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When It Stops Being Fun I'm Done

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Embracing Your Passion as a New Real Estate Agent

As soon as it stops being fun, I'm done. When I first took the real estate course, this was my attitude to tide me over after an accident and I still feel the same way.

Starting a career in real estate can be both exhilarating and challenging. As a new agent, it’s important to recognize that this journey is about more than just changing your job and showing pretty houses. It's about adopting a new mindset. Here's advice to help you navigate this exciting field.

Understanding the Transition

When you begin your real estate career, you’re stepping into a world that demands a different way of thinking. This transition will require you to learn new concepts, acquire essential skills, and adapt to a fast-paced environment. Real estate isn’t just about buying and selling properties; it involves understanding marketing, negotiating deals, and building strong relationships with clients and colleagues.

Navigating Challenges -Every passion comes with its own set of challenges that will test your resilience. In real estate, this might mean working long hours, dealing with complex regulations, or competing in a crowded market. While these challenges can seem overwhelming initially, they are also opportunities for growth. Each hurdle you overcome will enhance your expertise and develop your problem-solving abilities.

Reaping the Rewards-A career in real estate can bring numerous rewards. Not only can it lead to financial success, but there’s also a profound sense of accomplishment that comes from helping others find or sell their homes. The gratitude from clients, the excitement of closing a deal, and the joy of discovering new properties can be incredibly fulfilling. Let your passion for real estate motivate you to persevere, as this enthusiasm will ultimately fuel your long-term success.

Building Your Network-One of the most valuable aspects of being in real estate is the chance to connect with a variety of people. Making connections with other professionals, clients, and mentors can significantly enhance your knowledge and provide important insights into the industry. Remember that real estate is fundamentally about people. Building strong relationships can lead to referrals and collaborations that may open new doors for you.

Staying Committed-Finding your passion in real estate is just the first step. To thrive, you must remain dedicated and committed to continual learning. Stay updated on the market, work on improving your skills, and be receptive to feedback. The industry is always evolving, so adaptability will be one of your greatest assets.

 

Whether you view real estate as a change or a challenge, focusing on how you respond is vital. Embrace the transition, tackle challenges head-on, and let your passion guide you. While the path may not always be easy, the fulfillment you’ll gain from pursuing what you love will make the journey rewarding. Remember, in real estate, there’s no limit to what you can achieve when you are passionate about your work!

 

But...

One harsh piece of advice, if you don't love what you're doing and you're not experiencing any success, take action. Consider finding a mentor, hiring a coach, or partnering with someone. If that doesn't help, it might be time to reevaluate your path and leave. 🙋

 

Because

I love real estate with all its challenges and my way of thinking:

If it's not fun, I'm done!

 

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Margaret Rome
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Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Associate Real Estate Broker

This is a post that is far too real for so many and yet new licensees expect to be able to just make big dollars before they even know the system

This is not an easy business to master and succeed

May 03, 2025 04:59 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754   New licensees often expect quick success, but mastering this business takes time and dedication.

May 03, 2025 07:43 PM
Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

.....turn out the light and the party is over. Glad that point has not ocurred yet for me or you Margaret. 

May 03, 2025 06:03 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Cute comment

Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI 

The lights are still on brightly!

May 03, 2025 07:44 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

I couldn't agree more with you!! Your whole post is so full of wisdom, but your ending is perfect! It is okay to leave when it's not fun anymore!

May 03, 2025 06:07 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Dorie Dillard Austin TX 

Good to see you!

I was hesitant to write this, but I felt it was important to express!

May 03, 2025 07:47 PM
Fred Griffin Florida Real Estate
Fred Griffin Real Estate - Tallahassee, FL
Licensed Florida Real Estate Broker

  Hi Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 

     This article should be required reading for each and every person who "Wants to be a Realtor!"   Outstanding advice, and the statement that "If it's not fun then I am done" is the frosting on the cake. 

     

May 04, 2025 04:17 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

I appreciate your support. 

Fred Griffin Florida Real Estate 

May 05, 2025 09:02 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Margaret. When it stops being fun, I'm done. Many should ponder that seriously. In real estate you are either growing or dying. And growing is more fun than the later. Enjoy your day.

May 04, 2025 04:32 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

You nailed it, Wayne Martin 

Growing is more fun!

May 05, 2025 09:03 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Margaret - the intensity of passion can change.  Finding fulfillment, an adventure in experiencing and a joie de vivre hopefully remains active in spirit as well as behavior.  

May 04, 2025 05:04 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Michael Jacobs,

 It is so important to maintain a sense of adventure and joy in life for as long as possible.

May 05, 2025 09:14 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I don't feel that real estate has always been a fun career, but it certainly has gotten more fun the longer I have been in it and the more selective that I get to be with who I work with and who I don't, haha.  I love that it is a career that we can do pretty much until the day we die, especially since working with some people is incredibly fun and doesn't feel like work at all.

May 04, 2025 06:01 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Brian England 

That's so true! It’s great that you're finding more joy in real estate and getting to choose who you work with. It really can be a rewarding career that allows for fun experiences!

May 05, 2025 09:17 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

No argument from me, Margaret. I'm one of those who thinks this business is less fun than it used to be... but at this stage of my life, I'm probably more interested in developing a passion for something new than reigniting it for real estate.

May 04, 2025 06:03 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400

Good afternoon, Nina Hollander, Broker 

That makes total sense! Exploring new passions can be so rewarding. Embracing change can lead to exciting opportunities!

 

 

May 05, 2025 09:20 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Margaret,
You already know I agree wholeheartedly. Every email I send has a tag that says "Whatever you're doing, make it fun."  Not everything IS fun but people like us can find a way to add an element of fun.  I love that real estate is your true passion.

May 04, 2025 06:14 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Margaret, Your title If it's not fun, I'm done got my immediate attention. That’s been Larry and my rule from day one! 

May 04, 2025 06:48 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Hello Miss Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 -for me, it is all about continuing to learn, which I love, and the people. To me, learning is fun and working with wonderful people is fun too. 

May 04, 2025 08:06 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a great perspective on keeping the joy in the work, Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400! It's so true that passion is the fuel. 🔥 Thanks for sharing these nuggets of wisdom! 🙏

May 04, 2025 12:56 PM
Aura Alex
Seattle, WA
Retired Real Estate Pro

The word “fun” is used freely, but it can mean different things for different folks. While I don’t disagree with having fun in what you do, I view it as something that continues to inspire me, and satisfaction is the outcome, whether or not it’s fun.

May 04, 2025 05:52 PM
Paddy Deighan MBA JD PhD
http://www.medicalandspaconsulting.com - Vail, CO
Paddy Deighan J.D. Ph.D

Margaret, we all need to remember these sage words AND follow them!!!

May 04, 2025 10:21 PM
Ginger Harper
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage~ Ginger Harper Real Estate Team - Southport, NC
Your Southport~Oak Island Agent~Brunswick County!

I love this way of thinking.. Ive   been doing this since 1983 and it is still fun.

 

May 05, 2025 08:27 AM
Michael Layton
PSagent.com - Palm Springs, CA
Experience and Trust

Hi Margaret, Excellent advice. There are times in any career, and Real Estate is no exception, when you are finished. There is no more to do, and you can't bring any value to the table.  It is not about good/bad right/wrong,  just about the truth

May 05, 2025 08:57 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Margaret I just happened to have a conversation with a nurse the other day and he told me he had considered betting his license awhile back.  He asked me pretty much what you're talking about it your post......and let him to know my take on becoming an agent and what it really takes.  I also let him know thatt 80% of all folks that get their license don't last long and go on to something else. Why?  Because they don't treat it like a real business.  And of course....as both of us know, if it ain't fun count me out!!

May 05, 2025 09:50 AM
Eleanor Thorne
Equity Resources - Cary, NC
Advantage Lending 919-649-5058

Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400  I couldnt agree more - if you need a Coach, or an inspiration - go find it!  Opportunity dances with those on the Dance floor - you gotta be out there!  That's not harsh, it's the truth!  

May 05, 2025 11:07 AM
Pat Starnes-Front Gate Realty
Front Gate Real Estate - Brandon, MS
601-991-2900 Office; 601-278-4513 Cell

I love what I do. Is it challenging? Yes. Can it be stressful? Also yes. But I'm thankful I found my calling and when it quits being fun, I'm done too!

May 10, 2025 12:11 PM
Dennis Neal
Exp Realty of Southern California, Inc. - Big Bear Lake, CA
Your Home Sold in 21 Days or We Sell It For Free

Margaret, your philosophy of "If it's not fun, I'm done" is a powerful reminder to embrace passion in one's career, especially in the demanding field of real estate. Your advice for new agents about mindset, building networks, and staying committed is invaluable. The added wisdom to reevaluate if the joy and success wane is equally important. Thanks for sharing this insightful perspective!

May 13, 2025 07:25 AM