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Do You Want Good Neighbors Moving To Your Area?

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Real Estate Agent with Appraisal Review Board, Denton County, TX 0506509

And Good Neighbors Make a Huge

Difference in the Quality of Life. 

I Agree.

Robert Fulghum

 

 

So, you have no plans to move. I get that! But you want good neighbors. I get that too! If you are happy in your neighborhood, there are many things you can do to attract good neighbors. It starts with being a good neighbor yourself. 

 

SUGGESTIONS FOR BEING A GOOD NEIGHBOR

  • Be aware of who your neighbors are. Wave when you drive by.
  • Pay attention to cars that drive through your neighborhood.
  • If you see patterns of unusual behavior, call the non-emergency number.
  • If a property starts running down, find out why and who lives there.
  • Ask if your neighbor could use some help.
  • Keep your property maintained.


 

HOW TO BE A BETTER NEIGHBOR

  • Be more considerate.
  • Be thoughtful.
  • Be nice.
  • Be happy. 
  • Be friendly.
  • Be aware of your surroundings


 

HOW TO PROMOTE BEING A GOOD NEIGHBOR

  • Be respectful of your neighbor's privacy.
  • Pick up after your dog when walking through the neighborhood.
  • Be approachable if a neighbor tries to talk to you.
  • Teach your children to be mindful of others.
  • Be aware of seniors in your neighborhood. 
  • Could your neighbors use your assistance or help?
  • If a neighbor smiles at you, talk to them.
  • Be a good neighbor. Don't be weird. 

 

 

There are many ways in which you can engage in your community. During the month of October, many Fire Departments hold Open House. Get to know the people who serve your community. There are special events held year-round in many neighborhoods. This is a good way to meet new people. If you have an HOA Community, make sure you know their regulations and guidelines.

 

 

If you see a new house go on the market, don't be afraid to talk to the Listing Agent. Real Estate Agents love to talk about houses and can be very resourceful. You don't have to be interested in moving to talk to them, but if you are willing to learn more about the what's going on, why not talk to your local real estate agent? It's best to talk to agents who work in your area - they are the best source of information. 

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Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Sunday morning, Patricia. This is good advice for all of us. We are lucky to have good neighbors.

Have a great day!

Aug 03, 2025 04:22 AM
Patricia Feager

Roy Kelley - thank you! I woke up real early this morning. A neighbor of mine reached out to send me a nice text message. That's when I started to get inspired and composed this blog post. 

I wish you a great day too!

Aug 03, 2025 04:25 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Patricia Feager excellent advice, Patricia. I've been fortunate to have never had "bad" neighbors. But I sure have heard some horror stories over the years.

Aug 03, 2025 04:51 AM
Patricia Feager

Nina Hollander, Broker - Oh yes, you are right! I recently wrote a post about do you know who is lurking in your own backyard. Until now, I always felt safe in my little sleeping town community. I thought the children were getting a good education. But now we know, we still have to remain vigilant. 

Aug 03, 2025 08:11 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Patricia Feager sad that we have to live that way these days.

Aug 03, 2025 11:44 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Retired Real Estate Broker

We live on a cul-de-sac with just 15 houses so it is very easy to notice cars and lack of attention.  Being observant is always a positive and can help someone as well.

Aug 03, 2025 05:07 AM
Patricia Feager

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 - Whether we live in a big or small community, it helps to be a good neighbor. "Being observant is a positive!"

A few years ago, I attended funeral services for a dear friend who lived on a street similar to what you described. All the neighbors (which were few in number) had a chance to say something to everyone who was attending. Everyone who spoke had something positive to say. The one that I will never forget, was the lady that shared that during the week we all learned we had to wear masks, our friend Patti got up in the middle of the night and made smiley faces on put them on everyone's mailbox box while they were sleeping. 

Having a positive attitude gives us all happiness and peace of heart. 

Aug 03, 2025 08:17 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

You have to be a good neighbor to have good neighbors.  Our area is rural so we all have 1+ acres in our lots.  Our homes are not close together, but we have a way of watching out for each other.

Aug 03, 2025 05:30 AM
Patricia Feager

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 - Awe, that's terrific! You can be spaced out from your neighbors and still have close connections. I love your comment. There really is no excuse not to watch out for each other and stay connected. 

Aug 03, 2025 08:19 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Patricia. We now live in a townhome community where we recognize our neighbors and they us. We wave and sometimes converse at the mailbox or on garbage day, Not as friendly or personal as other places we have lived but we have only been here a little over a year and all of our neighbors work. So time may change things but g for noe not so bd either. Enjoy your day.

Aug 03, 2025 05:43 AM
Patricia Feager

Wayne Martin - every good change starts with one and then it moves on to others. Before you know it, those who embrace it, are living happily ever after. And when positive change occurs, such as within your neighborhood, it becomes contagious. People begin to look forward to it, just like we did when we were kids, if we waited for Santa Clause to stop by and leave presents. 

Being social is a gift we give to each other. 

Aug 03, 2025 08:23 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Good morning! Yes, being a good neighbor is important and makes life at home a lot better!

Aug 03, 2025 06:37 AM
Patricia Feager

Kat Palmiotti - Even though I am not your neighbor, you gave me a sample of how friendly and caring you are when I was in Montana for the Writers Workshop in Kalispell several years ago. 

Anyone who is your neighbor, is mighty lucky to have you around. I think you would go out of your way for anyone, because you are very caring and fun to be around! 

Aug 03, 2025 08:25 AM
Kat Palmiotti

Awww thank you Patricia Feager !

Aug 03, 2025 10:47 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Patricia - your post prompts me to wonder, want a good neighbor, be a good neighbor.  The Golden Rule and its many different connected principles continue to prove ponder-worthy in my opinion.  

Aug 03, 2025 06:50 AM
Patricia Feager

Michael Jacobs - there sure are a lot of ways the message of being a good neighbor perpetuates in a good way. Communication is a visual. We hear it in jingles, we read about it in social media, like ActiveRain. whenever someone sends a package, letter, or text, those that live the by the Golden Rule are richer by far!

We are all glad for members like you. 

Aug 03, 2025 08:29 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I enjoy sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Traveler, Retired, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Patricia,

I've been fortunate to have good neighbors. I think being a good neighbor fosters having good neighbors.

Being a good neighbor really is the secret to a happy neighborhood. It’s amazing what a wave, a smile, or returning your neighbor’s escaped trash can do for community spirit. Picking up after your dog should be non-negotiable.

 

 

Aug 03, 2025 09:01 AM
Patricia Feager

Carol Williams - I really do believe it is the people in the neighborhood that help promote their neighborhood as a good place to live. When the neighborhood makes a great first impression it makes the house for sale more attractive too. 

Finding a place to live where people look friendly, the homes are well taken care of, and the neighborhood has that clean look about it helps a lot in selling a house for sale. 

Aug 03, 2025 06:00 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

We feel blessed to live in a neighborhood with such great neighbors.  It's one of the neighborhoods that people move into and stay....for years and years.  And you can tell that just by walking around the neighborhood!

Aug 03, 2025 11:34 AM
Patricia Feager

Anna "Banana" Kruchten - That was precisely my point when I left a comment on Carol's feedback too. Prospective buyers often visit neighborhoods they are interested in seeing that are for sale. When buyers are looking to buy, they often scope out the neighborhood. Seeing good neighbors, well maintained neighborhoods, and possibly children playing outdoors can be a big incentive, especially if the potential buyers have children of their own. 

So many times, I had that happen when I was showing properties. If a mom saw other kids about her own children's ages, she would get excited. Plus, I had kids with their parents know the kids in the neighborhood too from school. 

Aug 03, 2025 06:06 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Patricia I am the perfect neighbor so I want carbon copies of me for neighbors.  ☺️☺️☺️

Aug 03, 2025 02:26 PM
Patricia Feager

George Souto - With your good humor, who wouldn't want to be your neighbor! Having you for a neighbor would be so much fun!

Aug 03, 2025 06:08 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thanks so much for sharing this thoughtful and practical advice, Patricia Feager. I really appreciate how you highlight the small acts that can make a big difference in building a friendly, caring community. Your tips are spot on and remind us all that being a good neighbor starts with simple kindnesses. 😊

Aug 03, 2025 02:38 PM
Patricia Feager

Lew Corcoran - I agree with all your thoughts, including living in a healthy environment where people appreciate the value of their homes and want to keep it that way, deserve to have new homeowners move to their neighborhood too! Neighbors can help make a sale, especially if the Listing Agent already met a few neighbors. 

Aug 03, 2025 06:11 PM