Admin

Rule #5 for writing real estate prospecting letters

By
Services for Real Estate Pros with Marte Cliff Copywriting

Rule #5 for writing real estate prospecting letters - Never be pushy.


Remember the old adage about the folly of asking someone to marry you on theRule #5 in writing real estate prospecting letters first date.

Pushing for a listing too soon is a similar folly. Most of us don't like to be pushed, so when someone pushes us, we push back - and push them away! 

Instead of pushiness, give homeowners good information. Show them how you can help, and offer to do so, but don’t annoy them by being pushy.

Whatever you do, never be rude. Never assume that they owed you a reply to any of your letters. 

I sometimes get email from people saying things like "I've written you twice now and you haven't answered me! Take time today to reply." What?? If I'd wanted to answer, I'd have answered. Once in a while, if I'm in less than a terrific mood, I actually write back and tell them so. 

Some of that comes in the mail as well. Yesterday I got a fundraising letter with the notation "Remit immediately." Had I considered making a donation, that would have changed my mind. 

While content is king, consistency is queen, so keep right on being cheerful and offering to help. 

If you really don't want to write your own letters...

Visit me at Done-For-You Real Estate Letters: Save Time & Effort, Generate More Leads to choose from over 40 sets of pre-written letters. Or, if you prefer, write me. I'd be pleased to write custom letters, just for you. 

Comments(5)

Show All Comments Sort:
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Marte and I am learning from you in your lessons with us here in the Mail.  Maybe I should hire you

Apr 10, 2025 09:34 AM
Marte Cliff

Thanks Will Hamm - You're certainly welcome to do so! 

Apr 11, 2025 05:55 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Marte,

Love your series and I am caught up now. #5 is a good one..NO ONE likes to be pushed! Instead of being pushy give them something of value, great suggestion!

Apr 10, 2025 10:21 AM
Marte Cliff

Dorie Dillard Austin TX - I think "pushy" is a real turn off. If someone tells me I have to decide right now, I always do so. I say no! 

Apr 11, 2025 05:56 PM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

great information. Thanks for sharing it.

Have a super fantastic week!

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Apr 10, 2025 10:43 AM
Marte Cliff

You too, Bill Salvatore - East Valley 

Apr 11, 2025 05:56 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Hi Marte... I'm shocked that anyone would approach a prospective client that way, but these days nothing surprises me.

Apr 10, 2025 10:46 AM
Marte Cliff

Nina Hollander, Broker - sad but true - some people have no common sense. 

Apr 11, 2025 05:57 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thanks, Marte Cliff! This is such a valuable reminder that building relationships is all about respect and patience. I love the marriage analogy—no one wants to feel pressured! Your tips on delivering good, helpful info without being pushy are spot on!

Apr 10, 2025 01:05 PM
Marte Cliff

Thank you Lew Corcoran. I appreciate your comments. 

Apr 11, 2025 05:58 PM