When something catches your interest, gathers your attention & you agree with it, a type of stand via your beliefs makes itself known. This "jarring" (depending on your beliefs) at times dynamic is your personal cue to either respond or react. This is inherent in everyone during their brief stay here. It gets intense when other people are involved & even more intense depending on who those "others" are too
what is the point?
THE SIGNAL
You are out & about when out of the blue, something crosses your path, either up close or within your sphere triggering your belief system & it's library of everything in it. What do you do? Well, that depends on your belief & what is calling to them
THE WELL-KNOWNS
1. Political beliefs travel with you & if something on the news/others come up, there is your chance to unleash the belief & defend, protect + feed it. Why?
2. Religion is a pot-boiler, never back down, the other guy is going to hell & here is why super-strong dynamic that may have deep, fear roots in you not to mention an attack to weaken your faith thus causing one to defend/judge without mercy LOL as there is no way to win as all party beliefs are set in stone not in truths.
WORTHY NOTE: Notice a little tug or jump in or near your solar-plexus or butterfly stomach area within yourself as you read these. The arguing signal is not weak
3. How to live your life. If not directed or seized upon by you, with confidence, others will make a flip-flopper out of you as you change with their opinions & unsupported claims about what will kill you which just might. But, why the fear?
4. Raising children should be approached with how to improve not a stance on this is the best way. Parents not only repeat what they were taught but also pass on the not so good stuff too. It's subjective, however needs to have a plan in place
5. The best way to get from point A to Point B, park your car or turn it, becomes complicated if discussed with your spouse, mother-in-law or control freak type passenger. Arguing signal unleashed! Watch it though. Payback & couch duty
6. Now on lesser levels, travel plans, decorations for the house, cars to drive, career choices, using manners to even honey-do lists & more all lurk in the shadows until yes, the arguing signal appears.
WATCH OUT HERE
Choose your battles. If one takes on every nuance or nuisance that crosses their path, you won't have time to live & enjoy your life being always in a state of war! LOL. Furthermore, watch carefully who you argue with. Here are some examples
1. Your spouse. This can be heavy or light depending. Women may lose in the moment but gain significantly on follow up later on.
2. A policeman who pulls you over. Their reasons are so regulated, carefully planned out & are supported by courts of law. Arguing here can make it worse
3. Your boss, friendships, neighbors, strangers or your children all come with potential unknown complications that you did not factor in or know about
4. General arguing at large, sort of how you affirm or deny yourself at the expense of others. Some of you will get away with it while others may unfloat your boat
DIFFERENCE BETWEEN TAKING A STAND & ARGUING
As you go through life, more often than not, you have to choose a side. It can be harmless & matter of factly, personal or low key in nature or life changing. If you have a healthy something to say or do, then you must obey that inner prompting or why are you here? We play a part (or not), personal or general on some things
REACTION vs RESPONSE
Know what you are getting into or what you get into will let you know. Calculate motives or costs of involvement. If I see an injustice, I react to it so deep is my belief here & it is non-negotiable at least in the moment it takes place. Later? As to calmly holding firm on what is presented, all are entitled to response in the USA
WORTHY NOTE: The post title asks: what is the point reminding us to take a sound & deliberate interest in whatever we do. Just be aware. Randomness here is risky
WORTHY NOTE: Failing to do anything which is subjective but more often than not, people use this option incorrectly. THE RULE: if you do nothing right, you will do nothing wrong holds quite nicely & the opposite practice has a vicious sting!
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