

Mar 22, 2025 10:56 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Hi Gloria... you've pictured some foods that I totally love due to my own Russian heritage. And I collect painted eggs although I don't have the skills to paint myself.

Mar 22, 2025 11:04 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Gloria Todor I do, Gloria. When I lived in NY City and the lower East Side was still full of Ukrainian immigrants, I used to go down there at Easter season and buy goodies and colored eggs.

Mar 22, 2025 11:27 AM
Gloria Todor

Nina Hollander, Broker such good comfort food! I bet you have a wonderful collection of eggs.  

Mar 22, 2025 11:09 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Gloria, I am Pennsylvania dutch and still make lots of food that I grew up with.  Share some of your recipes sometime.

Mar 22, 2025 11:08 AM
Gloria Todor

Will Hamm I bet you have some good recipes as well. Thanks for the suggestion.  Happy Spring!

Mar 22, 2025 11:14 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Thanks, Gloria, for sharing some of your family story.

Have an outstanding spring!

Mar 22, 2025 11:45 AM
Gloria Todor

Thank you Roy Kelley . You also.

Mar 23, 2025 10:35 AM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

Thanks for sharing, make it a great Saturday and enjoy your weekend!

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Mar 22, 2025 12:15 PM
Gloria Todor

Thank you Bill Salvatore - East Valley 

Mar 23, 2025 10:35 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Your heartfelt reflection truly brings your family's rich heritage to life, Gloria Todor! I love hearing about the ways you've embraced your Ukrainian roots and how those traditions shape your identity today. Thanks for sharing such a personal glimpse into your family's journey—it's inspiring!

Mar 22, 2025 12:41 PM
Gloria Todor

Thank you Lew Corcoran .  It felt good to reminisce.  Thanks for hosting.

Mar 23, 2025 10:36 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Associate Real Estate Broker

The roots of those connected overseas run deep and keep them well-grounded for the efforts exerted to keep the family together and thriving.

Mar 22, 2025 01:59 PM
Gloria Todor

Thanks Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 

Mar 23, 2025 10:37 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Gloria- your grandparents and their hard work ethics are what built this country. I love that you continue your heritage with your crafts and the meals you prepare. 

Mar 22, 2025 02:15 PM
Gloria Todor

Thank you Kathy Streib .  We all have interesting stories.

Mar 23, 2025 10:38 AM
Patricia Feager
Flower Mound, TX

привіт Gloria Todor! We would make great neighbors. I am also a second generation America and my 4 grandparents came to America in the late 1890s. The neighborhood I grew up in was Polish and Ukrainian. I'm Polish/Austrian and played with my Ukrainian friends. My father's father landed in PA after Ellis Island and worked in the Coal Mines. My dad had many cousins who remained in PA in or around Centralia. My dad and every father who worked, worked very hard in their jobs, like yours. My mom also worked hard doing house chores. Work ethics, like from your family were taken very seriously.  

I loved your cross stitch and seeing your Ukrainian Easter Egg! Also, your samples of food have me feeling homesick for the taste of good homemade cooking!

Your story tugged at my heart. I was very happy to read the story about your heritage that shaped you into who you are! It was the perfect reading for me today!!!

Thank you!

Mar 22, 2025 03:49 PM
Patricia Feager

Gloria Todor - I had no idea Centralia is still burning. That's so sad for the people and the environment. I can only wish I could get homemade cooking for Easter. 

I sure hope your Easter will be blessed!

Mar 23, 2025 01:23 PM
Gloria Todor

Patricia Feager nice to hear about your similar background.  Centralia is still burning unfortunately in those mine shafts. I hope you get some good homemade cooking as Easter approaches.  Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Mar 23, 2025 10:40 AM
Patricia Feager
Flower Mound, TX

Gloria Todor - I forgot to mention, this part of your words also resonated strongly:

"My grandfather would purchase farms at auction. He would sell things from his farms in the city, as a huckster, using a horse and wagon as transport his goods for sale. His last farm was in Atco NJ, a 40 acres farm, which had a blueberry patch and various other crops, and some livestock."

In Chicago during summer months, there was a Farmer who came through our neighborhood also using a horse and wagon stocked with fruits and vegetables selling his fresh farm food. Whether he came from Wisconsin, Iowa, or Indiana, I did not know. I was thankful you mentioned your grandfather and how thrifty he was in business "to purchase farms at auction." Between your grandfather's business, and your own business and domestic skills that you still embrace it is evident how strong your roots have been planted. I admire your use of your eye hand coordination making those beautiful Ukrainian embroidered pieces. I tried a few times to learn but never pursued it or succeeded to the level you have. Seriously, you have no idea how much your entry to the March 2025 AR Challenge: Sharing the Gifts of Who You Are, were to me. Thank you. 

Mar 22, 2025 10:33 PM
Gloria Todor

Patricia Feager I was fortunate to have many teachers around me when learning how to sew and embroider.  I was even given my own embroidery pattern per say.  The one thing I wish my parents passed on was the language...they did not.  They did not want us to struggle in school like they did.  So I only heard the language when my grandparents were around and with other elders in the neighborhood/church.  I'm happy my entry was a positive thing for you, as it was for me to reflect.  Enjoy this uplifting time of year, Spring.

Mar 23, 2025 10:46 AM
Patricia Feager

Gloria Todor - Yes! You were very fortunate to have teachers willing to teach you how to sew and embroider. I remember staring at my grandmothers pattens when she was alive. They were so fascinating!

I was like you. I could hear the language when my mom, grandparents, aunts and uncles spoke, but never learned the language either. Our relatives who kept their language to themselves assimilated well while still communicating with other family members and friends who had similar backgrounds. 

Oh yes! I definitely enjoyed reading your story. It was nourishing to my soul! 

Mar 23, 2025 01:28 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Gloria - thank you for sharing more of your history.  I enjoyed reading this post.  

Mar 23, 2025 01:39 AM
Gloria Todor

Thank you Michael Jacobs 

Mar 23, 2025 10:47 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Thank you for sharing this part of your history. I think food and work ethic are some of the major things that can be passed down from generation to generation!

Mar 23, 2025 06:06 AM
Gloria Todor

Thanks Kat Palmiotti .  If I recall correctly, you mentioned the work ethic from you father and mother in your post in this challenge. 

Mar 23, 2025 10:48 AM
Kat Palmiotti

They drilled it into us!

Mar 24, 2025 05:19 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I love hearing about hard working people, especially since their sons and daughters turn out to be such good people!

Mar 23, 2025 07:45 AM
Gloria Todor

Brian England a very good point!

Mar 23, 2025 10:48 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Wow you come from very hard working folks Gloria!  They sound a lot like my ancestors as well, but from Ireland and Luxembourg.  I love that you are still enjoying cooking the foods.....OMG they look delicious!  Yum!  We have so much to be grateful for, don't we!!

Mar 23, 2025 02:32 PM
Gloria Todor

Anna "Banana" Kruchten we certainly do! Thank you!  I bet you have some good family recipes also.

Mar 28, 2025 11:53 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Gloria. Growing up in my grandmother's house in the neigborhood where my Mom and her siblings were raised traditions were important. I had a friend whose Mom was a school friend of my Mom. They lived across the street. Those days are gone but some traditions still live on. Enjoy your day  

Mar 25, 2025 04:52 AM
Gloria Todor

Wayne Martin It was nice having family so close and so easy to just run next door for a chat of for holiday visiting. Fond memories.  Have a good weekend.

Mar 28, 2025 11:54 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Gloria Todor  How interesting! I enjoyed reading your post. You just made me hungry I think I will raid the fridge.  

Mar 27, 2025 05:51 PM
Gloria Todor

That's funny Hannah Williams !

Mar 28, 2025 11:55 AM