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Tuesday's Thoughts: The Key: Don't Let The Old Man In

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THE KEY: Don’t Let the Old Man In

 

The music of the late Toby Keith is usually on in the Streib home. It’s hard for me to list a favorite. However, as I approach another rotation of the earth around the sun, there is one song that sums up how I’m living my life. 

 

 

Keith was playing golf with Clint Eastwood, who at that time was 88 and working on his film, The Mule. When he remarked how much energy Clint had, Mr. Eastwood replied, “I don’t let the old man in.” 

                              

Toby wrote the song, and it was included in the movie. 

 

It never occurs to me that I am the age I am. I’ve told my family that if I’m injured in an accident or mugged, don’t let the papers say “Elderly woman, 76, is mugged in parking lot.” 

 

When I catch myself in the mirror, I am often taken aback at who’s staring back at me. Conversely, in looking at older photos of me, I wonder who the much younger girl in the picture is.

 

Just a few years ago, I rolled down hills with my grandsons. I haven’t lately because…they’re too old!

 

I wish I had a magic pill to take and give to everyone. All I can offer is…

 

-Forget about how old your license says you are

-Have young people and children in your life

-Learn something new every day

-Do NOT let anyone tell you you’re old

- Keep moving

-DON’T LET THE OLD MAN (OR WOMAN) IN


Growing old is mandatory, but growing up is optional.
Walt Disney

 

None are so old as those who have outlived enthusiasm. 

Henry David Thoreau

 

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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Kathy - I may not immediately recognize a Toby Keith hit-or-not.   That's kinda typical for me as identifying songs is not something normally found in my wheelhouse.  Recognizing that face in the mirror can be difficult for multiple reasons.  I blame that occurrence on varying levels of denial.  A quote from Dr Seuss comes to mind - how did it get so late, so soon.  

Sep 30, 2025 04:45 AM
Kathy Streib

Michael Jacobs that is the perfect quote!!! You can count on Dr. Seuss

Sep 30, 2025 05:51 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Oh my gosh, it's so true. I don't feel my age either and I hope the same is true when I'm in my late 70s. Learning new things, meeting new people, enjoying the people you're with - it all helps keep us young.

Sep 30, 2025 04:48 AM
Kathy Streib

Trust me Kat Palmiotti you will always stay young. You and Anthony keep busy and keep learning. 

Sep 30, 2025 05:53 PM
Kat Palmiotti

Thank you!

Oct 01, 2025 04:49 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Tuesday morning, Kathy. Think positively and have an outstanding week.

Sep 30, 2025 04:53 AM
Kathy Streib

Roy Kelley always trying to do so!!! Hello to Chef Dolores.

Sep 30, 2025 05:54 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Kathy... I like to say that age is just a number and that mine is unlisted. I must admit there are times when I am shocked to think about my current age.

Sep 30, 2025 05:21 AM
Kathy Streib

Nina Hollander, Broker You and I don't think about our age...we just keep going!!!  

Sep 30, 2025 05:54 PM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Kathy Streib like the proverbial energizer bunny!

Oct 01, 2025 05:23 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. I agree with Henry David Thoreau and although I may move a bit slower these days I am still moving and still pondering daily. A great post for those of us blessed with older age. Let many think about this with your urging as a feature in BananTudes this morning. Congrats!

 

Sep 30, 2025 05:43 AM
Kathy Streib

Thank you Wayne Martin I love the thought behind that song!!!  Your grandchildren are helping to keep you young. 

Sep 30, 2025 05:55 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

If we eat properly, the old man will not get in, haha.  I like the mention of Toby Keith since in college I wanted a change in music because the station I listened to played the same songs over and over again.  His song, I should have been a cowboy lead me to start listening to country for a bit, haha.

Sep 30, 2025 06:15 AM
Kathy Streib

Brian England I grew up on country here in Houston. What I love about Toby Keith's songs is that his lyrics tell a great story. 

Sep 30, 2025 05:57 PM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Kathy, We saw a tribute for him about a month ago and was impressed by his songs and the words put to music. We are now fans!

Sep 30, 2025 07:03 AM
Kathy Streib

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 I think I saw that tribute. You can listen to his songs and understand his lyrics. I have his songs on all of the time. 

Sep 30, 2025 05:57 PM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

I had not heard that Clint Eastwood story before. I am also not a country music fan...I do love that song I ain't as good as I once was.   :)

Sep 30, 2025 07:38 AM
Kathy Streib

Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty oh my gosh, that's one of my favorites!!!  I also love Red Solo Cup!!!

Sep 30, 2025 05:58 PM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Kathy Streib  Age is just a number, and you are only as old as you feel. My Mother used to say that she looked in the mirror and an old lady looked back at her. She ran out of the room, went back in, and looked again; that same old lady was still looking back at her. That is when she realized it was her own image staring back at her. 

Happy Birthday, my dear friend. Remember, you are only as old as you feel 

Sep 30, 2025 08:07 AM
Kathy Streib

Hannah Williams I love the story of your mom. Thank you so much, friend!!!!!

Sep 30, 2025 05:59 PM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

There are two ages, your age that you have lived, and the age you feel or believe you are. Some of us are still teenagers at heart and live as such. Others, feel old and act as such.

Sep 30, 2025 08:21 AM
Kathy Streib

Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543 I like that...two ages. I know I'm still young at heart and don't feel my age at all. 

Sep 30, 2025 06:00 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Kathy I don't run as fast or jump as high, but I can still outwork many people much younger than me.  ☺️☺️☺️

Sep 30, 2025 01:55 PM
Kathy Streib

George Souto I bet you can!!!   Now you're working hard for your local government. 

Sep 30, 2025 06:01 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Happy Birthday Kathy!   What a fabulous birthday post!  I love it!  Age is just a number, not who you are......for sure!  Love the Toby Keith song and the video......very moving. I had lunch today with two  'youngsters' who are in their mid plus 80's and you'd never know it.  They are so much fun.   Like you!!!

 

Sep 30, 2025 04:51 PM
Kathy Streib

Anna "Banana" Kruchten love the picture!!!!  The people across the street are our age and act 15 or 20 years older.   We have to keep going and not let the old person in. 

Sep 30, 2025 06:03 PM
Patricia Feager
Currently inactive - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Happy Birthday Kathy Streib - I've seen you on Zoom. You don't look as old as you are. 

May you continue to live a long and healthy life with the love of your life. 

This blob post went straight to my heart. Count your blessings. You're not alone. 

Sep 30, 2025 09:06 PM
Kathy Streib

Patricia Feager Thank you so much!!! And look at you...still taking classes!!! I went straight through college and grad school and to this day I have nightmares about going back to school and having no idea what I'nm doing. 

Oct 01, 2025 06:37 PM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

That's a truly wonderful and powerful motto to live by, Kathy Streib! The Clint Eastwood quote is absolutely spot on, and it’s so important to remember that enthusiasm is the key to never letting the "old man" in. Thank you for sharing such a great, inspiring message today!

Oct 01, 2025 04:39 AM
Kathy Streib

Thank you Lew Corcoran that short phrase makes so much sense, doesn't it!!!!

Oct 01, 2025 06:37 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Oh how I can relate....to all of it.

LOVE Toby and love that song. But it never fails to bring tears to my eyes.

Yes, we are fighting the day that old man/woman gets in...they certainly seem closer each day.

Oct 02, 2025 07:53 AM