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Happiness grows in belonging, not busyness.

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Real Estate Agent with Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 UT DRE# 6541633-SA00

Happiness grows in belonging, not busyness.

 

As we go through life, facing challenges, celebrating moments and growing, we realize that real joy lies in sincere relationships. Belonging means feeling connected, appreciated and loved for who we are. It’s found in close friendships, family bonds, or communities where we feel at home.

 

These connections give us comfort and meaning. Being busy, on the other hand, often feels important but it rarely fulfilling. Rushing through tasks, chasing goals or trying to prove ourselves can pull us away from what matters most. Daily busyness keeps us moving to accomplish the To-Do List.

 

True happiness grows organically when laughing with friends, sharing stories with family or simply feeling understood. These experiences show us that life’s best moments don’t come from a packed schedule or endless achievements. We learn that happiness isn’t about doing more.

 

It’s about spending time with those who make us feel valued. Choosing belonging over busyness allows us focus on people that bring joy and support. When we prioritize these connections, we find deeper, lasting relationships that carry us through life’s ups and downs.

 

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Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! True friendship is complex. We will discover many acquaintances . A true friend is someone who is there for us throughout our lives. Someone we can trust to give us honest opinions, even when we are wrong, perhaps we are right. 

Sep 28, 2025 11:02 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Wanda,  I am big on my to do list everyday even on my day off.  Always thrill to see your blogs my friend.

 

Sep 28, 2025 11:41 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! anything accomplishment is meaningless, if we do not have others to share and enjoy it with.

Sep 28, 2025 11:47 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

People will come into our lives for a reason, a season or for life, Hannah Williams. Am so thankful for the 'lifers'!

Sep 28, 2025 02:24 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Writing it down is a good habit, Will Hamm. I get more accomplished that way!

Sep 28, 2025 02:25 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

The circle of friends continues to get smaller as I get older, George Souto and I am ok with that. Sincerity and thoughtfulness matters!

Sep 28, 2025 02:29 PM
Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

Thanks Wanda for definition of belonging!!!

Belonging means feeling connected, appreciated and loved for who we are. It’s found in close friendships, family bonds, or communities where we feel at home.

Sep 28, 2025 02:39 PM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Wanda- you are so right. When you feel like you belong, whether to a family or group of friends, you feel anchored...in a good way. 

Sep 28, 2025 05:13 PM
Dennis Neal
Exp Realty of Southern California, Inc. - Big Bear Lake, CA
Your Home Sold in 21 Days or We Sell It For Free

Hello, Wanda. That is a truly powerful message that resonates deeply, especially in our high-paced industry! You're absolutely right: our ultimate goal in real estate is helping clients find a home where that crucial sense of belonging can truly take root. The community and sincere relationships are the real "luxury amenities" that buyers are actually searching for. Thank you for the thoughtful perspective!

Sep 28, 2025 05:20 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Goo evening Wanda,

I love your post! I agree real joy lies in sincere relationships. I've always found that people come into our lives for a reason, a season or for life and we need to make sure we capture the moments.

Sep 28, 2025 05:23 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Makes me happy that you appreciate this post, Sham Reddy CRS! Thank you for stopping by.

Sep 28, 2025 06:03 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Am appreciative of sincere relationships, Kathy Streib. Of course, Mike and I are still having fun because we enjoy each other's company and belong together!

Sep 28, 2025 06:11 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Helping people feel at home is so important in our industry, Dennis Neal. Am always happy to help with that!

Sep 28, 2025 06:13 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Absolutely true, Dorie Dillard Austin TX. Making those moments count is important and gives us memories to fondly look back on!

Sep 28, 2025 06:15 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Being too busy can keep belonging/others at bay. Happiness might come from feeling productive, but even more comes from healthy and fulfilling relationships.

Sep 29, 2025 05:39 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I look forward to interacting with others in the Rain on a daily basis, although there doesn't seem to be as much activity as there once was, haha.  I keep hoping that some newbies will come along and join the fray!

Sep 29, 2025 05:55 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Most of us have felt he pull of busy work days but also know that relationships need tended to as well. Some fail to realize that, Kat Palmiotti!

Sep 29, 2025 06:56 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Many people have moved away from the platform for their own reasons, some through death, lack of interest or have retired. Like you, Brian England, I still enjoy interacting, though life sometimes happens and other things take precedence.

Sep 29, 2025 07:16 AM
Kelly McGovern
Realty Concierge International - Bellingham, MA
Working with Kelly is a good move

Relationships are so important!  That's why it's crucial to nurture them often.  I don't know what I'd do without my family and good friends❤️

Sep 30, 2025 09:58 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

All relationships need a semblance of balance, a give and take, you might say or they will suffer, Kelly McGovern. Best to put your best effort forward!

Sep 30, 2025 06:38 PM