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Homage to My Passage

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Homage to My Passage

 

One thing often overlooked in life is utilizing The Golden Rule.  An unbreakable truth taught me that people will treat you however you let them. From the time I was 10-years old, mowing lawns, I realized the value of hard work. 

 

I never stopped making a living, through honest means. One boss ruled by rage, screaming at anyone in range to get attention and feel powerful. Years later, I learned he was deep into steroids; the outbursts suddenly made sense.

 

Another couple hovered over my shoulder while designing marketing and advertising materials, to ensure they hired the 'right fit'. When refusing to pay overtime for calculated hours, the U.S. Department of Labor settled that.

 

Then, came the broker, intent on me 'tweaking' another artist's logo for his supposed 'dream team'. I refused to go along with his steal-it-strategy. He went ahead and sent out all materials to be printed anyway and got caught!

 

Every experience left a mark but also lit the path. So, when an investor said he'd hire me if I had a real estate license...the spark ignited and a 💡 came on. Two weeks of crash-coursing through RE school, then taking the test. Voilà - I was official!

 

As a fully licensed Southern Utah real estate agent, for the first time ever, I was THE BOSS. Finally, I put my work ethic to use, set my hours, decided my self-worth, every commission check went into my pocket instead of padding someone else’s.

 

Looking back with regret isn’t my style. I’m grateful for breaking free from other people’s bad decisions and toxic habits that once put me in a hard place. Today, I am still blessed because of knowing that the harder I work, the luckier I become. 

 

This is an entry to: ActiveRain Monthly Challenge Announcement - December 2025! Thanks to Lew Corcoran and Patricia Feager for hosting! #ActiveRainChallenge

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Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Ethics are entrenched in my makeup, George Souto. I'm still here and he isn't!

Dec 02, 2025 06:57 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Thank you, Ed Silva, 203-206-0754. Basic training was helpful, allowing me the courage to speak up. That was some rigorous instruction!

Dec 02, 2025 06:59 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Everything in life culminates and brings us to where we are intended to be, Kathy Streib. I do believe that!

Dec 02, 2025 07:01 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Thank you, Ellie McIntire. Glad you appreciate the post! 

Dec 02, 2025 07:03 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Wanda,

The lessons we learn when we see others bend the rules! Everything in our journey of life plays a part in shaping us. Well done! 

Dec 02, 2025 08:19 PM
Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!  For every immoral action there are consequences. The broker who had the nerve to go along with his scheme to "tweak" another artist's logo for his 'dream team'. was wrong and you recognized it by not going along with his plan to steal the idea that wasn't his by manipulation. Not only was it wrong, but it was also immoral. The Aha moment came to you because it was how you were raised to follow the Golden Rule. Being honest and respecting what didn't belong to you, or to him, gave you the courage to let him bite the dust. I would have done the same thing. 

In business ethics, false or misleading advertising is lying, cheating and doing what is wrong. You did the right thing. That made you the better person.

Thank you for sharing this excellent story and standing your ground when a Broker wanted your involvement in cheating. Your entry for the December challenge is greatly appreciated.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Dec 03, 2025 12:46 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Wanda - my thought process on this is similar to the comment by Kathy Streib.  Life and its decisions that are a part of it come from a variety of places - good as well as not so favorable.   

Dec 03, 2025 03:22 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Doing the right thing will always pay off for us more than not doing the right thing!

Dec 03, 2025 04:15 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Yes indeed, everything that happens along our journey shapes the path we take. Excellent share!

Dec 03, 2025 05:15 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

I really do believe we teach people how to treat us. I can say that (for the most part) not working for someone else has been great. 

Dec 03, 2025 07:05 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Wanda... I've discovered the same thing in my life... the harder I worked, the luckier I became.

Dec 03, 2025 07:24 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

I believe in staying true to core beliefs, Dorie Dillard Austin TX. It works for me!

Dec 03, 2025 08:46 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Was also told that I cared too much and wouldn't make it in this industry, Patricia Feager. Having a stellar reputation matters and refusing to be malleable and go along with some people's schemes has been so satisfying!

Thanks again to you and Lew for hosting this month's challenge.

 

Dec 03, 2025 09:04 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Staying true to myself has been beneficial for personal and professional reasons, Michael Jacobs. That will not change, no matter what!

Dec 03, 2025 09:16 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Absolutely, Brian England, this is so true!

Dec 03, 2025 09:17 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Thank you, Kat Palmiotti. Our decisions today, drive all our tomorrows!

Dec 03, 2025 09:20 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Becoming a BOSS has served me very well, Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty. Wouldn't have it any other way!

Dec 03, 2025 09:22 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

To reap the rewards, the work must be done, Nina Hollander, Broker. We are of the same mindset regarding this post!

Dec 03, 2025 12:30 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Your story shines with grit and wisdom, Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! 🙂. it’s a reminder that tough lessons can spark real growth. Thanks for sharing a journey that shows how hard work and integrity truly pay off!

Dec 03, 2025 01:31 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Have enjoyed the journey, despite some detours around events outside the scope of my control, Lew Corcoran. Glad to be right here, right now!

Thanks again to you and Patricia for hosting this month's challenge!

Dec 03, 2025 02:51 PM