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🔴⚪🔵 Rest Is Not A Reward

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Real Estate Agent with Big Block LPT Realty 858.232.8722 CA BRE# 01261476

Rest Is Not A Reward...
It’s Part Of Any Successful Work Plan.

Today is Memorial Day in the United States, a day I dedicate to giving prayer and gratitude to all the men in my family who served, in every war from World War I to the Vietnam War. We pause to honor and remember all those men, women and K-9's who sacrificed their lives in service to our country. It’s a moment for reflection, gratitude, and for many, the unofficial start of summer.

Do you know what it means to have a life? Not a career, a life. Our lives are not our careers, our careers provide our lifestyle, but not our lives. We are the architects of our lives we're living and our life plans need to include time for being present with our Family, Friends, Physical Health, Mental Health, Business, Finances, Recreation and Spirituality. We need a rest plan too!

 


Memorial Day, like any holiday has a meaning behind it
, and it's not "weekend blowout sales" - it's a time of reflection for the meaning of the holiday, prayer for some, gathering with family and friends for others; maybe travel plans, etc. For entrepreneurs (at least for me) it should be a day to acclimate between base camps on our climb to the peak of our annual goals. Mountain climbers heading to the top of Everest:


  1. Acclimate on base camp expeditions - that means they don't go straight up. They go up and back many times between camps on the ascent to acclimate their bodies to the altitude.
  2. Establish acclimation and rest then move between camps to rest and recharge, it's part of the plan. "Rest" is in the mountain's name.
  3. They follow this plan and a proven route in order to reach the summit successfully and safely.

Take a pause to ask, "How am I spending my time today?"
Another great question to reflect on:  "How am I spending this one precious life?"
Resting? Recharging? Connecting with loved ones? Remembering our fallen veterans? Being present in your life?



"Taking time off isn’t a detour from success—it’s fuel for it. When we rest, reflect, and reconnect, we return sharper, more grateful, and more grounded."
~ Ninja Selling

  • Honor the spirit of the holiday—Reflect on those who sacrificed their lives in service.
  • Honor your own life—Take time to rest, recharge, and reconnect with what matters most.
  • Honor your role as a REALTOR®—Serve your community by continuously sharpening your mindset, skills, and habits. And get some rest. 😉

 

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Thomas J. Nelson
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Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

Today has a plan, little things that have been driving me crazy are being adjusted, replaced and generally fixed.  Have a great day.

May 26, 2025 07:30 AM
DaCyn Walsh
LoKation Real Estate - Bailey, CO
Mountain & Horse Properties—Happy Trails Await!

This is a beautiful post Thomas, thank you so much for sharing!

May 26, 2025 07:31 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

I really appreciate you sharing such a thoughtful perspective, Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP. Your words beautifully remind us that rest isn’t just a break, but a vital part of reaching our true potential. Thanks for inspiring us to honor both those who paid the ultimate sacrifice, and ourselves by taking the time to pause and recharge 🇺🇸. Wishing everyone a meaningful Memorial Day!

May 26, 2025 08:28 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Well said, Thomas- I couldn't agree more. Rest should be an integral to our plan to attain our goals. It is how we recharge and reflect...adjust and move on. 

May 26, 2025 07:35 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I've never been good at resting on purpose. I mostly rest when I get too tired to do anything else! But have time to recharge is definitely important.

May 27, 2025 05:18 AM
Kat Palmiotti

That's excellent to hear!

May 27, 2025 07:30 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

I understand, it used to take me the first 3 days of any vacation just to calm down, I was like that too. But, I hope one day you experience the value of a regular day off and a regular closing time - it's made all the difference in my health, marriage and career. I make a better income because of it too! It's A Good Life!

May 27, 2025 06:23 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Love this, Thomas:

  • Honor the spirit of the holiday—Reflect on those who sacrificed their lives in service.
  • Honor your own life—Take time to rest, recharge, and reconnect with what matters most.
  • Honor your role as a REALTOR®—Serve your community by continuously sharpening your mindset, skills, and habits. And get some rest. 😉
May 27, 2025 05:41 AM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

Thank you Nina Hollander, Broker - hope you had a wonderful weekend!

May 27, 2025 06:24 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

May 31, 2025 06:22 PM
Thomas J. Nelson, REALTOR ® CRS,ABR,PSA,RCS-D, CFSP

OH Wow! Thank you Kathy!

Jun 01, 2025 07:36 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Thomas. If your plan for success does not include time to recharge the batteries, review it because it has a big flaw. Enjoy your day.

Jun 01, 2025 04:56 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

What a powerful post!  Great way to make us stop and think about the day in a more meaningful way.  For me, it was a quiet day, no Memorial Day party, considering those who didn't come home.  So glad that Kathy shared your post with us. 

Jun 05, 2025 10:56 AM