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Going the Extra Mile by Talking on the Phone

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Real Estate Agent with Dirt Road Real Estate SA676002000

For many of us who maybe older, one of the childhood toys we might have had was 2 empty tin cans connected with a string. This toy was a very primitive telephone and yet provided lots of fun.

Fast forward to today, a world of evolving technology. Now instead of 2 tin cans, we have mobile devices that allow us to type our messages, (text). For busy real estate agents as well as other salespeople, texting now appears to be a more frequent type of communication rather than picking up the phone and physically talking to another agent.

TEXTING IS NOT TALKING!

Texting, words on a screen even with emojis, is still quite impersonal. What is missing is the tone, syntax and personal touch.  No authentic emotional connection is truly being made unless a lot of negative emojis are used.  Then add in when voice command is used, the AI within the messaging software often misunderstands words and potentially adds confusion to the message.

With many professional real estate agents very busy, time is of the essence. And, with technology, sometimes texts are not received in a timely manner.

During the last several years, I have been somewhat chastised by younger real estate agents and some older ones because “I am old school.” For me that is a compliment, not a criticism.

From my experience those who are “old school,” understand that:

  • Sales is the transference of feelings
  • Human beings are social creatures
  • Authentic communication takes place in the moment, not with 30 seconds to over one minute delays as the typed letters travel through cyber space
  • By actually talking on the phone, you may just surprise the person on the other side
  • Time is saved in the short and long terms

Going the extra mile by talking on the phone will build your real estate practice and strengthen existing relationships that often turn into ongoing sales referrals. I know this to be true because for the last three to four years, my real estate practice has grown because I picked up the phone and actually "talked" not "text" the person on the other side.

Leanne M Smith, The Grit and Gratitude Agent Who Goes the Extra Mile Because Life Begins Where the Pavement Ends.

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Leanne M. Smith, MS, GRI, rCRMS

2018 KGVAR Rookie Realtor of the Year-55+
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Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Leanne Smith,

Although I use my phone often, texts and emails are great for saving time on various tasks. However, reaching out and making genuine connections will always be valuable.

Mar 31, 2025 12:29 PM
Leanne Smith

Hmm I know I replied to your comment but it didn't show up.  Thank you and yes using the correct tool to achieve the best results is always a winner.

Apr 06, 2025 07:58 AM
Adam Feinberg
Elegran - Manhattan, NY
NYC Condo, Co-op, and Townhouse Advisor

I hate texting unless it's for short appropriate situations - i.e. I am at the building early- the entrance is around the corner on the cross st rather than the avenue.

For signficant aspects- email is great for some situations- but not others and the phone for longer conversations that might be needed. I think the best agents in my market knows when to use each form of communication.

Mar 31, 2025 01:49 PM
Leanne Smith

I agree with you and yes the professional real estate agents (aka the best agents) know when to use each form of communication.

Apr 01, 2025 08:17 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thanks for this insightful post, Leanne Smith! You’ve nailed the importance of authentic communication in our tech-driven world. Here’s to picking up the phone and making those real connections—it really can make all the difference!

Mar 31, 2025 02:04 PM
Leanne Smith

I appreciate your kind words and "it really can make all the difference!"

Apr 01, 2025 08:17 AM
Jim Smith
The Property Management Company - Round Rock, TX
Broker,CRS,GRI,RMP,CNE,TRLP

There should be boundaries with any type of communication devices - especially phones.  Being available "24/7" is impractical, and a waste of valuable productive time.  As a professional property manager and investor consultant, email is by far the best tool, as it can be done when the party is prepared and has the time to formulate the message, can be responded to at any time, and it tracks the information for future reference.  if a phone call (or Zoom, or any other type of direct communication) needs to occur, an appointment can be made through any number of calendar apps that ought to be part of your tech-stack.  Like anything else, the phone is a tool, and should be used at the appropriate time.

Mar 31, 2025 05:21 PM
Leanne Smith

I do prefer emails for tracking as it takes necessary tho unnecessary time to convert texts into PDF for record keeping.  Thank you for adding to this continuing dialogue.

Apr 01, 2025 08:18 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Leanne,

I agree going the extra mile and pick up the phone works wonders. Another way is to see them personally. I went to my sellers house this evening to get a price reduction..it was best done in person and in 20 minutes I had it secured!

Mar 31, 2025 07:31 PM
Leanne Smith

Good morning Dorie Dillard Austin TX and as well have had similar success when meeting in person. Thank you and make this first day of April incredible!

 

Apr 01, 2025 08:25 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Leanne- I agree!!! I love and use texts for quick responses or questions or when I know the other person is better reached this way. But a phone call...better yet an in-person conversation is the gold standard of communicating. 

Mar 31, 2025 08:31 PM
Leanne Smith

So true about "an in-person conversation is the gold standard of communicating."

Apr 01, 2025 08:19 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Yes, actually speaking to someone, whether it's on the phone or in person, can help grow a relationship and can help clarify issues. A lot of good information can get lost with the written word.

Apr 01, 2025 05:42 AM
Leanne Smith

I believe your last statement is so true.  For me being a literal reader, I read and hear exactly what is written or said without many any assumptions. After many conversations, I will send back an email confirming what I heard.

Apr 06, 2025 07:59 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Leanne - I appreciate the comment made by Jim Smith in this thread.  Phones and even two tin cans are communication devices.  Using any tool effectively is a success.   "Lots" to consider.  

Apr 01, 2025 06:20 AM
Leanne Smith

Boundaries are always important and need to be recognized. As with any tool, there is "lots to consider." Thank you.

Apr 01, 2025 08:27 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

I guess I am old school as well. I am not a fan of texting what needs to be discussed. 

Too many rapid-fire text messages by someone who is vomiting their thoughts and feelings in the moment, drive me bonkers.  There is a need to set healthy boundaries with people who misuse texting in such a way.

 

Apr 01, 2025 08:20 AM
Leanne Smith

I agree with you and yet many fail to understand "healthy boundaries." Thank you and good morning

Apr 01, 2025 08:27 AM
Aura Alex
Seattle, WA
Retired Real Estate Pro

Hi Leanne,

Like many non-native Americans, I often had to consider the best way to communicate with clients carefully. Cell phones were reserved strictly for emergencies, while email served as the primary mode of communication. Texting was rarely used.

Language barriers sometimes made it challenging to ensure clarity during phone conversations. I have never been much of a phone person.

Apr 02, 2025 03:45 PM
Leanne Smith

Good evening Aura and as in life there are always exceptions. When language is a potential barrier, email is a great communication tool. Thank you for contributing from your experience and perspective.

Apr 02, 2025 05:47 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

I do still prefer really talking to others. You can hear voice inflections, tone, and emotions.

Apr 07, 2025 09:44 AM
Leanne Smith

So true. Typing lacks those characteristics. Thank you and good morning.

Apr 09, 2025 07:39 AM
Faye Y. Taylor
StepStone Realty, LLC - Floresville, TX
Country Living with City Convenience -Wilson Co TX

Many times one can notice that the other party did not really understand all that was said.  And on a phone conversation it is easier to have someone respond they need more clarification.  I have noticed with a couple of agents recently that they have replied with what I consider incomplete answers.  What did you really mean as we are in a sales contract option period  and your communication was not really clear. So while not always crazy about a phone conversation when it is late in the day, sometimes that is the best way to make sure all are on the same page.  So I do agree with you.  But have been trained to always follow up with an email detailing the conversation. 

Apr 10, 2025 02:55 PM
Leanne Smith

For me the follow-up email is my CYA policy. I am old school and a firm believe in risk management. Thank you and good morning.

Apr 11, 2025 08:08 AM