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🤑July 2025 AR Challenge - Selection

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💲July 2025 AR Challenge - Selection

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I always enjoy participating in the challenges hosted by ActiveRain. I am grateful that Patricia Feager and Lew Corcoran are hosting this month's challenge. Thank you both very much for doing so. Since I began my real estate career officially in 2010, there have been so many changes, even from one year to the next, haha. Being that the challenge asks for either business-related changes or personal changes, and I can think of so many of each, I will try to discuss 2 of each for this challenge.

The first thing that comes to mind for me in thinking about my real estate career is how much I have changed with regard to the selection of clients to work with. When I first got into the business, I was hungry and had a dire need to find clients to work with, which led me to take whatever came my way. Of course, this leads to working with people who didn't treat me very well, and didn't always end up even turning into a sale. Both good and bad came from working with tough clients, so I will try to recall an example of each.

 

I remember being contacted by a prospective buyer moving to the East Valley from Ohio, and the area he was looking at was not necessarily close to where I lived, and his budget was really small. I kept wondering in my mind if it was even worth the effort I would need to put into it since the paycheck might not even cover my expenses, haha. Ultimately, I helped him purchase a home, and I am glad that I did, since 3 months later, he called me and they didn't like having a two-story home. So, I helped them purchase a single-story home, and then sold their current home for them. Another 6 months down the road, they decided that they wanted to move back to Ohio, so I helped them sell the home that home, haha. Believe it or not, they had plenty of equity in each of the homes, even though they hadn't owned them very long at all. They bought at a very low point in the market, and it continued to surge upward for quite a few years, so they took plenty of cash and put it towards a new home in Ohio. I haven't heard from them since, but they were such nice people, and looking back, I am so glad that I chose to help them with their very first home purchase here. Having 4 transactions in a year through the same client is very rare, unless the client is purely an investor.

 

There have certainly been more clients that I have regretted working with than clients like I discussed above, but one in particular stands out. My neighbor knocked on my door one afternoon, and she wanted to sell her home. She wanted to list it for way more money than it was worth, and I knew that there was no way it would sell for that much. I agreed to list the home for her at that price, but I wanted a retainer since I needed to at least cover my costs. She said no to that, and I was fine with it as well, haha. Over the next few years, she listed it with different agents, and it never sold. I felt so bad for those agents, but learning about these types of clients and why would should steer away from them is something that is learned over time. I am so glad that I am at the point in my career that I can be more selective with who I work with and who I can say no to, haha.

 


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George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Brian I can relate to both of your experiences.  As a Loan Originator we work with both good and difficult clients, and like Realtor's we also learn to be more selective of who we work with as our business progresses.

Jul 03, 2025 08:40 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Brian,
That's interesting how the first example worked out. Sometimes divine intervention steps in and we're not even sure why we do some things.  

I think any of us who have been in the business long enough have learned to be more selective about who we work with.  Thanks for sharing!

Jul 03, 2025 09:20 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I am confident that you always get the right loan for your clients George Souto and it's not all about the interest rate, there are other factors.

Jul 03, 2025 09:21 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I always look back on that example Carol Williams when thinking about whether or not to work with someone.  If I had not worked with them, I would have lost out on 3 deals, haha.

Jul 03, 2025 09:22 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Brian- you never know, do you? There are things you'll never learn in real estate school. You have to live through them!!!  Sounds like the first couple you described must have liked what you did because they returned!!!

Jul 03, 2025 11:36 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thanks so much for sharing your journey, Brian England. I really appreciate your honesty and the way you reflect on both the good and the tough lessons along the way. It’s clear that your experiences have shaped you into a more discerning agent, and your stories remind us all to stay true to what’s best for everyone involved. 😊

Jul 03, 2025 01:05 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Brian:

I suspect many of us have learned the lesson of being selective with whom we choose to work, but have made some mistakes along the way.

Jeff

Jul 03, 2025 04:27 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I think that most of my real estate career has been spent dealing with things that I did not learn in real estate school Kathy Streib, haha.

Jul 03, 2025 06:24 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Thank you, Lew Corcoran I appreciate your kind words and your hosting this month's challenge in the Rain!

Jul 03, 2025 06:26 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I would be really surprised if anyone claimed to not be more selective now than when they first began in real estate Jeff Dowler, CRS, haha.

Jul 03, 2025 06:29 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Congrats on the 15 year mark, Brian! Like you, I have had ups and downs but still enjoy helping people home.

Jul 04, 2025 11:04 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thanks so much for sharing your journey, Brian England! I really appreciate the honest reflections on how your client relationships have evolved over the years. It’s inspiring to see how experience helps us become more selective and confident in our choices. 😊

Jul 04, 2025 11:08 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Thank you, Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! it's been quite a journey so far, and I am sure that it is far from being over, haha.

Jul 04, 2025 04:24 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

There is no replacement for experience Lew Corcoran and we continue to learn throughout our careers!

Jul 04, 2025 04:24 PM
Eileen Burns 954.483.3912
Trans State Commercial Realty Inc. - Fort Lauderdale, FL
FLorida Real Estate Connector

You have scruples Brian England not to take an overpriced listing!  good for you

Jul 05, 2025 07:57 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

She would have been a nightmare to deal with Eileen Burns 954.483.3912, since she was already a nightmare of a neighbor, haha.  The only reason I even considered taking the listing, if she was willing to pay a retainer was to get her out of the neighborhood, haha.

Jul 05, 2025 10:23 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

 

I am with you on the ability to be selective with who we work with Brian England 

I recently interviewed a prospective seller referred to me by an attorney.  She was actually "offended" when I said, deciding to work together goes both ways.  The thought that I could choose not to work with her ... was more than she could handle.

 

Jul 06, 2025 08:43 AM
Barbara Michaluk
Weichert Realtors | Phone Direct 240-506-2434 | 301-681-0550 office - Silver Spring, MD
Leisure World Specialist / Full Service REALTOR

Hi Brian, Thanks for sharing your insights regarding your experience over time in the real estate business in particular. For those of us who have been in the biz for awhile, we have been through the same process of learning to be more discriminating about who we work with.

Jul 14, 2025 12:25 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I don't know how I missed your comment previously Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist, but I apologize.  I love that you said "deciding to work together goes both ways", more prospective clients need to hear that, haha.

Jul 14, 2025 01:05 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

It is such a wonderful feeling to be able to tell someone that we don't want to work with them Barbara Michaluk, haha.

Jul 14, 2025 01:06 PM