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Seniors - Let's Talk

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Real Estate Agent with Appraisal Review Board, Denton County, TX 0506509

"People first, then money, then things."

---Suze Orman

 

Whether you are retired, near retirement, or thinking about retirement, there is a lot to think about and consider.

  • The economy
  • Inflation
  • Money 
  • Health
  • Last Will & Testament
  • Strength
  • Living Accommodations
  • Safety
  • Potential Disability
  • Transportation


Let's start with your basic health and flexibility.
Have you thought about what you'll say to your doctor before your next appointment? It is a lot easier to be prepared about what you want to discuss before you're sitting in the doctor's office waiting for your turn. Perhaps you might want to make a daily list and write down questions and new concerns. Then have that list ready and go down your punch list with your doctor or nurse. Make good time with your doctor. Otherwise, you'll forget if you're caught off guard.


Safety.
The house where you live may need minor or major changes and repairs. Our vision changes as we age. To prevent accidents and falls, plan to light the way in the dark using nightlights. Some are automatic and lights will come on in the dark when you begin to walk into another room. If not, take a look around the corners and turns you need to make. Getting up in the middle of the night or when it's dark, can feel strange or dangerous. What can you do now, before you trip and fall or bump into sharp corners?


Affordability.
Can you still afford to live on what you get or have in savings? Do you have enough to get by now or into the future? What is affordable today, may not be later. Estimate your needs and figure out how you're going to live in a way that is affordable and comfortable for you. Applying for a part-time job may sound like a good idea, but can you walk, sit, stand, lift, and think as clearly today as you did in your younger years? Do you have enough cash, or do you lack cash? Do you have a plan if life changes? Has your taxes and insurance risen in excess of what you can afford?


Location. Do you live in a location where there is easy access to hospitals, police, fire department, family, friends, and a place where you can easily get your needs met? Is your location safe to walk if you can't drive?


Do you know where everything is when you need it?

  1. Documentation & Proof of ownership, military records, a Last Will & Testament, passwords, property records, medical information, etc.

  2. Expense records that are clear to understand in case someone has to jump into your shoes. 

  3. Does someone you know, love, and trust have a key to your house?

  4. Do you need a medical alert?

  5. Are your financial records and assets in a safe and secure place?

Other useful information. 

  1. Do you keep a daily journal?

  2. Have you paid your taxes and bills on time.

  3. Is your driver's license and registration current?

  4. Are you forgetting more than usual?

  5. Do you have contact information handy and easily accessible?

  6. Do you have a current Who, When, Where, and What list prepared?

 

MAY THE WORST NEVER HAPPEN TO YOU

 

Comments(15)

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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Patricia. Got the "other useful information" covered. As for the rest likely needs some attention. Enjoy your day.

Jul 17, 2025 08:29 AM
Patricia Feager

Wayne Martin - Glad to know I was helpful.

An active mind is a healthy mind. I hope you get all your ducks in a row.

Jul 17, 2025 03:46 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

Henry and I want two, so we can have tricycle races in the office parking lot.  LOL, great information, have a productive day.

Jul 17, 2025 08:40 AM
Patricia Feager

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 - you just reminded me of something very important to add to this list!

HAVE A SENSE OF HUMOR!

Jul 17, 2025 03:45 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Patricia and great blog to share with us as we are all getting older (Like me).  I do keep a daily list and still use a daily action planner.

 

Jul 17, 2025 09:52 AM
Patricia Feager

Will Hamm - Yes, we are getting older every day. Keeping accurate information and staying current is very helpful. 

Jul 17, 2025 03:47 PM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

Thanks for sharing and enjoy your upcoming weekend! Bill

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Jul 17, 2025 10:11 AM
Patricia Feager

GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore - happy to serve the AR Community. 

Jul 17, 2025 03:47 PM
Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

Hi Patricia. Great photo. Now that is what I call really going RETRO! Better that a Corvette? Jeff

Jul 17, 2025 10:40 AM
Patricia Feager

Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI - Classic retro! Isn't that the coolest!

Jul 17, 2025 03:48 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you for sharing this thoughtful and practical post, Patricia Feager. I really appreciate your insights on how proactive planning can make a big difference in our later years. It’s a gentle reminder that taking small steps now can lead to greater peace of mind down the road. 😊

Jul 17, 2025 01:01 PM
Patricia Feager

Lew Corcoran - Thank you. It's good to know I can provide good information to others. We need to be our own caregivers as long as we can. But if we can't, it's best to have all our ducks in a row for others who can help us when and if it is necessary. 

Jul 17, 2025 03:50 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Patricia, even at the ripe old age of 69, I would not be seen on a tricycle.  Sorry!

Jul 17, 2025 03:00 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Patricia:

This is a very practical and comprehensive guide for seniors to keep in mind, plan for and act on. Better to plan ahead and be prepared instead of waiting until it's too late or certain decisions are forced upon you.

Jeff

 

    Featured in BananaTUDES

Jul 17, 2025 03:39 PM
Patricia Feager

Jeff Dowler, CRS - Thank you for featuring me in the BananaTUDES! I hope this information is seen by those who can benefit the most.

 

Jul 17, 2025 03:51 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Apex Realtors, LLC ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
Educating. Encouraging. Serving.

Good morning Patricia,

Great post to make those who are seniors or approaching being a senior to think about, and there is a lot! Your visuals are fabulous!

Jul 18, 2025 03:36 AM
Patricia Feager

Awe, thank you Dorie Dillard Austin TX! I went to a Peaches event and headed over to see the old cars. When I saw the man riding the tricycle in the parking lot, he made me smile. I asked if I could take his picture and he was happy to oblige. I like when people are nice to each other. 

I'm happy to hear like you liked my visuals! 

Jul 20, 2025 03:35 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Patricia - the saying, failing to plan is planning to fail comes to mind while reading your post.  Hopefully, it will serve as a reminder.  Considering such things is not necessarily easy but may be necessary for peace of mind.   Worthy of much thought.

Jul 18, 2025 03:59 AM
Patricia Feager

Michael JacobsFailing to plan is planning to fail  is a quote I'll never forget. It has helped me get through challenging times. Life is about having structure and knowing how to get to where you want to be without the accompaniment of pity people.  

Jul 20, 2025 03:37 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning again, Patricia... excellent advice. I might be a senior, but no, I don't keep a daily journal, never have and not likely to do so in this lifetime. And yes, my taxes and bills are paid on time, my car and license registrations are current. Still not forgetting anything. As for keys... fortunately I have a digital lock and it's just a matter of providing someone the code.

Jul 18, 2025 04:50 AM
Patricia Feager

Nina Hollander, Broker - I know someone a few years older than me who lives alone. Her journal that she kept on the kitchen countertop helped the paramedics after her medical alert went off and they found her on the floor. 

Other people may find these tips useful. 

Jul 20, 2025 03:40 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Patricia Feager that's a good point, Patricia. I take no meds except for my thyroid and have no "conditions" so it's something that doesn't occur for me to do.

Jul 20, 2025 05:32 AM
Katina Hargrove 352-551-0308
Stake Your Land Realty, Inc. - Eustis, FL
Broker/Owner

Patricia Feager 

Accidents can happen in a second and unexpected. We all must have some sort of basic plan in the event it happens.

Jul 19, 2025 07:59 AM
Patricia Feager

Katina Hargrove 352-551-0308 - You're right! Also, nobody gets an invitation to have an accident. When tragedy strikes and the mind is prepared, people can help themselves and help others too. 

Thanks, Katina!

Jul 20, 2025 03:41 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hey Patricia those of us that understood the necessity of planning for our 'golden years' are very fortunate indeed.  We've had that one covered for years.  And glad you brought up humor.....so SOOOOO important!

We have a friend that didn't plan well and holy smokes he's having a dickens of time dealing with a fall.  Thankfully he is one of those guys that is grateful for what he does have in his life.....and that is a lot of people that care about him.

Jul 19, 2025 11:20 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Sadly Patricia because of our friend who's left kind of high and dry (per se) isn't getting the best care possible.  He's relying on the government services as that's all he can afford.  Some folks are good to him, others not so much.  I spoke to one nurse who totally knows that 'market' and here stories as sad, very very sad.  I call it elderly abuse.  And you can bet I'll do something if I need to.  Wouldn't be the first time.

Jul 22, 2025 12:56 PM
Patricia Feager

Anna "Banana" Kruchten - Having had only 24-hours or less to prepare my young husband's funeral and prepare my children for what to expect was the biggest wake-up call of my life. Since then, I never take one day or anyone for granted. I have taken extra precautions and stayed up to date. My wishes have been shared and filed. Even my local police have everything they need to know about me in case of an emergency. I've taken care of lighting and other ways to stay safe too. 

Unfortunately, there are many people who don't plan, and it may create a crisis situation for loved ones or friends. Having plenty of people around who care, is the next best thing. 

Jul 20, 2025 03:49 AM
Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

Like the "old cars" in the background... the mustang especially. Well preserved is more than DNA, your genes. It's an attitude, being prepared and awareness life is a short film. Thank you Patricia Feager !

Jul 20, 2025 03:31 AM
Patricia Feager

Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573 - Taking care of oneself helps others too. Yesterday I donated blood. Maintaining a positive and healthy attitude keeps me alive and well. Smiles are contagious! 

Jul 20, 2025 03:50 AM
Lise Howe
RLAH RE LLC - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

my first thought after reading this is that I should make a list of all of my accounts and passwords and give them to my oldest son. Then I thought about the fact that I should close out some of my checking accounts that I opened for various purposes, but really don’t use. I think if my son realized I have 10 different checking accounts at one Bank he would roll his eyes in horror. I suspect the bank would like me to close some of them out anyway since it doesn’t cost me anything to maintain them, but I’m sure it cost them something. Thanks for a small bit of motivation this morning  

Jul 20, 2025 05:11 AM