Anyone who wears more than one face or practices another type of demeanor different than their default behavior & stance, may have deceit issues. In the earthly parlance, being two-faced is closely linked to being hypocritical & is a negative mixed message to carry around or send out. Called a veneer or veiled self, it is superficial in outward appearances that masks who you are or how you are truly feeling. This acting (not U) is unpleasant when directed toward situations & people, it can only amount to no good.
why hide?
THE VENEER or VEIL
Thin by nature, the veil acts under the umbrella or cloak or being charming, overly polite, acting sophisticated hiding the true reality (shallow) of the persons character, motives & feelings. It gets worse by definition as we go closer to it to expose it too. NOTE: The person may not even know they have multiple fronts
1. Why two faces? One is full time maintenance but two? Something is afoot
2. Dishonesty is about
3. Misrepresentation
4. Deception to others as well as self
5. False & imitation self
6. Loss of credibility
7. You actually attract & invite judgment & condemnation
8. Compounding a problem is the wrong direction & approach
9. If you keep it up, you are awarded with a permanent facial mask (scowl)
10. This intruder (s) chases away transparency which is your true friend & reward
YOU SEE THIS EVERYWHERE
The other day, I caught someone on a hot mike (phone) that didn't know I was waiting for them, speaking in a course, judgmental & uncaring fashion that when they came to the phone, became sickenly syrupy as they shifted to the other face
TWO-FACE BINDS THE WEARER
If you are busy, throughout the day, even your life, switching back & forth from phonee-bolognee to your real self that is suffering & neglected, that's twice as much energy being consumed when not needed. Multiple personality disorder?
UNIVERSAL LAW
Whatever you get into, gets into you. Thus, the extra face, plus all of its dynamics & cross purposes gets a turn after your turn. I guarantee you won't like its agenda as dark forces hate truth, reality & light. Their turn, because of you, will make you worse off. You did this! It will continue until you stop (repent) which means change
THEN THERE IS THE HABIT FORMED
I have literally seen, & you have too, where people switch to being & acting out another identity. We don't know what to say or do because it is embarrassing, awkward & the start of guaranteed trouble. Small story of two-faceness follows:
WATCHED THIS OVER TIME
I saw a man, in his fifties that was overly talkative, invasive in presence, to the point of being needy, nuisance & attaching himself to others at this weekly gathering. After weeks of this, I asked him: Are you aware of how talkative & aggressive you are socially? He exploded as the veil of his behavior was pierced. I did it for the good, he responded for the evil of it all which revealed what I already knew. You see that behavior was not normal. Everyone reacted to it. I didn't want to ignore or judge, so I inquired hoping perhaps he would see himself (truth) & take hold of it
PEOPLE JUDGED HIM
Talked behind his back, avoided him & even wore their two-face when they chose to go secret & give up their genuiness. Immediately, coming out of him, was the childhood trauma he suffered, by his over-bearing mother's hand, allowed or ignored by his father, both speak & take a stance just like the corruption happened decades ago. HIs resentment keeps it alive. The veneer hides it
WHAT ABUSE & SUFFERING
I saw the kid in him, innocent & not knowing, being kowtowed by an aggressive, unloving force that overwhelmed & corrupted him as a child. He repeated (to me) over & over "get out" you heard me" you are not wanted", I am sick of you & so much more, over & over. I just watched him play this out, a prisoner in himself
OH, PLEASE LET HIM SEE IT & RENOUNCE IT
I was wanting to be strong for this man so he could see himself, see a different reaction, perhaps loved instead of abused & either in the moment or afterwards, mourn & sob it out as the conscience & the laws of goodness would have it. During the event, he walked away in shame & defeat. Next time I saw him, we said hello. The corrupting forces like to bring it up, over & over again, I would not do/allow this
BACK TO THE POINT of THE POSTING
Being two (or more) people is possible but there is no gain or upside except a false promise & relief from reality. The veil or veneer was never meant. It acts like a parasite not letting you go & forces you to live with it while it lives with you. Drop the charade that is protecting this dark intruder! Relief will visit afterwards
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