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Atlanta Buckhead Midtown - Blogging -
- RePosting Tisza's Good Advice -

Sometimes the internet brings one exactly what is needed. Remember - on ActiveRain, at least 25 words of introduction are required for a re-blog. 

Enjoy reading Tisza's advice in this post from long, long ago.  Lynn
 

Are You Suffering From Blogger's Block? 

 
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Real Estate Agent with I.V.P.G. - Inland Valley Professional Group
July 21, 2008 06:47 PM
 

Hi All,

As some of you may have noticed, I had been a little quiet of late... try about four months or so.  For one who had hitherto-fore been among the most prolific and long winded, for me to go silent was quite some feat.  I know you may not believe it but I was suffering from "Blogger's Block".  I knew where I caught it, but up until recently I had not the foggiest notion how to cure it. 

Oh sure, I tried, in fact my admin was littered with the fits and starts of tounge tied, fumbling fingered, humor impaired attempts at creativity.  Finally, I gave up.  I admitted defeat (something I rarely do) and decided that the muse had forever deserted me and I would just have to go on with my life.  And I tried.  But the lure was too strong and my desire not to be thwarted by an unseen and unarmed foe was even stronger.  Still, I was not sure what, if anything I could do to remedy the situation.

Then one day, about three days ago to be exact, I was talking with my hubby about something else entirely and the subject came around to writing.  Now, he is a good writer, a really good, truly gifted writer.  But here's the thing, as much as he would like to write and as talented as he is, with the exception of emails, the occasional white paper for work and some online forums he frequents he doesn't write.  So I asked him why and he told me it was because he had nothing to say. 

I told him that was silly and that the only way to find things to say was to start saying things.  When, BAM!  It hit me right between the eyes... There it was, flopping right out of my lips and dribbling down my chin, the answer to my problem.  I couldn't write because I wasn't writing.  Simple as that.  I was getting so worried about what I would say and about how it would be received that I scared myself into silence.  I got what I call an "Attack of the Shy's", and I let it overwhelm me. 

I backed away from the very thing that could be my salvation and I know I am not the first and I know I am not alone.  Blogger's Block can strike anyone but there is a cure - start blogging.  Don't worry about who's reading it, or what "they" might think.  Don't censor yourself just let the thoughts drip through your hands and rain out your fingertips.  No, they won't all be Tolstoy, and thats OK.  They don't all need to be.  Just don't let what happened to me happen to you. 

Writing is like going to the gym, it is a whole lot harder to go back than it is to keep going.  So keep going, write what you want, when you want, the way you want.  Damn the torpedo's, full speed ahead!

Take care all, help lots of people and have a wonderful day!

Tisza

 ORIGINAL POST LINK:     https://activerain.com/droplet/zbTt

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George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375 she provided good advice in this blog, but unfortunately she stopped doing what she advises just a few month lather.  However, the blog is worth reading, and remembering the next time "Blogger's Block" knocks at the door.

Aug 10, 2025 02:28 PM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375

George Souto Yup!

Aug 11, 2025 11:26 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Such a good choice for a reblog!  This is the first time that I am hearing of Tisza, I wonder if she has ever visited my blog.

Aug 11, 2025 06:43 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Lynn= what a wonderful post to reblog!  Tisza's advice is spot on. If you worry about what someone will think about what you write, or if they will like it, it's like rolling a huge boulder uphill. 

Aug 11, 2025 07:48 PM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375

Kathy Streib So kind of you to put into your feed. Thanks - Lynn

Aug 19, 2025 10:50 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Aug 16, 2025 07:32 PM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Lynn. Way back n 2008 I was just being invited to join the Rain. While I did I did not participate until a couple of years later. It took some time to get over "the attack of the shys" and start commenting on the post of others. Did not realize what I was suffering from but suffering I was. This is a magnificent reblog. Thanks! Enjoy your day. 

Aug 17, 2025 06:03 AM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Lynn:

Thanks for sharing Tisza's story and advice - it's spot on and still true today!

Jeff

Aug 17, 2025 10:32 AM
Lise Howe
RLAH RE LLC - Washington, DC
Assoc. Broker in DC, MD, VA and attorney in DC

Says she who has been away for a while - great advice that I need to take to heart myself. 

Aug 19, 2025 06:47 AM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375

Lise Howe Ah-ha --- this year we may get to meet one another in person!!! I will be in Great Falls in October. Let's try to make it happen! Lynn

THANKS for commenting! Lynn

Aug 19, 2025 10:49 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I’ve seen Atlanta flourish on many sides of the city and I think there will be no different in that respect.

 

Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375  I think it’s a beautiful place for a reunion for you and your friends if you decide to meet up. ::)

Aug 20, 2025 10:45 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

Yeah, Atlanta’s got a lot of prospects on a lot of different fronts both old and new.

Aug 20, 2025 10:48 PM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

Thank you for the re-blog, Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375 

It was excellent advice.

Aug 27, 2025 10:12 AM