Friday Fun…Would You Rather..

Good morning Kathy. Given the speed of the platform lately may have to rethink my approach since time has a value. That said I can't fully imagine the frustration Development must be feeling trying to speed things up.

I try to comment to about 20 to 25+ posts of others daily. Without doubt those who play my trivia series likely get preference but not "tit for tat" in the approach.

I am not great at responding to all comments on my posts but I try given time.

Enjoy your day here in the Rain.  

Hello Kathy - the world evolves, and AR follows that theme.  So have I in some ways.  It has been interesting to see.   Admittedly, it is a wonder that the lights continue to remain on.  Flickering as it may be - and that's a "word" that is appropriate. 

And speaking of appropriate - what "works" for me may not be what is a part of each member's reason for being here.  Who am I to say. . .   

Hi Kathy,
For me, AR is about building relationships, which requires meaningful back-and-forth communication. We all know who the ones are who comment just for the points.

I don't have a tit-for-tat attitude, but I do spend most of my time on those who seem to feel the same way.

I respond to comments on my posts, I used to comment on that person's latest post, now due to time not always.  I do read and comment on those posts in my feed and will sometimes go looking for a post by someone I enjoy reading, but am always surprised how many I miss when I read your weekly round up.

Kathy I try to comment everyday on the blogs of the members I follow, and then some other members is the topic catches my eye.  At one time I would respond to every comment someone made on my blog, BUT as time became more of a challenge, I only reply if I feel a response is needed.

Kathy I try to comment every day on the blogs of the members I follow, and then some other members is the topic catches my eye.  At one time I would respond to every comment someone made on my blog, BUT as time became more of a challenge, I only reply if I feel a response is needed.

Kathy, it has been DIFFICULT to make any comments.  Yesterday I made 5 or 6 and took AN HOUR.   I gave up.   I am busy right now, and don't have time for the waiting.    I do respond to those who comment on my posts, eventually, and comment on others that have new listings, but know they never interact.

From day one AR was about building relationships and networking with fellow professionals.  Still is to this day.  And absolutely I reply to comments on my posts - when I get the chance to write them lately.  As for the 'tit for tat'  idea - honestly I've always thought that was quite childish. 

Featured in BananaTudes!   AR is about building Tude Relationships! 

Hi Kathy:

I try to respond to all comments on my posts, and also comment regularly on posts of those I follow, although time sometimes gets in the way of consistency. I'm not in the tit for tat frame of mind and it's fine if I comment but someone doesn't comment in return. 

Jeff

Good afternoon Kathy,

I try and comment on those who have commented on my posts and definitely try a get in at least 20 comments on other's post. However life does get in the way and I may not get it all done, especially with the slowness of AR lately. If I comment on someone's post and never see them commenting on mine at some point the relationship is one sided so may come to an end.

You've beautifully highlighted the heart of our ActiveRain community, Kathy Streib! 💖 I love how you encourage genuine connections and engagement—it's what makes this platform so special. I always respond to comments and enjoy commenting on others’ posts too, so let's keep the conversation going! 😊✨

I prefer to steer clear of engaging in negative discussions.

I never keep score - I'm very grateful for the connections! 🙌😊 I think I missed some unwritten rules... Sorry.

Good morning Kathy!  I try to respond to comments but I spend a lot of time on research so sometimes it is difficult but I see this post as a reminder to comment more and reply!!

Developing relationships is worthwhile, especially if people can meet and actually become friends!

I have no time for "games". I love to try and answer back on comments on my posts but as you stated, "sometimes life/business get in the way". It should never be a "tit for tat" sort of volleyball game. I appreciate those who comment and truly love this community.

I'm not here as often as I used to be, but I still try to respond to every comment I receive. I reciprocate as often as I can. 

Kathy, your "Would You Rather" post touches on the heart of community engagement on ActiveRain! It's interesting to see the different approaches members take to responding and commenting. Your philosophy of engaging because life gets in the way, but generally reciprocating, seems to strike a good balance. It's a thoughtful way to foster connections without getting bogged down in a tit-for-tat mentality.