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Creating White Space in Your Life

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Beam & Branch Realty TREC #547752

This morning I was on the phone with a friend that I met 15 years ago from Active Rain. Cherise Selley and I began blog-bantering and before long, we were lifelong friends. We have traveled together, stayed in touch, and, connected in such a deep manner.

On our call, we were discussing life in general and she shared with me this large paper she and her husband had drawn out with their life journey. Down at the bottom was a large, white space. Cherise said, "This is where I want to be, in the white space!" This instantly resonated within me and got me thinking about this, "white space".

Here are my takeaways regarding "white space":

White Space is the place where you leave open time. Today I am calling my day a "White Space" day because I intentionally left my calendar open to allow the day to unfold naturally. I don't get many of these days but when I do, I cherish them so much.

White Space allows you to relax, breathe, create, rest, reconnect, and, live! We simply do not need to have every moment of every day completely packed. Allowing for some white space is one of the best gifts you can give yourself.

White Space is that area of your life that you have not yet figured out. Do you have a retirement plan? Travel plans. Lie-goal plans such as writing a book, starting a new hobby or, even a new career. Allowing your life to have this "White Space" can be exciting as you give yourself time to determine what that space will look like.

White Space can simply be a block of time where you spend quiet time. Journaling, prayer time, note writing, meditating, walking, time in your garden, reflection time, or whatever you determine you need on a particular day.

White Space can be created within your home or office. Playing "White Noise" music, diffusing essential oils, creating a less-cluttered environment, and surrounding yourself with what makes you happy are all great ways to create your white space.

Thank you, Cherise, for sharing your thoughts with me today. This concept truly resonated within me and I am reflecting deeply on the importance of creating and connecting with the White Space. Life is chaotic and we often need to take a break from the frenzied pace. 

MAY YOU FIND YOUR WHITE SPACE TODAY!

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Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thanks for sharing this beautiful reminder, Dr. Paula McDonald. I love how you emphasize that carving out white space is a gift we give ourselves—it's essential for reconnecting and recharging. 🌿✨

May 14, 2025 10:55 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald

You are so correct, Lew that this is a gift we give to ourselves.

May 14, 2025 11:29 AM
Travis Matthews
Handyman of Las Vegas - Las Vegas, NV
Vegas handyman expert in home prep & repairs.

We’re always on the go, always trying to stay busy. This is a great reminder to be more intentional with my time. Thanks for sharing it.

May 14, 2025 10:56 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald

Hi Travis. We do need to be intentional with our time. I had a former student here in Texas named Travis Matthews. :)

May 14, 2025 11:30 AM
Paddy Deighan MBA JD PhD
http://www.medicalandspaconsulting.com - Vail, CO
Paddy Deighan J.D. Ph.D

years ago, most of us followed these principles and we have gotten away from them,,,so this was a fantastic reminder to refocus!!

May 14, 2025 12:43 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald

Thank you, Paddy. It's always good to refocus from time to time.

May 14, 2025 01:47 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

There’s so much that can be done with white space you can add a little breather or you can always add to it later.. 

May 14, 2025 02:19 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Paula,

Love this! Cherise was smart to create white space to give one a breather. You are right life is chaotic and we often need to take a break from the frenzied pace!

May 14, 2025 03:59 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Paula- I call it my ME time but yes, I have to have my White Space.  I've noticed that if my schedule does not allow for my morning walks, I'm out of whack. Trust me, when I can, I never schedule anything that interferes with my walk. 

May 14, 2025 06:48 PM
Aura Alex
Seattle, WA
Retired Real Estate Pro

I am with Kathy Streib as I call it "me" time.

I cherish my time alone when I dedicate most of my nights to writing and reading.

May 14, 2025 07:44 PM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Paula - clutter of many kinds seems to have the power to confuse me.  Perhaps, overwhelmingly.  

May 15, 2025 04:31 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

White space sounds wonderful and I agree with Cherise Selley, I want to be there too, haha.  I have not seen Cherise in the Rain, but I am now following her.

May 15, 2025 05:47 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

 

This is non-negotiable for me, Dr. Paula McDonald 

It is a must. I will add that removing toxic, negative, self-imposed victims from my life creates a lot of white space. A great way to restore inner peace is to stop the energy vampires who drain us.  

May 15, 2025 07:27 AM
Ginger Harper
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage~ Ginger Harper Real Estate Team - Southport, NC
Your Southport~Oak Island Agent~Brunswick County!

Great post.  Thanks for sharin

May 15, 2025 10:28 AM
Joe Mojica
Laer Realty Partners Bowen - Port St Lucie, FL
Your Home Adds Value to You

Paula - my "White Space" is when I pray.

May 16, 2025 04:56 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

I block it in my schedule.  Everyone knows the blue block is non-negotiable. 

May 16, 2025 06:34 AM
Ginger Harper
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage~ Ginger Harper Real Estate Team - Southport, NC
Your Southport~Oak Island Agent~Brunswick County!

This is a great post.  Thanks for sharing

May 16, 2025 08:40 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Paula:

I love this post and all that you said about the importance of allowing ourselves some white space. Sometimes we let life take over rather than taking some control when we can and making sure we have the time we need to refresh ourselves, rejuvenate and spend time with those we care about.

Jeff

May 16, 2025 07:47 PM
Elyse Berman, PA
LoKation Real Estate - Boca Raton, FL
Boca Raton FL (561) 716-7824

I never gave it a name, but there are times when I just need to do this.  Thank you for giving it a name.  I think like Kathy and others, I called it me time.  Sometimes you just have to, or it will drain you completely.

May 17, 2025 10:51 AM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

White Space seems like a good idea.

My days are often so full.

I like to balance the time spent working on my  business with a few days in a beachside resort or trip to wine country.

May 18, 2025 03:20 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

I tend to do this naturally, I know the work I need to get done and when it is finished, I might take some time for myself.

May 19, 2025 11:24 AM
Ginger Harper
Coldwell Banker Sea Coast Advantage~ Ginger Harper Real Estate Team - Southport, NC
Your Southport~Oak Island Agent~Brunswick County!

Paula,  This post gives us lots to think about.  Thanks so much

May 20, 2025 08:55 AM
Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

White space in marketing helps make content easier to read and more visually appealing, less crowded. Daily we learn how to unclutter our lives and create "breathing room" space. Where is your happy place? Outdoors hiking, biking, skiing, on or in the water, digging in the dirt farming keeps me balanced. Find your place in the sun Dr. Paula McDonald. Dr of what?

May 22, 2025 03:49 AM