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This Week…Friends, Old and New

 

When I was shopping this week at H-E-B (our Texas-sized grocery store chain), I met a new friend while perusing the cleaning supplies aisle.  After offering to help her, we had an informative conversation about a hack for Dawn Dish soap. (I’m not kidding!) 


There are no strangers here; Only friends you haven't yet met.
William Butler Yeats

 

As it turns out, we’d “met” a few months earlier in the produce department. I learned that she is 63 and getting her Master's in Communication. 

 

In my post this week, I said that one of my favorite Texas traits is that when you meet someone, they’ll speak to you as if they’ve known you all their lives. Such was the case here. 


The only way to have a friend is to be one.
Ralph Waldo Emerson



As we age, we tend to have fewer real friends and more acquaintances. It’s logical when you think about it. Our opportunities to socialize are fewer…no school or workplace friendships, for example. 

 

A friend may be waiting behind a stranger's face,
Maya Angelou



We become more selective with our time…choosing to be with friends we enjoy!  Some of our friends we’ve known for over 45 years, and still love being with them. 

 

It’s important for us, as we age, to find ways to maintain the friendships we have as well as meet new friends…or at least new acquaintances. 

Do something every day to interact with others. Make it a point to have coffee or a meal with your friends. 



A real friend is one who walks in when the rest of the world walks out.
Walter Winchell

 

Have a wonderful weekend!

 

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Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

It takes work to turn acquaintances into friends and I think we're less likely to do so as we get older; that being said, it's even more important as we get older to HAVE friends!

I love that you chatted with someone at the store. Hopefully you will do so again.

And, a little story to share about my state. My son was here visiting a few years ago and he came home from a store run, and said, "You know what I noticed about here?" and I said, "no, what?" and he said "People here TALK to you! I asked someone how he was doing and he actually told me. We had a 15 minute conversation! It was amazing!" haha. I laughed. It's so true though.

Jul 19, 2025 04:49 AM
Kathy Streib

Kat Palmiotti I love the story of your son's experience. Montana sounds a lot like Texas.  I admire how you and Anthony have made your new home where you are and been very proactive about making friends.

Jul 19, 2025 10:46 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

It seems that friendships made long ago are the ones that are the strongest.  I love meeting new people, but friendships just don't seem to happen as they did in the past, haha.

Jul 19, 2025 05:02 AM
Kathy Streib

Brian England i think it's harder for most of us as we age...unless you move to The Villages! ask Dick Betts 

Jul 19, 2025 11:23 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. Great selection of quotes but My go to guy for many quotes remains Ralph Waldo Emerson. Enjoy your day.

Jul 19, 2025 05:06 AM
Kathy Streib

HI Wayne Martin it makes me want to go back and read his essays. 

Jul 19, 2025 11:29 AM
Lise Howe
RLAH RE LLC - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

I want to know what the Dawn hack was!  I need to get some to kill weeds in my yard

Jul 19, 2025 05:46 AM
Kathy Streib

Lise Howe The Dawn hack I've just started using (for weeds) is equal parts dishwashing soap (I love Dawn) + salt + vinegar. Careful where you spray it though!  It does work!

She mentioned usin the H-E-B brand dish soap which she thinks is as good as Dawn. 

Jul 19, 2025 11:33 AM
Katina Hargrove 352-551-0308
Stake Your Land Realty, Inc. - Eustis, FL
Broker/Owner, SFR®, e-PRO®, GRI, AHWD, REALTOR®

Kathy Streib 

Yes, we need to know about the Dawn hack, lol. I do enjoy the grocery story, so many are so friendly, but one must be friendly first in order to have friends or acquaintances. So many lives we can uplift with a smile or a compliment. 

Jul 19, 2025 06:02 AM
Kathy Streib

Hi  Katina Hargrove 352-551-0308 I agree...it just takes smile or "good morning."

Here'swhat I use for weeds"

inegar solution – equal parts of vinegar, salt, and dish soap; spray only on weeds as it will kill whatever plant it touches.

Jul 19, 2025 11:35 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - crrli.com. We are Lic. Assoc. Broker/Lic. RE Salesperson - Plainview, NY
We List/Sell Long Island Real Estate Successfully!

Maya Angelou's quote says it all Kathy. You never know who will become a lifelong friend, a trusted colleague, or simply someone who brightens your day!

Jul 19, 2025 06:03 AM
Kathy Streib

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 I do love that quote. My friend of 45 + years was someone I'd placed 3 times and found her the entleman she's been married to for about that long. 

Jul 19, 2025 11:36 AM
Patricia Feager
Appraisal Review Board, Denton County, TX - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Kathy Streib - I have no problem striking up conversations with strangers in local stores. I've never had one yet who wasn't interesting. Over the years, that is how I made new friends. You really don't know who that is behind the face unless you're willing to smile and say something first!

All great quotes!

Jul 19, 2025 06:17 AM
Kathy Streib

I agree Patricia Feager this came in handy when I interviewed applicants for employment. You have to be willing to ask questions and listen to what they're saying. 

Jul 19, 2025 11:39 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Saturday morning, Kathy. Enjoy every friendship, old or new, and have an outstanding weekend.

Jul 19, 2025 06:37 AM
Kathy Streib

Roy Kelley we realize, the older we get, that we cannot take our friends, or time for granted.

Jul 19, 2025 11:40 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

Not to change the subject, but I loved HEB. The fresh cooked food stations in the middle of the store (especially the tortilla area) made me very happy  :)

Jul 19, 2025 07:00 AM
Kathy Streib

I agree. They weren't around when I lived here, but when my sister-in-law took me, I thought ...what a nice change from Publix!!!  In 2020 when places were running out of some things, they kept their shelves stocked. 

Jul 19, 2025 11:42 AM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

Wiliam Yeates quote is awesome. Thanks for sharing, make it a great Saturday and enjoy your weekend! Bill

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Jul 19, 2025 10:26 AM
Kathy Streib

HI GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore that is a favorite quote of mine!!!  Have a wonderful weekend.

Jul 19, 2025 11:43 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Kathy and I am old for sure and glad we have been friends on the phone and here in the Rain.

 

Jul 19, 2025 10:53 AM
Kathy Streib

Will Hamm not only old friends but a dear one as well.

Jul 19, 2025 01:16 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

My oldest friends are gone in one way or another, so I treasure the few new friends I've acquired in the past several years. It isn't easy when you don't go to a workplace, attend meetings, etc. 

So, I do enjoy chatting with people in the grocery store, and am sometimes amazed at the stories I hear. 

Jul 19, 2025 11:26 AM
Kathy Streib

Marte Cliff I couldn't agree more. The socialization benefits we receive from our morning walks is as important as the health benefits. You're right...without a workplace or school environment, we have to rely on our churches, stores, coffee shops, and volunteer work. 

Jul 19, 2025 01:19 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

This will make you smile Kathy.  You call it a 'Texan Thing' and my whole life my family has called it a 'Kruchten Thing'!!  I swear no matter where were were at home or traveling.....those Kruchten's make friends.  It's fun!!!

Jul 19, 2025 11:49 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

LOL could very well be Kathy!  My Dad used to spend time in Texas for business and sometimes he'd bring us kids with him.  I love Texas.  Did you know Gary and I almost moved there a few years back?  Honeywell wanted him to manage a F35 program but he his mind was focused on something else.  Plus my busines was in full swing at that time. Closing shop and moving......didn't sound like such a great idea.  Would have been fun tho....now that I think about it!

Jul 22, 2025 12:51 PM
Kathy Streib

Anna "Banana" Kruchten I am laughing. Are you sure there aren't any Texans in your Kruchten history/???!!! Just kidding.

Jul 19, 2025 01:20 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thanks so much for sharing this warm and insightful post, Kathy Streib. I really appreciate your perspective on the importance of friendship at every stage of life, and your stories make it so relatable. Grateful for your thoughtful words. Definitely a reminder to cherish those connections! 😊

Jul 19, 2025 11:56 AM
Kathy Streib

Lew Corcoran With the advent of Zoom and other face to face calls, it is a step forward for many who are housebound or retired!

Jul 19, 2025 01:21 PM
Lise Howe
RLAH RE LLC - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Thanks Kathy for the recipe!

Jul 19, 2025 12:31 PM
Kathy Streib

Lise Howe I used it this spring and it works. 

Jul 19, 2025 01:22 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good afternoon Kathy Streib,

A great topic! I loved you chatted with the lady at the store. I find in Texas if you want a conversation (even if you don't know them)  you can have one! Just ask a question! Great quotes. Of course my favorite is the one by Ralph Waldo Emerson. You are more than an acquaintance to so many, you love people, have a heart and anyone would be lucky to call you a friend!

Jul 19, 2025 03:08 PM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Kathy, how fun to run into this shopper again and have a meaningful conversation.

Jul 19, 2025 06:02 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy you are right about being more selective of who my friends are and who I spend time with as I mature in life.   

Jul 19, 2025 06:09 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Kathy:

True friends are to be cherished, no matter how long you've known them. We have several close friends from our time back in New England, and while it's been years since we've seen them in person we stay in touch regularly.

Love the quotes, especially Maya Angelou's!

Jeff

Jul 20, 2025 11:02 AM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I only have a few "real life" friends that I actually see socially. Even then, it is not often. I'm good with that...not exactly a social butterfly as I get older. Both Rick and I are quite content not interacting with others. LOL

Jul 25, 2025 11:44 AM