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Monday Musing Fun - Tude Jumping!

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Well as many of you know it's been quite the couple of months for me between surgery and other stuff going on that needed immediate attention here at our house. I am beyond grateful to be exactly where I am today........feeling better and seeing a light at the end of one tunnel.  Sure there is a another tunnel (surgery) that must replace the temporary hip.....but that (says the doc) won't be anywhere near as painful and take as long as this past few months.  I call that good news!

Here's a few things I've learned about myself this past few months....

1 I really suck at being at home constantly and doing nothing.  As in nothing.  I'm one of those people that has a lot going on, all the time. 100 to zero is not fun for folks like us!.  But the first few weeks I had no choice, I had to sleep, a lot, and I sucked at that too!  Then I started watching a few biz shows but got bored with them as my attention span was kind of MIA. But I didn't jump off the pole!  I kept my Tude in tact!  I talked and texted with friends - a lot.  And I kept asking, what else can you make happen Anna...

2 I switched to  watching cooking shows and the shows actually distracted me from everything going on and made me laugh......so that was a good thing! Tude improvement activity for sure!  Mind you, I had NEVER watched cooking shows before  - except for Julia Childs way back in college.  I had no idea what I'd been missing out on.  Have you watched any cooking shows on the Food Channel?  If not, try a few out!  It's a whole other world that I didn't know existed! I still find it funny that I'm now aware of so many incredible chefs from all over the world.  Fun group of folks!  I could have done great in that world......👩‍🍳Chef Banana!

3. The next step was to invite friends over for dinner! I couldn't and still can't go out to a restaurant (too hard to sit on stiff chairs or walk yet).  But having friends over was great next step, once I was up to it!  It was so nice to feel like I was finally part of everything again and not stuck at home alone! The only thing that I felt kind of lame about is that Gary had to do all the work.....as in all the cooking (grilling) and cleaning up.  Normally we share all that and enjoy doing so.  Remember I have always LOVED to cook for friends!  And NOW.....I am so looking forward to doing so again soon.   But NOW.......I've got a lot more interesting ideas and menu's from watching all those cooking shows! 

Moral of the story......gotta keep that TUDE rolling forward!

 

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Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

 

Attitude is everything, Miss Anna "Banana" Kruchten 🍌🍌🍌

I know you know that. A simple shift in mindset can shift an attitude from crappy to happy. 

I pray that the surgery goes well and that you heal fast. You have a wonderful nurse, Gary, to care for you.  

Apr 28, 2025 04:38 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist attitude is the key for sure!  And I'm so grateful I have that skill set firmly in place. If not, that would have been a tough thing to work around. I am pretty sure next surgery   will be a  WHOLE lot easier......thank goodness!

Apr 29, 2025 09:17 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Associate Real Estate Broker

You  are so right about the lack of activity.   My always running wife had both hips replaced and that in itself was tough.

Apr 28, 2025 05:04 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Well you know what I'm taking about Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 .  I didn't know your wife had both hips done.  That's a big deal that most likely slowed her down to a crawl.  Ugh.

Apr 29, 2025 09:18 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Anna "Banana" Kruchten   Not at all. Last year as I was recovering from the heart surgery, she was right there with me as we walked 6 miles a day.

Apr 29, 2025 09:24 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hey Ed Silva, 203-206-0754  .... I meant that it must have slowed her down at first.  The first time I had this hip surgery was easy peasy for me.  I was walking the first day....and withing a week doing well walking outside.   But this time.......since it was an bad infection the hip had to be replaced and it was on the side.......which is what made it so painful.

And good for you guys for walking 6 miles together!!!!  And I'm so glad you're doing so well now!!  I so look forward to being able to do that sometime this year.   And get back to playing golf!!

Apr 29, 2025 09:44 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Anna:

It's so nice to have this update. You certainly have the right TUDE about all you have been dealing with these past few months and the forced inactivity!

Jeff

Apr 28, 2025 05:15 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Well Jeff Dowler, CRS if anyone knows what I'm talking about for sure it's you.  Pretty amazing that we're making it through all these 'challenges'.  And we don't even get any points for them LOL!

Apr 29, 2025 09:20 AM
Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

Glad you are back to almost "tuding" along Anna. The blue skies certainly help me. Jeff

Apr 28, 2025 05:29 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI the blue skies sure helped me too!  So glad that cold and rain piece has flown by us!  Bring on the 90's!!

Apr 29, 2025 09:21 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Anna "Banana" Kruchten  Well it sounds like you are making the best of it . So sorry you have to have another surgery. You are so lucky to have Gary , but you don't need me to tell you that . I will try to call you this week and tell you my adventures. Keep your spirits up just remember it can always be worse.

Apr 28, 2025 05:40 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Hannah Williams yes all in all I've made the best of it with Gary and Norman's help!  Little Norman has been such a cutie....he always wanted to take a nap with me!!  And NO it's not going to get worse.  It's all up from here!  Period!

Apr 29, 2025 09:22 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Anna, glad you are on the mend, and able to cook in the near future.   I haven't ever watched cooking shows, and don't really enjoy cooking, but I may try watching first.

Apr 28, 2025 05:45 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Thanks so much Joan Cox !  Give it a try watching a show or two.   Chopped, Wild Card Kitchen and a few others are fun.  I have idea how they put together a dish with the ingredients they're given - in  a very short period of time.  That's pressure!

Apr 29, 2025 09:24 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Anna- NOTHING is ever going to get you down!!!!   I'm glad you're on the road to Tudeville again.  I like a lot of the cooking shows on the Food Network. Anyone can read a recipe but the good chefs show you what they know and that's a lot. 

My downfall is Diners, Drive-ins, and Dives. The only problem is that I get totally hungry when I watch it 

Apr 28, 2025 05:58 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Kathy Streib honestly I never got off the tudeville path!!  I did my absolute best to find something to feel grateful about no matter what. Some days, of course it was tough but I made it!!

I"m glad you like the cooking shows too.  It's amazing what they can put together in such a short period of time.  Not sure I could take totally weird ingredients and make sense of them all together.  Pretty amazing.  Would be fun to try!  Maybe!!  I'd need a lot of training first!!  And oh yes, we have watched Diners, DriveIns and Dives for years......forgot about that one.  He does other amazing shows too.  Did you see TOC?  Awesome!

Apr 29, 2025 09:28 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Anna,

Loved reading your latest update and how in your usual affable self have looked on the bright side of things! I agree with Kathy Streib NOTHING is going to get you down! On to surgery and that will go well..I feel it and pray for it!

Apr 28, 2025 08:02 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Thank you Dorie Dillard Austin TX I so appreciate  your knowingness and support.  That is how I feel!  Positive!  And honestly I've got one of the top docs in AZ handling this all so I'm in excellent hands.  Plus he's very kind.

Apr 29, 2025 09:30 AM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

You like me, so struggle to remain at home. Thanks for sharing it.

Have a super fantastic week!

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Apr 29, 2025 03:57 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Bill....nope it's not fun being stuck at home. But it could be worse!  Have a great week

Apr 29, 2025 09:31 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Anna... I can relate and I'm so happy you feel as if you are seeing the light at the end of the tunnel. As with most things in life, it really is all about attitude. But as for those cooking shows... I've watched in the past, but really never got into them. I record movies I haven't seen and watch those when I'm not very mobile. And, of course, there's that pile of books I have just waiting to be read.

Apr 29, 2025 04:34 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Nina Hollander, Broker for sure you know what I'm  talking about dealing with all this! It's been a first for me in my whole life.  Thank God I've got Gary!  That's all I can say!!  As for movies.....it's got to be really good for me to spend that much time watching them. I used  to like them more at a younger age but lately I find them so boring......know what I mean?

Apr 29, 2025 09:33 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Anna "Banana" Kruchten I do know what you mean... I haven't actually been to the movies but three times since end of covid. On the other hand, I recorded The Devil Wears Prada and watched again recently and really enjoyed it. There's a sequel coming out and can't wait for it.

Apr 29, 2025 10:13 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

I remember that movie Nina Hollander, Broker ! Fun movie!  A sequel ?  I'll be sure to look for it!

Apr 29, 2025 01:57 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Oh, I'm with you - going from 100 to 0 would NOT be fun!

As for cooking shows, yes, I get a kick out of them and learn stuff too. Did you know for many of the ones that are competition shows, that the chefs/cooks are not allowed to look at recipes? So they have to have ALLLLL that info in their heads? I don't know how they do that with some of the unique ingredients they have to use.

I'm glad you see light at the end of the tunnel, and really, that TUDE is a huge reason why!

Apr 29, 2025 04:51 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Kat Palmiotti I'm happy to be able  to do what I'm doing now! That zero club sucks!  LOL

Yes I did know it's ALL in their heads.  They've got to really know flavors, spices etc etc to put together what they're given  in such a short period of time.  Such strange ingredients....many of which I never heard of.  Like I said....it's a FUN new world for me.  Albeit I have loved cooking for years!  I approach so differently now.  Who knew that's what would be  the result of being stuck at home!!

Apr 29, 2025 09:36 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thanks for sharing such a vibrant and uplifting journey, Anna "Banana" Kruchten! 🌟 Your resilience and ability to find joy in the little things are truly inspiring. Wishing you all the best as you keep that Tude rolling and dive into those cooking adventures—can’t wait to hear about your culinary creations! 🍽️🙌

Apr 29, 2025 05:18 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Hi Lew Corcoran thank you so much!  Not sure it's vibrant but one thing is for sure.....I am beyond grateful to be this far in the process.  The first few weeks or so weren't fun!!  But I did try my best to make the best of it.

The cooking thing is a totally surprise to me.  Who knew there was another huge big world out there......kind of funny to me I never watched before as I do enjoy cooking fun stuff.

Apr 29, 2025 09:39 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Anna "Banana" Kruchten having friends over for dinner is something my wife and I have talked about doing more of.

Apr 29, 2025 09:57 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Give it a try George Souto !  It's always so nice to share a yummy meal with a few friends........or in our case 20 or 30 of them!  But no big gigs for us right now!

Apr 29, 2025 01:56 PM
Patricia Feager
Flower Mound, TX
Inactive/Semi Retired Real Estate Agent

Anna "Banana" Kruchten - Whew! You will be glad when all your body behaves better, and it is fully healed! I would be bored to tears if all I could do was lay around in bed.

I have not watched the cooking shows on T.V. But here's some inspiration for you when time is right. What about baking us a Banana Cream Pie and having Gary video tape your baking skills in the kitchen? Maybe have a few of your friends over for a Banana Cream Pie party? Or just photographs and your story would do too. But you would have to be the one baking the Banana Creme Pie! I can tell you one thing, I'm not a Betty Crocker Baker and if we were together in a kitchen making a big (I mean very big) Banana Cream Pie, it would look like a modern day "I Love Lucy Show!" There would be whipped cream over all of us, because I would make sure of that too! 

Until you're up on your feet and feel good again, perhaps you'll be inspired for future fun Challenges on ActiveRain. 

May 03, 2025 09:23 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Patricia I'm not really a big baker........I don't like sweets all that much so not something I'd spend a lot of time on.  But I did make a Whiskey Bundt Cake for a friends birthday and that was a big hit!

May 03, 2025 10:01 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Glad to hear you are on the upside of being turned the other way around, Anna. We love watching some of the cooking shows, especially the competitive ones, like 24 in 24, NEXT LEVEL, Spring Baking Championship and Tournament of Champions. They are fast-paced shows!

May 05, 2025 02:10 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!  We do as well except for the baking shows as I'm not much into baking stuff.  A  couple of new shows are starting in the summer so that will be fun too!

May 06, 2025 11:12 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP
Big Block LPT Realty 858.232.8722 - La Jolla, CA
Coastal San Diego, Veteran's & Retirees Services

😂 Adapt, Overcome and Delegate!

May 17, 2025 06:15 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Thomas I wouldn't have wished all this on anyone......trust me!

May 17, 2025 10:36 AM