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Motivational Monday…Paying It Forward

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Motivational Monday…Paying It Forward

 

This is a day we would all agree needs to be observed daily!  Today is Pay It Forward Day! One kind deed or word can be like a pebble that is tossed in the lake. It creates a ripple that keeps going.

 

 

Call it whatever you want…Paying it Forward…Showing Kindness to Others…Doing a Good Deed…the results are the same…The giver and recipient both benefit. 

 

Our children learn from us…from what we say, but more than that, from our actions. Through observation, our children emulate the behavior of giving to others. 

 

We’re never too old to learn. When we moved to Delray Beach, I learned a lot about Paying It Forward from our friend and neighbor. He once stood outside a friend’s new business and urged passersby to stop in. 


What can you do? 

~Offer to return the grocery cart for someone

~Take your neighbor’s garbage can to their garage

~Text or call a friend to see how they’re doing

~Pick up a treat for a friend for no reason.
~Offer to babysit for a friend who needs some “me” time

~If your grocery store has a Food Donation barrel, make it a point to place a can(s) in it every time you go. 

 

The list is long and is ever-changing, but the point is that doing what’s right is never wrong.

 

What? An Added Bonus??

 

You know it!  When you do something for someone (no matter how big or small), it makes you feel good. You may smile, clutch your hands to your heart…even giggle. 

 

That’s not all. When you pay it forward, 

your brain releases good chemicals (Serotonin, Dopamine, and Oxytocin). 

Other benefits are lowered blood pressure and less stress. 

 

Make it a special day for someone today!


Only by giving are you able to receive more
than you already have.

Jim Rohn

 

To ease another's heartache is to forget one's own.
Abraham Lincoln

 

 

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Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I can't think of any downsides to paying it forward!

Apr 28, 2025 05:54 AM
Kathy Streib

Kat Palmiotti I agree. And no matter how it is received, you know you did the right thing. 

Apr 28, 2025 01:47 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Kathy,

Good to remember to pay it forward every day but for sure today!! There are so many small things we can do to make someone's day!

Apr 28, 2025 06:00 AM
Kathy Streib

Dorie Dillard Austin TX your post was spot on for today. 

Apr 28, 2025 01:49 PM
Jeffrey Richman
Immediate Home Solutions - Myrtle Beach, SC
Creative Real Estate Specialist

Hi Kathy,

I try to pay it forward every chance that I can.  A great movie to watch about the (bring you tissues!) is Pay it Forward with Kevin Spacey, Helen Hunt and Haley Joel Osment.

Apr 28, 2025 06:22 AM
Kathy Streib

Hi Jeffrey Richman I wasn't familiar with this movie but it sounds like the kind of movie I'd like. 

Apr 28, 2025 01:59 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Let's continue to spread love and kindness every day.

Have an outstanding week.

Apr 28, 2025 06:33 AM
Kathy Streib

Roy Kelley I couldn't agree more!!!

Apr 28, 2025 01:59 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy there is never a wrong or bad time to play it forward, we just need to recognize the opportunities.

Apr 28, 2025 06:53 AM
Kathy Streib

George Souto I agree. Once you start to recognize times when you can do something kind for someone, it becomes a habit. 

Apr 28, 2025 02:03 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Kathy,
One of my favorite ways to pay forward is anonymously.

Apr 28, 2025 06:59 AM
Kathy Streib

Carol Williams I agree. You do something for someone not for the accolades but because you can. 

Apr 28, 2025 02:03 PM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

So many small ways we can pay it forward, great information. Thanks for sharing it.

Have a super fantastic week!

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Apr 28, 2025 07:04 AM
Kathy Streib

GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore I agree. There are many small ways you can do this. 

Apr 28, 2025 02:05 PM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Kathy, it feels so good to pay it forward.  I was at the grocery store a couple of weeks ago, and an elderly woman was struggling getting her groceries out of her cart.  I helped her put them in the back of her car.    Her smile was ear to ear!

Apr 28, 2025 07:09 AM
Kathy Streib

Joan Cox Thank you for doing that. And I'll bet you felt good too. 

Apr 28, 2025 02:05 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Thank you for the inspiration this morning. Loved the quotes and the thought behind them as well.

Apr 28, 2025 07:49 AM
Kathy Streib

Hi Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 Thank YOU!  We can always find ways to be kind and giving to others. 

Apr 28, 2025 02:06 PM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP
Big Block LPT Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
Coastal San Diego, Veteran's & Retirees Services

I love dropping an uplifting text randomly on my family, friends and clients.
I'm also often bringing my neighbors trash cans in as our trash guy tends to drop them where ever he pleases. Great post and I like your AI motion art!

Apr 28, 2025 08:14 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Thank you - I'll check out Meta's AI I didn't realize they offered it.
I use Night Café.

Apr 28, 2025 02:14 PM
Kathy Streib

Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP Thank you. This morning I saw my neighbor across the street (who is 80+) take his neighbor's paper to their door!!!! 

Glad you liked the AI (it was Meta)

Apr 28, 2025 02:07 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Couldn't agree more Kathy, every act of kindness helps build a better world!

Apr 28, 2025 09:19 AM
Kathy Streib

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 just think of the ripple we can cause every day. 

Apr 28, 2025 02:08 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Kathy, I wish someone would of offer to mow my lawn yesterday.  I needed to do it in 4 portions since I am getting older, time to look to have someone to do it.

 

Apr 28, 2025 10:46 AM
Kathy Streib

Will Hamm I know what you mean. Larry mowed ours yesterday and it was humid!  He still likes doing it though. 

Apr 28, 2025 02:08 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Love it Kathy!  Givers Gain!  It's so simple and easy to make someone's day better.  Sometimes it's bigger things they need but most often it's a smile, a kind word, helping  put their groceries in their car, etc etc etc.  We have an older senior that needs extra special help and we teamed up with another couple to do what we can for him......what he'll allow.  He's kind of stubborn!!

Apr 28, 2025 11:11 AM
Kathy Streib

Anna "Banana" Kruchten Our neighbor is in his 80s and he's always taking his other neighbor's garbage can up or picking up his paper for him!!!

Apr 28, 2025 02:10 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Kathy:

Paying it forward can be so easy to do and there are abundant opportunities to do so every day...we just have to be watchful and thoughtful. It's a wonderful feeling both as a recipient and a giver.

Jeff

Apr 28, 2025 11:27 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeff Dowler, CRS I couldn't agree more. We have opportunities daily...we have only to open our minds to it. 

Apr 28, 2025 02:10 PM
John Pusa
Glendale, CA

Hello Kathy Streib it is always important to help others and participate in paying forward. Have a great week!

Apr 28, 2025 02:12 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thanks, Kathy Streib! Love the idea of making every day a "pay it forward" day—such a beautiful reminder that kindness is contagious! 🌊💖 Those simple acts really do create ripples, and you’ve inspired me to spread a little more joy today!

Apr 28, 2025 03:30 PM
Aura Alex
Seattle, WA
Retired Real Estate Pro

Dear Kathy,

The sensation of giving is like when sunlight passes through the morning mist. Your actions for others become more than gestures because they generate a chain reaction. Your chest glows with warmth while your fingertips tingle and your body feels lighter as if a secret burden has disappeared.

Their faces light up with a smile, their laughter, or their simple “thank you,” creating a musical echo that stays in the air. The world appears more gentle and radiant when your heart finds stability and your shoulders release tension.

Thank you for this post.

FEATURED in the Old Farts Club.

Apr 28, 2025 06:47 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Looking for ways to pay it forward is a wonderful way to live life, and I am sure those who live that way are extremely happy with their life!

Apr 29, 2025 06:10 AM
Mike McCann Broker - Mach1 Realty
Mike McCann - Broker, Mach1 Realty Broker-Auctioneer Serving Nebraska - Kearney, NE
ALL Types of Property For Sale 308-627-3700

Hi Kathy Streib  Thank you for sharing this with all of us!  I meant to respond last night but have been busy with work.  All is going well in our neck of the woods...including Jaime going back to fulltime work yesterday!  Have a great Tuesday afternoon!

Apr 29, 2025 11:18 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

A beautiful reminder for all, Kathy. Thank you for posting this.

May 07, 2025 08:58 PM