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Ta-Da Tuesday! September 16, 2025

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Real Estate Agent with Appraisal Review Board, Denton County, TX 0506509

Journaling - How Well Do You Know Your Own House?

 

 

If something happened and you were far away, would you be able to remember everything you owned? Could you write in details all the things you own, or is it possible you would miss important information? 


We believe we know everything about our home, but is that true? Depending on how long you lived there, how much do you really remember? Would you make mistakes, forget things, or could you accurately remember everything, down to the smallest details?



Home has always been our sanctuary, but if you had to recreate your entire house to included everything you own, could you do it? What if time was not on your side and you needed to provide information quickly? Maybe you live alone and there is no one else to answer questions about what you have? 

 

More importantly, if a loved one had to take charge of your possessions, would they find a manual or a binder or something in the cloud that maps out precisely what you own including clear instructions of everything that is important for them to know? 

 

THE CHALLENGE

Try to take one room at a time. Leave the house. Drawing from memory, go to a separate location without any video equipment, computer records, or photographs.  How close would you get to being accurate about what you own? Do you know exactly how many cabinets, drawers, dishes, appliances, clothes, furniture, books, and other valuables you really own? And of course, you would not be able to use surveillance cameras, FaceTime, telephone, or Zoom with anyone else. The question is, do you really know everything you need to know about your house, or would you fail to remember? 

 

WHY IS THIS IMPORTANT?

Stuff happens. You could have a house fire. A tornado or hurricane ripped through your house. Someone broke in and the police need to know what was in your house. Perhaps you have a memory lapse, a stroke, or something else? What if you have dementia or Alzheimer's Disease and you don't even know it.

Sadly, if you don't know and you fail the challenge test, what makes you think anyone else would know everything that is needed to know, about your house and possessions. 

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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Patricia - a thoughtful and important exercise.  Fiscally.  Physically.  Mentally.  Peace of mind in addition to many other ways. 

Sep 16, 2025 04:13 AM
Patricia Feager

Michael Jacobs- thank you for your important contribution to my blog post. There are so many ways to use our time wisely. But when there is a reason why you need to know what you own, it becomes very important to have information readily on hand to lessen the stress. "Peace of mind," is worth the effort. 

Sep 16, 2025 06:10 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

It is a good idea to photograph all of the items in a room, room by room, and to maintain those records.

Sep 16, 2025 04:15 AM
Patricia Feager

Roy Kelley - yes! It is important to photograph everything you have, going room to room. But what happens when the photos disappear and you're under the gun, trying to remember without them? It's kind of like becoming so attached to your navigation that when the navigation quits, you may not even know how to get back home. 

I hope you try it!  Take the challenge. No cheating. It is so easy to take our home and all the possession we own for granted. We think we know the layout down to small details, but when challenged and you step outside your comfort zone (your home), will you get it all right from memory?

Sep 16, 2025 06:13 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Patricia... this is very important advice to everyone... even if they don't own a home... they still own "stuff."

Sep 16, 2025 04:54 AM
Patricia Feager

Nina Hollander, Broker - Trying to retrieve information we take for granted every day can become stressful when under pressure to remember. That is why I recommend taking the challenge. 

Sep 16, 2025 06:16 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Patricia. What do I own? I am betting I would fail your challenge miserably. Wake -up call for many of us. Let's spread the word and feature you in BananaTudes this morning. Congrats.

Sep 16, 2025 05:00 AM
Patricia Feager

Wayne Martin - Judging by the 80/20 rule, I think most people would fail miserably. 

Thank you for your kindness and the feature in BananaTudes. I now wear a smile on my face!

Sep 16, 2025 06:18 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

My best friend's house burned.  We used a Sears Catalog to remember all the stuff they had to file the insurance claim. After that, we got in the habit of taking pictures with each purchase or improvement and each removal to Goodwill.  The system has served us well.

Sep 16, 2025 07:41 AM
Patricia Feager

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 - I also suffered from a house fire in 1994. People need to read their policies, especially when there are amendments to the policy. 

Pictures help. However, how many could write what they own from memory?

Sep 16, 2025 04:38 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

They can't remember, but the Sears catalog had everything, so the book would jog your memory.

Sep 21, 2025 09:01 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thanks so much for sharing this thought-provoking post, Patricia Feager. I really appreciate how you highlight the importance of knowing our homes inside out, especially in times of need. Your insights remind us all to consider what it truly means to be prepared and organized. Such valuable advice indeed!

Sep 16, 2025 04:01 PM
Patricia Feager

Lew Corcoran - People would be surprised at how many items they forgot to list. This is a good exercise of the mind. Knowing from memory can be quite a challenge. We move things around often and things are easy to forget. Being organized and staying organized is a daily challenge. Your comments are appreciated and important. 

Sep 16, 2025 04:42 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Patricia good suggestion.  After 44 years I think I know my house well, BUT I would most likely still miss a lot if I was asked to state everything in it from memory. 

Sep 16, 2025 04:35 PM
Patricia Feager

George Souto - You are 100% correct. There are many things we take for granted. When put to the test, we can be surprised at how much we failed to remember. 

Thanks, George. Love your honesty!

Sep 16, 2025 04:44 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Spot on Patricia- I know before every hurricane, I used to walk around the house and video everything but I need to do that again.  After we moved into our first house, Larry called me at work. He asked questions about my stove/oven and I couldn't answer them. Even though I used it every day, I paid no attention to it. (he was trying to make a point to his construction and sales crew. 

 

Sep 16, 2025 06:19 PM
Patricia Feager

Kathy Streib - I greatly appreciate your comment. The inspiration for this post came from talking to.my sister. We were talking about her new refrigerator. Then, she asked me what brand I have? I replied, LG, wait maybe Samsung, or maybe something else. Kathy, I couldn't remember! I walked into the kitchen and saw all my appliances were Samsung. As you said, I also use my major kitchen appliances all the time, and I clean them, and walk past them every day. In that moment of conversation, when asked, I couldn't remember!

I'm glad to read your reply. We really have to start using our brains more and stop relying on photographs. I had a similar experience a few days ago. I caught up with a colleague of mine, who retired from the RE businessiness. We had lunch. Then she got into my car and I agreed to drive us both to another place in Flower Mound. For some reason, my navigation system in my car stopped working! I really struggled to remember how to get there without the navigation system. Eventually, I found it, but how embarrassing! Thankfully, she has a good sense of humor and laughed.

Sep 17, 2025 04:14 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I enjoy sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Traveler, Retired, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Patricia,
This is a good reminder that I need to take updated photos in every room... including opening closets and drawers. 

Sep 17, 2025 08:22 AM
Patricia Feager

Hi Carol Williams - taking photos of everything, we own is very important. Keeping our memory sharp using our brain is very critical, especially as we get older. 

I started emptying drawers about a year ago. It's amazing how much stuff ends up in the junk drawer! I discovered, cabinet drawers and the stuff put underneath sinks need to be decluttered very frequently. Out of sight out of mind but junk is junk, and many products expire before we even use them. 

I appreciate your comment - thank you!

Sep 17, 2025 09:27 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Good point! I would not remember everything I own, especially not things like model numbers/company names/etc. I probably should have an inventory somewhere. Thanks for the reminder!

Sep 20, 2025 05:53 AM
Patricia Feager

Kat Palmiotti - Knowing brands, models, and serial numbers do matter, especially when you're filing an insurance claim. I learned my lesson when my house caught fire. They gave me an inventory list. The insurance company said, for example: you owned a piano - you have replacement coverage for a piano, provided it isn't considered an antique or too old. What year did you buy your piano? Now, if you have a spinet and not a baby or a grand piano, you get replacement coverage for a spinet, depending on the type and age of the piano. And if you don't have proof, that you kept your piano tuned, there is no replacement coverage. 

Sep 20, 2025 06:08 AM
Patricia Feager
Appraisal Review Board, Denton County, TX - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Thank you ActiveRain for the FEATURE. I appreciate the recognition. People in the real estate industry do so much for others. Many are exhausted by end of day. We must take time to do the right thing for us. And making time to take care of us, leaving no stones unturned. 

Sep 20, 2025 06:17 PM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

I have a giant binder with all my appliances and updates to the house.   But could I make a list of everything in my home? Not a chance! Patricia Feager 

  Great topic! Thank you for the suggestion, which would be beneficial for all our clients and quite useful during a move. It could also serve as a great topic for a future radio

Sep 20, 2025 08:07 PM
Patricia Feager

Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400 - A binder is great idea. Keeping it up to date is the challenge. Making a list of everything you own in your home is really a challenge. This is a good way to test our memory too! You might be surprised how many important things you forgot to write down from memory. We really do rely on our eyesight, but what if we are older and our eyesight began to fail?

I think this would be a great topic to discuss for a future radio show. It would be a fascinating subject with all different kinds of experiences and ideas! 

Sep 21, 2025 06:56 AM
Debra Leisek
Bay Realty,Inc Homer Alaska - Homer, AK

Leave it to you Patricia Feager to make me start thinking of such a project! It is a great idea and an even better challenge! I could go for the major items...

You always have such good ideas!!!

Sep 21, 2025 12:58 AM
Patricia Feager

Debra Leisek - Awe, thank you! My mind churns like butter. I have always been that way.

I enjoy our long-distance visits through ActiveRain. You always make me smile.

Sep 21, 2025 06:58 AM
Brenda J. Andrew
Aqua Terra Real Estate, LLC. - Willis, TX
Broker/REALTOR in N Houston & Corpus Christi

Good morning Patricia.  What great advice and something most of us do not think about until there is a storm coming up or if we get advance notice on something that may happen.  This is a great exercise and I am going to give it a try.  You have been through so much, no wonder you are full of wisdom for the rest of us!  Have a beautiful and blessed day!

Sep 21, 2025 06:43 AM
Patricia Feager

Brenda J. Andrew - When a storm is brewing, we have a lot to think about, especially where you live. We are creatures of habit and most of us are constantly moving things around or forgetting where we put things. This is a great exercise to test our brain skills. 

You're right - I have lived through many different scenarios. In the aftermath, it was always frustrating to me, to realize something I needed that was very important. Unfortunately, I didn't remember to list it for insurance purposes. And of course, there are those day-to-day items we use occasionally that we forgot - like a can opener or potato peeler. All those things and material goods we own adds up when trying to replace them.

It's always great to hear from you, my friend. 

Sep 21, 2025 07:04 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Apex Realtors, LLC ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
Educating. Encouraging. Serving.

Good advice Patricia Feager to both homeowners and renters!

Sep 22, 2025 06:06 AM
Patricia Feager

Thank you Dorie Dillard Austin TX!

Have a great weekend! 

Sep 27, 2025 02:57 AM
John Juarez
The Medford Real Estate Team - Fremont, CA
ePRO, SRES, GRI, PMN

Do I know everything about my house and my belongings? Heck, no!

I don't even remember everything that is in my bank safe deposit box.

I went to the bank a few days ago and emptied the contents of my safe deposit box and brought them home because I want to make an inventory list of the contents. I was surprised about what was in there that I totally forgot about

Sep 23, 2025 05:05 PM
Patricia Feager

John Juarez - There is a lot we don't know about our own house. And even if there is an insurance claim, we don't always remember what we have. For example, several years after my house fire, I would remember things I omitted to list. Such as simple things that add up: Can opener, potato peeler, and other things you don't use on a daily basis. 

It's good that you went to your bank to empty your safe deposit box. I did that when I changed banks and was also completely surprised at what I had inside the box! 

Sep 27, 2025 03:02 AM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

This is a really good idea!  Good for you for sharing.  You're right.  Most of us would never remember the most important details.  This is great for insurance claims and just being able to share with friends and family in a time of need. 

Sep 25, 2025 04:08 PM
Patricia Feager

Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ - It's amazing how many things we have that we don't think of immediately. But years later, we remember! By then, it's too late. And I wondered myself; how much do I have that I don't really need anyway? I also remember how horrible it was for me to do ordinary things I took for granted that was on my computer - BUT when the power went out during the TX Ice Storm in February 2021, I had no access to my computer and no electricity for 7 days. I felt lost! Cold! And what I could remember, I couldn't access. Then when I had access to my computer - which took an additional week, I realized how dependent I am on my computer and electronics. 

Sep 27, 2025 03:06 AM
Julie Sutherland Allen
HomeSmart - Panozzo Team - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart, The Panozzo Team

Thank you for the reminder! I would not remember everything I own. Good idea to remember the small details. 

Oct 29, 2025 09:58 AM
Patricia Feager
Appraisal Review Board, Denton County, TX - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Julie Sutherland Allen - You're welcome. I blog to help the AR Community and to receive their gifts of knowledge. I'm sure you have a lot to offer!

Oct 30, 2025 03:07 AM