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We Get by Giving: The Lasting Impact of Floyd Wickman’s Philosophy

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Real Estate Agent with Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899

This marks my fourth entry in the March ActiveRain Challenge, hosted by Patricia Feager and Lew Corcoran where we’re highlighting the individuals who’ve inspired us to become who we are today. One name that stands out for me is Floyd Wickman; a mentor and coach whose teachings left a lasting imprint on my real estate career.

Back in 1998 and 1999, our Northwest Coldwell Banker office offered us a 6-week Floyd Wickman course. It was described as one of the most effective, results-driven group programs in the real estate industry, built specifically to help agents and recruiters reach their goals. And it absolutely delivered.

The training we received was invaluable. So much so that Geno and I took the course both years, convinced of the power and importance of what we were learning. We were captivated by the sharp, well-dressed man leading our sessions; full of heart, humor, and practical wisdom. Floyd’s message was clear: Real Estate is about people. It’s about relationships. It’s about service.

Through his coaching, we learned how to overcome objections, create meaningful client experiences, communicate our values, and, most importantly, to listen. Those skills didn’t just help us become better agents; they shaped our entire approach to business and service.

We were so inspired that in 2000, we launched our very first personal marketing brochure that we used for many years before revamping.

The tagline on the cover read:
“If it Matters to YOU, It Matters to Us.”
Inside, another line spoke directly to Floyd’s influence:
“We like to think of ourselves as not being in the Real Estate business, but in the business of helping families achieve their goals.”

That philosophy came directly from one of Floyd’s most powerful teachings:

“It’s what you do when you do not have to, that will determine who you become when you can no longer help it.”

That quote has stayed with me all these years. It speaks to character, integrity, and self-discipline; the idea that our true growth comes from the choices we make when no one’s watching, when there’s no obligation or spotlight.

Floyd’s courses helped shape how Geno and I built our business and how I continue to practice real estate today. We even earned pins that read: “We get by Giving;” a mantra that became a guiding principle in both our personal and professional lives.

Floyd Wickman dedicated his life to helping others set meaningful goals and take actionable steps toward achieving them. His belief that it’s never too late, and that you have what it takes within you, continues to inspire me.

Thank you, Floyd. Your teachings and philosophy helped me become the best real estate agent I could be, and continue to strive to be.

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Patricia Feager
Flower Mound, TX

Dorie Dillard Austin TX - it's too bad for me that I never heard about Floyd Wickman; mentor and coach before now. It might have persuaded me to change brokerages. Floyd really had a good philosophy about real estate. Because you and Geno took the course twice, it made it even more meaningful. Oh, you're missing Geno and how he and people like Floyd Wickman helped shape you into someone worthy of remembrance yourself. I'm sure you had the same impact on them. 

Remembering the people who changed our lives and were a part of our success journey is so personal and very inspirational. Your stories are part of your legacy. I am grateful you shared this important part of your life and that I get to share ActiveRain with you too. 

Thank you for taking me on an extraordinary journey through your participation in the March 2025 AR Challenge: Sharing the Gift of Who you Are! 

Mar 24, 2025 07:12 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Dorie, I would say that you and Geno were well ahead of your times as a result of taking that course.

Mar 24, 2025 07:25 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Dorie... I've always lived my life believing you get when you give... and that was long before I ever heard of Floyd Wickman. I started his course about 27 years ago and they kicked me out... they decided I was too independent.

 

 

Mar 24, 2025 07:42 AM
Aura Alex
Seattle, WA
Retired Real Estate Pro

Hi Dorie,

Giving builds goodwill, whether through great customer service, new products, or community programs. Companies that support social causes show leadership and a desire to improve the world, which appeals to today’s consumers.

Ultimately, giving aims to create a positive and lasting impact that helps everyone involved.

FEATURED in the Old Farts Club. Great post!

Mar 24, 2025 09:10 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Dorie, I have never been to one of his seminars, but do believe in that same message.

Mar 24, 2025 11:05 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Your tribute to Floyd Wickman really resonates, Dorie Dillard Austin TX! It's clear how deeply his teachings shaped your journey—thanks for sharing such authentic insights and inspiring us all to put service first in our careers. You definitely embody that "get by giving" spirit!

Mar 24, 2025 12:40 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Dorie- after reading your post, I went to Amazon to look at some of his books!  What an inspiring mentor!!!!  It says a lot knowing that you and Geno went twice and built your business from what you learned. 

Mar 24, 2025 04:35 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Oh I am so on the same page with Floyd's philosophy and training Dorie!  I did not take any of his courses but I was part of another one with very similiar leanings and it fit me to a T. 

Real Estate is about people. It’s about relationships. It’s about service.

Mar 25, 2025 05:09 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Dorie, I really do believe this to be true 100% without fail. There’s something so rewarding about doing what’s right to help another person and most of the time it does come back to you in full force for the best outcome. /:)

Mar 25, 2025 09:10 PM
Paddy Deighan MBA JD PhD
http://www.medicalandspaconsulting.com - Vail, CO
Paddy Deighan J.D. Ph.D

I have not seen these concepts in years and it was wonderful to revisit them!!!

Mar 25, 2025 10:41 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Obviously, his words resonated as they still impact you today. I will have to watch your video when I have some time over the next couple of days.

Mar 26, 2025 06:39 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

It is so wonderful when our lives are impacted by people like Floyd Wickman! 

Mar 26, 2025 09:09 AM
Lise Howe
Keller Williams Capital Properties - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

I started in real estate in 1989 and Floyd Wickman was a big big deal then.  I was sorry that I never got to take his course, Sweat Hogs, because I was dual career back then.  His philosphy is very similar to one pillar of Keller Willilams - Coming from Contribution.  People/ clients have to know that you care more about their successful outcome than you do about what you are going to get out of the transaction.  Great philosphy, great post. 

Mar 26, 2025 09:14 AM
Fred Griffin Florida Real Estate
Fred Griffin Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
Licensed Florida Real Estate Broker

 

 My first encounter with Floyd Wickman was at a Coldwell Banker convention in 1987. 

    I can still remember his advice from that session:   "The very first thing you must do in the morning is Get Listings.  That needs to be written in to your appointment book at 8:00AM every day.   Make calls, knock on doors, do whatever it takes to get new Listings!"

   I saw Floyd a couple of more times over the years, at  FAR and NAR annual conventions.  

Very motivational, very inspiring, a likeable man!

 

Mar 26, 2025 09:40 AM
Steffy Hristova
HomeSmart Elite Group Tempe AZ Tel: 602.710.8161 - Tempe, AZ
Tempe AZ Realtor - Your Home Close to Your Work!

Dorie, what a great story - I loved your tag lines "If it matters to YOU, it matters to us". Inspiring coaches bring so much value to us, and the clients we serve. 

Mar 26, 2025 02:31 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Dorie:

What a powerful and inspirational influence Floyd Wickman was for you, and so many others. Love the taglines you and Geno used in your marketing.

Jeff

Mar 26, 2025 08:02 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I’m feeling quite inspired by all of the comments here. I just wanted to say that and give you guys a little bit of love. :)

Mar 26, 2025 10:47 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I think there’s a lot to be said about caring about people in a way that resonates into the heart of things rather than just trying to get somebody to make a purchase.

Mar 26, 2025 10:49 PM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.WarrenCountyOhioRealEstate.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Dorie, it makes a world of difference to clients when they realize their agent is about taking care of them and not just interested in the check that comes from the sale. 

Mar 27, 2025 08:18 AM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

"We get by giving."

I can't think of a better motto. We are only successful if we make our client successful.

Apr 07, 2025 11:08 AM