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YOU WANT THE TRUTH???..."YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!!

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Real Estate Agent with Douglas Elliman Real Estate 30HA0800896

PART FOUR: This is part 4 of a 5 part series of opinion pieces about todays real estate market with a focus on the Hamptons...A microcosm of the macrocosim! 

YOU WANT THE TRUTH???..."YOU CAN'T HANDLE THE TRUTH!!!

The real estate market in general needs a panacea! All parts of the country are facing a shift in the way this profession has evolved.

Although you may not always agree with my theories and opinions about what is happening and what is about to occur in the real estate business, you can't ignore the basic truth about this situation! We are in a historical shift in ethical standards and legal requirements! 

This is briefly what happened to bring on the shift taking place right now

In the trials that took place in 2023 and into 2024, the National Association of Realtors (NAR) was accused of engaging in a price-fixing conspiracy—specifically, of colluding to inflate commissions paid to real estate agents, thereby compelling home sellers to bear higher costs for both listing and buyer’s agent fees.

  • NAR was accused—and ultimately found liable—of designing and enforcing rules that effectively forced sellers to pay inflated commissions, amounting to an anticompetitive scheme. The fallout included a staggering jury verdict and a sweeping settlement that led to a fundamental shift in how real estate commissions are structured in the U.S.

  • To resolve the case, NAR agreed in March 2024 to a $418 million settlement, along with committing to significant policy changes—notably eliminating the rule that required sellers to pay buyer agents’ commissions through MLS listings, and introducing requirements like formal buyer-agent contracts before showings.

Buying a home will never be the same!

Life used to be so simple: You saw a listing, you called the agent, you bought the house. But, by way of the NAR rules that required certain information be included on MLS listings, we all became vulnerable to the well-recognized Anti-Trust Price Fixing claims. Don't forget, as part of belonging to NAR, we pay significant dues to the Association. As a paying member, we are part of the scheme. We had to play the game as was required by the NAR! 

But, there is one thing I didn't mention: The Hamptons and New York City never played the MLS game. We had to pay our dues because the whole brokerage community was required to be part of the "CLUB" or nobody would be able to use the Multiple Listing Systems!

But, we did not use the MLS system! Both NYC and the Hamptons had too much on the line--too many differences from the mainstream listing systems. We had "RealNet" and HREO and then there were other privately owned listing platforms---until Zillow got involved!!

Yes--that's right! Zillow got involved by buying out the platforms that we were using here in the Hamptons, bringing in "Streeteasy" and "Outeast" to break into these two markets (NYC and the Hamptons) and it all came crashing down. To this day, the Outeast platform has been a complete failure in my humble opinion--it has never worked for agents. We are treated just like the public, without any market data or any other mapping tools that we were accustomed to with Real Net or HREO.

In other words, these 2 markets had too much to lose in terms of  status or market value to appear on a local MLS.  if everybody were pushing their way in to try to sell the most expensive real estate in America--NYC and the Hamptons have some of the most expensive real estate in the world-- then where do we come off claiming to be a true Luxury Market? And the homeowners were satisfied that their properties were presented the way they were. 

And now we have the NAR fiasco. It has all come full circle for them. Whether it was intentional price-fixing or not, makes no difference. The hubris of NAR to do what they did for years without any consequences until now is nothing short of astounding!  

This truth will rule our profession from now on.

What is the real truth about the way the real estate market came to demand buyer representation? Was it because the buyer demanded it? Was it because there was a missing piece in what buyers were getting in their treatment by the brokerage community? Surely, there were complaints by the homeowner/sellers that had to do with who pays commission? Not that I was ware of...And I never heard a buyer say: "Do I pay commission or does the seller pay when I buy his/her house?" Most states were set up for Seller representation and since the beginning, it has always been that way--but then Dual Agents became the target of  questions of  fudiucary responsibility and states, including New York State had a very hard time explaining Dual Agency and the conflict it invokes

The accumulation of actions taken by the real estate community, including it's representative associations are a stark reminder of how we must be on our toes at all times.

REMINDER: Never, ever think there is an exception to the rules, the BIG (FEDERAL) rules!

 

WAS THERE A REVOLUTION IN REAL ESTATE BROKERAGE? ..Did I miss something?

No, but there was unrest out there, quietly taking a course of legal action that made the real estate market go spinning out over these past 2-3 years. It surfaced that the discomfort on the part of a few sellers, unhappy with the way commissions are paid, became a hill to die on. 

And it was a very high hill that included questions about the integrity and intentions of the National Association of Realtors. It also called into question the way the brokerages work with buyers and the way we get paid for our work!   

For the first time in it's history, NAR had to prove itself to the general public and the brokerage community. Did they do it? What was acomplished that will forever change the nature of brokerage? Lots!

I didn't sit through the trials; I didn't realIy follow the trials that closely.  I see that the charges were Price Fixing--an anti-trust claim that was proven by the courts and that required NAR to have to pay huge fines for their miss-behavior.

Knowing that, I now view the real estate business as a very different entity. And there is irony in that, because many people believe that we as agents make too  much money--that we are all rich. That is a total falsehood that hopefully will fall away now. I have been fortunate enough to have worked in the corporate world, in retailing specifically, and I can tell you that I have never made as much money in real estate as I did with the steady salary I recieved in the Corprate world.

As self employed Independent contractors, real estate agents pay an enormous self employment tax--at least they do here in New York.  Because of the way we are treated in this profession, I don't know how many more years I can spend doing this kind of work. It "pays" very little in the way of respect--always has! And now, not knowing how things will unfold, it may be the time to chill out! 

 

IT WAS A QUIET REVOLUTION AND IT CHANGED A LOT ABOUT REAL ESTATE BROKERAGE... As we know it, at least here in New york.

And now, the buying public is forced to sign on the dotted line in order to physically see properties and in some cases, buyers are now responsible for paying some part of the commisssion! Yes, you can still just call a listing agent to see a house, but there will be pressure to sign a buyer exclusive so that the agent can properly represent you...and get paid!

State to State we are seeing changes in the way we deal with buyers (New federal law changes the relationship between a buyer and their agent from one of "customer" to "Client" as a result of NAR lawsuits) and the need for Federal oversight of this sort makes it even more essential that we stay informed, educated as to how to handle this new form of Buyer Brokerage.

I am learning more and more every day!...and that's the TRUTH!

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Paula I. Hathaway, Senior Broker Associate, Douglas Elliman Real Estate

Southamtpon Village Real Estate Specialist since 1995;  Also Specializes in North Sea, Noyac, Water Mill and Bridgehampton, New York

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Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

I had an agent call me about a HUD yesterday. She wanted to know why the buyer was paying her commission.  This is from the agent who has been on vacation since the offer was accepted.

Aug 08, 2025 07:51 AM
Paula Hathaway, REALTOR, LBA
Douglas Elliman Real Estate - Southampton, NY
"Deeply rooted in The Hamptons---local expertise"

Hi Gwen,

Ha ha! I think we are going to see all kinds of things like that happen--lots of confusion about what it really means---she "couldn't handle the truth"! 😂

Thanks for reading and commenting!

Aug 08, 2025 10:11 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thanks so much for sharing this insightful and honest perspective, Paula Hathaway, REALTOR, LBA. I appreciate how you shed light on the hidden shifts in our industry and the real impact of recent changes. Your clarity and experience truly add value. Thanks for taking the time to educate us all! 😊

Aug 08, 2025 03:41 PM
Paula Hathaway, REALTOR, LBA
Douglas Elliman Real Estate - Southampton, NY
"Deeply rooted in The Hamptons---local expertise"

Hi Lew,

Thank you for reading it and for your valuable observations. I appreciate your acknowledgement and am more than clear on the fact that I am  just one of so many independent contractors who are incesenced at the off-handed way we are expected to go along with the "rules" of MLS--when these rules led us into breaking the law! Now, I need to wash the dirt off me; that is how I feel now. At our expense, we have been subjected to the worst kind of damage to our reputations....a Federal law was broken; I'm just waiting for the first questions about this from a client! I don't even know where to start to answer such a question. The more I delve into the information about the case, the more I get the feeling I should run. I thought I would reach a level of understanding by now--this is after-all my 4th post about the subject matter. But it is not getting better--on the contrary. Sorry for the rant but I suspect you know what I am talking about.

Aug 08, 2025 04:45 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Paula... I remember sending out a detailed email to my data base about a year ago explaining what all this meant to buyers and sellers. Withing minutes I was getting emails back saying things like "why, Nina... isn't life complicated enough?" I remember working in NY City without buyer agency agreements or MLS and somehow it all worked. We've had buyer agency in the Carolinas for decades and it also worked without complaints from our clients. What they've done now is complicate the entire process and open it up to more confusion, I believe.

Aug 09, 2025 05:10 AM
Paula Hathaway, REALTOR, LBA

You are so right Nina--it all worked very well and we weren't "Hiding" dirty deeds either--It all seemed well constructed so that we were able to do our work, do our CE to stay on top of new laws etc. and it just simply worked! At that time, our reputations as real estate professionals were pretty much intact--with just a rare incident now and then that affected the public view of us. BUT NOW--WOW! Where do we go to get our reputations back? We have been harmed, in my opinion--can't wait for the question: "I would like to know how much money you have made off the backs of buyers and sellers and  from all the law-breaking you have done in real estate?  Has it paid off BIG?" This is going to happen--guarenteed!

Aug 09, 2025 07:12 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Paula, These new real estate requirements have just complicated things further where now buyers, sellers, and agents are more confused than ever!

Aug 09, 2025 07:02 AM
Paula Hathaway, REALTOR, LBA
Douglas Elliman Real Estate - Southampton, NY
"Deeply rooted in The Hamptons---local expertise"

Yes, and confusion causes suspicions---the public already does not trust real estate agents--Now this! We have not heard the last of it--those lawsuits are going to be reviewed from now until eternity and as agents of the trade, we will never hear the end of it!

Aug 09, 2025 07:16 AM