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Change is Absolutely Ahh-mazing!

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Change is Absolutely Ahh-mazing!


Used to be that most people in corporate job positions performed like conditioned rodents, hungry for a piece of cheese. Many succumbed to the rat race, when their true desires of stretching themselves, to forge their own paths or blaze out-of-bound trails was eventually quashed. 

 

A lot has changed since those days, where it was common to work in a job position for 20-30 years and happily retire with a pension or die soon after. The very fabric of America's mindset has changed. People have become less inclined to become self-employed, independent contractors.

 

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For too long, I was one of those who lived-to-work, instead of working-to-live because it's a mindset many of us share. One that I held until finally opening the eyes wide enough to what others realized. Despite being an incredibly hard worker, I constantly relied on outside influences to define self-worth.

 

My career stretched me, sometimes painfully. As a new construction, Marketing/Advertising executive, I was praised in good times, then blamed when the market began to change. Prior to that, at a copy/print shop, owners constantly scrutinized my work. These experiences, though challenging, became catalysts.

 

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They showed me that external opinions mattered little, that my own dreams, efforts and growth were more important. This helped me realize I deserved more, leading me to become a real estate professional. In this role, I can judge performance, set goals, and ensure exceptional client service.

 

Change is inevitable. A person either realizes that or life passes them by while they idly sit on the sidelines as an onlooker or they become bitter shells of their former selves, merely existing. So glad to still have the drive to perform and stretch beyond any perimeters that others attempt to set.

 

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Rat race? Not for this woman, ever again. Independence means I am in charge, it's incredibly empowering. You might even say it's absolutely ahh-mazing and am happy to say that good things happen when believing you are deserving of them. Wanda Can! because she does!

 

 

This is an entry to: July 2025 ActiveRain Challenge: Change. Many thanks to the hosts, Lew Corcoran and Patricia Feager.

 

 

 

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Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thanks so much for sharing your inspiring story, Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!. I love how you turned challenges into opportunities and found empowerment through change. Your journey truly reminds us all that believing in ourselves can lead to amazing things! 😊

Jul 05, 2025 01:07 PM
Patricia Feager
Flower Mound, TX
Semi Retired Real Estate Agent

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! - There is no doubt in my mind that when others read your blog post, they will be motivated and inspired. Many employees have hopes and dreams that never come to fruition. You proved that making a positive change by being your own boss made you stronger and better than ever. Being empowered by starting your own business has financial and emotional rewards that are hard to explain, if you've never done it. This was a great entry for the 2025 AR Challenge about how looking at life from a different perspective can make a positive change in your life. Thanks for your entry! I look forward to reading more inspiring stories from you. 

Jul 05, 2025 01:23 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Wanda,  Change happen so much for all of us over the years and now I wonder about the changes in the next ten years. 

Jul 05, 2025 01:56 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! ahh-mazing things happen when you believe in yourself, and take the chance to step out on your own.

Jul 05, 2025 02:50 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Self-discovery is a wonderful thing and has kept me in business, Lew Corcoran. Thanks again for co-hosting this month's challenge, much appreciated!

Jul 05, 2025 05:30 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Working in positions where the owners/managers held all the power to make or break an employee, gave me some much needed experience and created a thicker skin to handle situations as they arise. Am grateful for that, Patricia Feager. Thanks again for co-hosting this month's challenge!

Jul 05, 2025 05:32 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Change is going to happen and going with it creates forward movement along with the ability to catch up and keeping up, Will Hamm. Am still up to the challenge!

Jul 05, 2025 05:34 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Self-confidence while knowing your self-worth truly does matter, George Souto. It took me a long time to gain both!

Jul 05, 2025 05:36 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Excellent message about how working independently can change many aspects of our lives.

Jul 06, 2025 05:02 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

It's tough going from a regular job to being self-employed, but once we have been self-employed for a while, it's pretty much impossible to go back to a regular job, haha.

Jul 06, 2025 07:49 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Retired Agent / Broker / Prop. Mgr, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Wanda,
I worked in a corporate environment for several years. I was a great employee, but it was frustrating, and I'm too independent to be happy working in a corporate structure. Entrepreneurship worked for me. 

Jul 06, 2025 07:57 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Wanda - change is our constant companion even though it may not always be the closest of friends.  

Jul 06, 2025 08:17 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Leaving the corporate world was the best decision I made regarding a career, Kat Palmiotti. No regrets!

Jul 06, 2025 08:32 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Working for a paycheck every two weeks under a supervisor is not appealing one bit, Brian England. Am enjoying the independence that comes from self-employment!

Jul 06, 2025 08:47 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Being a people pleaser, I can relate, Carol Williams. Thankful to finally gain the confidence to leave that world and start over with a real estate industry career!

Jul 06, 2025 08:48 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

I am with you on this Miss Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! the Corporate rat race worked well as I climbed the ladder. When it no longer served me, it was time for something new.  

The same thing applied after affiliating with a big-box brokerage also laced with Corporate BS. 

I love flying solo as an independent Broker. 

Jul 06, 2025 08:48 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Indeed it is, Michael Jacobs. Friend or foe depends on which way you decide to go!

Jul 06, 2025 09:12 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

When sales were brisk and build job numbers kept climbing, all was well but the owners needed a scape goat when the market failed. They were warned but rode that 'fun wave' until they crashed into the surf, you might say!

Am happy with leaving that world, Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist, as you did at a time that was right for you!

Jul 06, 2025 09:17 AM
Eileen Burns 954.483.3912
Trans State Commercial Realty Inc. - Fort Lauderdale, FL
FLorida Real Estate Connector

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! when I worked corporate in NYC I always lamented walking into the high rise towers enjoying the blue sky and when departing lamenting the darkness which made me feel like I did not enjoy the 8 hours given to me.

Jul 11, 2025 10:05 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

So much freedom is discovered once breaking the chains of other people's expectations, Eileen Burns 954.483.3912. Glad you did exactly that, gf!

Jul 11, 2025 10:53 AM