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Raise the Bar - Giving More Than You Think You Have

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Raise the Bar - Giving More Than You Think You Have

 

This inspiration came from Peter Mohylsky,'s recent post and entry into May's challenge.

 

There are days—let’s be honest—when this business can bring us to the very edge! Days when exhaustion meets frustration, and you feel like you’ve got nothing left to give. I know the feeling all too well. There have been times I’ve wanted to break down and cry. But instead, I lean in and push harder. Why? Because no one else is going to do it for me!

 

In real estate (and really, in life), we don’t always have a coach on the sidelines shouting plays or pushing us past our comfort zones. Sometimes, it’s just us—our grit, our discipline, our self-talk. And in those moments, we have to be the ones to demand more from ourselves.

 

So ask yourself:

  • Are you truly providing the best service possible to your clients?
  • Are you giving 100%, or are you holding something back—time, energy, care, attention?
  • Are you extending a hand to that new agent down the hall who’s just trying to figure it all out?
  • Are you lifting up your industry peers, cheering them on, sharing wisdom, giving support—even when your own plate is full?

 

If the answer is no, then it’s time to recommit.

 

Because only you can raise your own bar. And sometimes, just when you think you’ve given all you’ve got, you discover that you’ve got more—more strength, more generosity, more resilience—all tucked away inside you — more than you ever imagined.

 

Give it. Share it. Show up with it. You'll not only elevate your own business—you'll elevate everyone around you.

 

Let’s be the ones who give more—always and in everything we do.

 

© Debe Maxwell, CRS | The Maxwell House Group | Savvy + Company | SavvyBroker@me.com | Raise the Bar - Giving More Than You Think You Have

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Patricia Feager
Flower Mound, TX
Inactive/Semi Retired Real Estate Agent

Debe Maxwell, CRS - I applaud you for your honesty and motivation to others. This one, in particular is very motivating! From this day forward, I shall remind myself, only you can raise your own bar.

A million thanks to you and Peter Mohylsky, 

May 31, 2025 06:51 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Thank you so much for your kind words, Patricia Feager. I remember once Ray fussed at me for doing too much, challenging me to set my goal to take a day off in the middle of the week each week. You know I listen well so, I started blocking off Wednesdays. Now I only do MUST-DO things on Wednesdays and use that day each week for our personal appointments. I feel like it has given me a new perspective on my week - I'm refreshed and better for everyone - and for myself!

May 31, 2025 08:22 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Saturday morning, Debe.

Thank you very much for sharing your personal experience and advice.

May 31, 2025 07:59 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Happy Saturday to you & Dolores, Roy Kelley! Thank you for stopping by!

May 31, 2025 08:23 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Associate Real Estate Broker

For a real estate professional that has been seasoned and cares, there is never a question of doing more as that is their basic nature. It is also the reason their phone rings so often.

May 31, 2025 08:30 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

So very true, Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 - which is why your phone still rings, even as you're trying to retire!! I will forever keep my license for that very reason too - referral money is a real treat in retirement!

May 31, 2025 08:31 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Debe and thank you for sharing this great blog with us on this Saturday.  Make it a great day!

May 31, 2025 09:39 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Hey there, Will Hamm! Thank you so much for your sweet compliment. I hope you're having a fantastic weekend...

May 31, 2025 09:41 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hi Debe- If It's To Be, It's Up To Me has been my and Gary's motto for years and years.  We both know the value of being of service (both in business and community) and it's been the most joyous ride possible!  And it makes me smile thinking about all the amazing clients and friends we have around us. Just yesterday we stopped into Costco and low and behold ran into clients we've had for decades and we had over 26 transactions with their entire family.  We had such a nice time talking with them for quite some time. Thankful for such great people in our live!!

And....we're about to create another big community group! I'll write about it when it's launched!!

May 31, 2025 10:36 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

I love that, Anna "Banana" Kruchten! You are truly blessed but, you gave of yourself for years and years and your being of service is simply paying you back in dividends now! I love that you ran into clients in Costco and shared some time catching up with them. I'm anxious  to hear about your community group!

May 31, 2025 09:52 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Featured in BananaTudes!

 

 

 

May 31, 2025 10:37 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

♥️ Thank you so much, Anna "Banana" Kruchten!

May 31, 2025 09:53 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Debe this business is full of high's and low's.  My goal was always to make my client feel the high's when I was in my low's.

May 31, 2025 10:39 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Hi George Souto! I hear about 'wild rides' clients have had with their previous agents. Those agents shared every single little bump in the road with them. How you handle your business is exactly how I do - protect them from all of the lows and only share the highs unless you ABSOLUTELY must share a low with them. 

May 31, 2025 09:57 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Love this Debe- the solution to inaction is action. It seems simple and trite but it's the truth. And, sometimes the action means setting time for yourself . 

May 31, 2025 01:04 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Both excellent points, Kathy Streib! I will say that I am quite blessed to be married to someone who makes absolutely sure that I get some time for myself! 

May 31, 2025 10:03 PM
Jeffrey Richman
Immediate Home Solutions - Myrtle Beach, SC
Creative Real Estate Specialist

Hi Debbie, I Absolutely love this. What a powerful reminder that the real growth happens when we dig deep and give more - even when it’s tough. Thank you for the inspiration and for setting the bar high!

Jun 01, 2025 09:04 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Aww, thank you so much for your kind comment, Jeffrey Richman! Hey, I hope you're doing well and enjoying beach life!

Jun 02, 2025 06:03 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Well said, Debe. Life is a journey that is never predictable. We each get to choose how we will travel the journey. We can panic when things are disruptive, or, we can remain rooted in faith.

Jun 01, 2025 12:54 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Oh, you're so right, Dr. Paula McDonald! You can't go wrong when you keep those roots of faith!

Jun 02, 2025 06:05 AM
Monica Hill
RE/Max Associates - Wilmington, DE
the REALTOR to help you discover Delaware

Debe, an excellent post that's inspiring. Now I'll go read the other post you referenced. Thanks for giving my day a boost!

Jun 02, 2025 07:28 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Aww, thank YOU for such a thoughtful comment, Monica Hill!

Jun 03, 2025 02:58 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

I learnt from my son who was in The Marines, and his boot camp training that we all can do so much more than we think we can. We limit ourselves in our own minds rather than believing we can go further. I found that out for myself when I walked the Camino. It takes will to push on, but you feel so good when you do.

Jun 02, 2025 07:52 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

We do limit ourselves, Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 and the military is a great teacher of pushing yourself to the limit, for SURE! I can totally see your Camino walk taking every bit of you - and then some - to get through that! 

Jun 03, 2025 03:00 PM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

So true, for if it is to be, it is up to me. 

Jun 02, 2025 09:54 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Absolutely, Leanne Smith - and it'll always be that way in my mind!

Jun 03, 2025 03:00 PM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Debe Maxwell, CRS I missed the post. Was it featured? I take the time to inspire both new and old agents. It is times like these THAT WE NEED TO BOND, especially here in the rain. Glad you brought this post to everyone's attention. 

Jun 02, 2025 10:15 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

I just helped a new agent through a trying Due Diligence period and it took so little time to help her get through that, Hannah Williams! It's so much better to give, without a doubt!

Jun 03, 2025 03:01 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

It definitely has been said that the brain quits before the body. I don’t know if this is true, but it sounds true.

Jun 03, 2025 12:00 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Makes sense to me, Laura Cerrano

Jun 03, 2025 03:03 PM
Paddy Deighan MBA JD PhD
http://www.medicalandspaconsulting.com - Vail, CO
Paddy Deighan J.D. Ph.D

Very thoughtful reminder of concepts that we need to focus/re-focus on!!

Jun 03, 2025 09:17 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

Thank you so much for your kind words, Paddy Deighan MBA JD PhD!

Jun 03, 2025 03:03 PM
Thomas Santore Lic Associate Real Estate Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty/Coldwell Banker Commercial NRT - Yorktown Heights, NY
Realtor®-ABR-Land, Residential & Commercial Sa

I always try to do more than I promise! This has worked for mr for more than 27 Years and still going

great Post,

Tom S

Jun 03, 2025 01:32 PM
Debe Maxwell, CRS

You've got the right idea, for sure, Thomas Santore Lic Associate Real Estate Broker!

Jun 03, 2025 03:04 PM
Pete Cullen CRS/GRI/SRES /e-Pro/AHWD/ABR/CFSP
Bailey Properties, Inc. - Santa Cruz, CA
Serving Santa Cruz & Coastal Monterey Counties

Under promise and over deliver !

Jun 04, 2025 07:45 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

GREAT post!  I think for me, it's 99% just me and maybe 1% I call my broker for an answer.   Inspiring yourself isn't always easy, but we do it. Giving 110% + is the name of the game, AND how to get more business with happy customers giving us great feedback.  Spot on! 

Jun 04, 2025 01:29 PM
Vanessa Mouton
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices - Cary, NC
REALTOR®, Coach | Real Talk. NC-Based.

Love this Debe Maxwell, CRS , especially: 

 

  • Are you extending a hand to that new agent down the hall who’s just trying to figure it all out?
  • Are you lifting up your industry peers, cheering them on, sharing wisdom, giving support—even when your own plate is full?

I was lucky enough to have mentors in my career early on that exemplified exactly this!  Raise the bar and help others along the way.  I've modeled that behavior since and am always willing to help others grow while raising my own bar and standards.  Thanks for sharing & Happy Friday! 

Jun 06, 2025 04:39 AM