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But That Is Not What I Wanted

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Ward County Notary Services 607851

I've always loved this song and in today's narcissistic world people (and maybe guinea pigs too) just don't accept the truth behind the statement "You can't always get what you want".  Truth is truth no matter how much people deny it. Another line towards the end of the song is: "And you can't always satisfy your greed". Today was the first time I'd seen this video although I have the LP and play this song often. It was really fun to see a young Mic Jagger sing again.

In Real Estate we often deal with unrealistic expectations. This holds true of Sellers and Buyers alike. Buyers who want much more than their home is worth and the Buyers who think they are entitled to the Rolls Royce parked in the garage.

That being said, the majority of those I worked with were reasonable people. I will give a special "hats off" to the three builders I worked with. Everyone of them built high quality homes regardless of the price point of the home. They left a little wiggle room for minor adjustments but still, some Buyers were flat out crazy in their demands. My favorite example of being unreasonable was a buyer who wanted the contractor to fence in the two acre yard at no additional expense.

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Do you enjoy the cartoons written by my son (Timmothy N. Timm) which I use as a springboard to write my daily posts? His strip, Titus & Philemon, has run in two newspapers for years as well as being printed in my blog every day. Titus & Philemon (pronounced Phi - Lee -Man) are guinea pigs. Their owner is Joe. Timmothy has never repeated a joke/comic strip in the 12 years he has been writing it. He has never copied another strip, such as Peanuts or Garfield. You can follow Timmothy on FB as Titus & Philemon and you can also check him out on Instagram as Instagram.com/titus and philemon/ .For Timmothy's website type timmtimmothy.com into your browser. I tried to put it in a link here but it refuses to work. Do NOT put anything in front of timmtimmothy.com or it will not work. 

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Doug Dawes
Keller Williams Evolution - 447 Boston Street, Suite #5, Topsfield, MA - Topsfield, MA
Your Personal Realtor®

Good Morning Bob "RealMan" Timm 

Ain't that the truth? We all go through periods of expectations. I guess the best way to address them is with an upfront conversation among all parties to uncover those expectations

Jun 13, 2025 02:50 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

I agree Doug Dawes . I am usually very direct which I find works well with us guys but not always with the fairer sex.

Jun 13, 2025 06:43 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Bob - admittedly, I am not a Rolling Stones fan, but I can accept that they have played a significant role in history.  Musically, culturally and likely in many ways beyond my comprehension.  

Jun 13, 2025 04:00 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

Michael Jacobs they are my favorite band because it's obvious that they love the art of music. I say that because they were millionaires 60 years ago when they started having hit records yet they still perform and record every year... they don't need the money or the wear and tares on their bodies.

Jun 13, 2025 06:47 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Bob... I learned very early on in my real estate career to suss out unrealistic home buyers and sellers. They are truly not worth the effort.

Jun 13, 2025 04:21 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

Amen to that Nina Hollander, Broker . There are enough good people out there to work with to keep things kind and gentle.

Jun 13, 2025 06:50 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Bob. Common sense has left the minds of many especially those instant billionaires who inherited their money. They get the benefits of wealth supporting protestors in law breaking activity destroying innocent people's property. Many who made that money are turning over in their graves. They did not leave it to these spoiled nut cases for that. Enjoy your day.

Jun 13, 2025 04:45 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

That is exactly what I thought about concerning Sam Walton Wayne Martin . My understanding was that he was a good moral man. As far as turning over in his grave he is more likely spinning over in his grave.

Jun 13, 2025 06:52 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Oh yes, we've all dealt with unrealistic buyers or sellers. We get better over time at weeding them out.

Jun 13, 2025 05:05 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

Yes we do Kat Palmiotti . There becomes a point where the commission is just not worth the anguish. 

Jun 13, 2025 06:54 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Bob and I wish that sellers would listen to the price that I suggest but they always think they have the best home in the area.

 

Jun 13, 2025 08:41 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

I know! You can show them comparable properties that are selling for less but they just don't get it Will Hamm .

Jun 13, 2025 11:58 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Right! Sure you betcha!  Fence in a 2 acre parcel at no extra cost.  Somebody was dreaming!!  I've had a few folks that simply weren't realistic and at times it's best to let them find someone else to help them out!!

 

Happy Father's Day Weekend Bob!

Jun 13, 2025 10:07 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

Thank you Anna "Banana" Kruchten . Some people are just clueless about contractors costs. 

Jun 13, 2025 11:57 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thanks so much for sharing your insights and that nostalgic story, Bob "RealMan" Timm. I really appreciate how you connect life's truths to the real estate world. It’s a great reminder that managing expectations is part of the game. Your experiences and humor make this post both relatable and valuable. Thanks again for taking the time to share! 😊

Jun 13, 2025 02:10 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Bob- one of my favorite Stones songs!  And yes, I think there are many who don't quite get it...you can't always get what you want!  That goes for real estate and other facets of life. 

Jun 13, 2025 05:08 PM