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When Other Forces Know What to do to Get your Attention

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When Other Forces Know What to do to Get your Attention

The Monthly Challenges on ActiveRain are a throwback to the early days when the platform was not only trying to teach us how to blog but also generating activity to increase its numbers.

There were also the Rain Camps, which were high-powered presentations that afforded great presentations and a chance to meet Rainers in person.

The Raincamps are not likely to ever happen again for a number of reasons.

What was spooky was the Cloud where my photos are stored sent me a memory jog.

Up came a photo taken at RainCamp in Washington, DC, showing myself standing next to Lenn Harley and Pat Kennedy

This was a special Camp as they platform was honoring the first 1,000,000-point member in Lenn Harley 

For so many years, Lenn was THE blog expert on the platform, and a staunch defender of copyright infringement. In fact, I got a call from her one day asking about a photo I had used in a blog. It was a photo that she had made specifically for one of her posts and I had gotten a copy of it off of one of the online clipart sites.

Yes, I had given it acknowledgement, but Lenn wanted details as she was getting legal involved.

As happens when we talk to fellow Rainers, conversation is easy and flows and of course there are references to other bloggers and their styles.

I did go into the social sites and saw that as recently as 2022 someone had posted on her Facebook page that Lenn is fine but no longer gets onto her computer.

A few other Rainers came up in the archives, and I recently reached out to one of them to wish them a Happy Birthday. The Cary, Apex area of North Carolina features many homes with unique roof adornments.

This is a post put together due to the universe reminding the writer that even though the life is hectic, ActiveRain was an integral part of the business before tossing in the towel.  

This is also written for the September challenge hosted by Bob Timm and Leanne Smith.

When Other Forces Know What to do to Get your Attention

 

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Edward (Ed) Silva

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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Hi Ed... interesting choice of words "throwing in the towel." I might be getting my own towel ready.

Sep 30, 2025 10:41 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Nina Hollander, Broker lately I seem to have lost the ability to make lemonade

Sep 30, 2025 10:48 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Ed I have pictures pop up regularly.  Sometimes I just sit there looking at the date the photo was taken, and say WOW has it been that long???

Sep 30, 2025 12:30 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

George Souto  that photo had me searching a lot of the early adventures part of which included you and Valerie

Oct 01, 2025 03:02 AM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

Good post with great information. Thanks for sharing it. Have a super fantastic week! Bill 

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Arizona Veterans Helping Veterans #AZVHV

Sep 30, 2025 12:31 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Thanks for stopping even though you didn't read it GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore 

Oct 01, 2025 03:03 AM
Hannah Williams
HomeStarr Realty - Philadelphia, PA
Expertise NE Philadelphia & Bucks 215-820-3376

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754  I remember getting a call from Lenn Harley for using one of her pictures. I told her I was sorry and I took it down we became friends as she explained her position ,Patricia Kennedy  told me I was very lucky as  she was not like that. Good post Ed 

Sep 30, 2025 12:33 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Hannah Williams   I wrote a blog about that call titled taken to the woodshed by Lenn, but for some reason can't find it.

Oct 01, 2025 03:04 AM
Joan Cox, Retired Broker/Owner
Denver, CO
Enjoying Every Day to Its Fullest!

Ed, gosh, Lenn hasn't been on AR for a long time, but I knew her while I was taking my e-Pro designation.    She was so knowledgeable.   As you know, I am actively working on throwing in the towel!  LOL

Sep 30, 2025 01:01 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Joan Cox  There are a lot of AR towels that are starting to get warmed-up

Oct 01, 2025 03:06 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Apex Realtors, LLC ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
Educating. Encouraging. Serving.

Good evening Ed,

I love Lynn Harley and miss her..thanks for a great post bringing back some great memories!

Sep 30, 2025 04:57 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Dorie Dillard Austin TX   there were a lot of special people that posted to AR early on and helped so many of us with their knowledge

Oct 01, 2025 03:07 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Hi Ed, I was scared to death of Lenn when I first started blogging. But I called her about something and it was the first of many phone calls. I cannot tell you how much I miss her presence here. And, there are many others I miss as well. This is such a unique platform/community. 

Sep 30, 2025 07:23 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Kathy Streib She had a commanding presence, even on the phone. Her knowledge was extensive and she was a very kind person as well.

Oct 01, 2025 03:08 AM
Patricia Feager
Appraisal Review Board, Denton County, TX - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 - I really enjoyed reading your blog post very much. I'm just sorry I didn't get on AR in the beginning. I wanted to! The person I asked, did not help me.

Were you on today's ZOOM meeting? I wasn't there but a few who did attend started writing blog posts abouts what they learned from Bob "RealMan" Timm podcast instructions.

After reading Kat and Nick's blog posts about podcasts, I think you have all the makings of knowledge and expertise to create an amazing AR Podcast about your humble beginnings on AR with Pat Kennedy and Lenn Harley! I would be all ears!!!

Sep 30, 2025 08:35 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Patricia Feager   The platform has changed considerably from the beginning, and most of that may be contributed to the reality of people moving on .

There are still many here that offer assistance and help others and if people use the site the way current bots roam, it can still help garnish business.

My time know needs to focus away from real estate buy I still like to dip my toes into the waters of the social side here.

Oct 01, 2025 03:01 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm

Thank you for the mention Patricia Feager , I really enjoyed the meeting and hope to attend more in the future.

Oct 01, 2025 06:22 AM
Patricia Feager

Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 - I became a member in 2010 and never regretted my decision. I have been helped many times. Lenn and Kennedy were still on AR at the time. 

Oct 01, 2025 06:26 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Ed - things of many, maybe most, sorts continue to change.  That's certainly true throughout ActiveRainLand.  This post highlights some fond memories/  

Oct 01, 2025 03:35 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Michael Jacobs I had a big smile when that photo first came up and it made me search for her.

Oct 05, 2025 04:32 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

That’s such a cool way for the universe to get your attention, Ed Silva, 203-206-0754, with that great throwback photo from the D.C. RainCamp! It’s a wonderful reminder that ActiveRain's history and the people we met are truly an integral part of our business journey. I absolutely love that story about Lenn Harley calling you over the photo!

Oct 01, 2025 04:57 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Lew Corcoran   all things for a reason even if it's to jog the memory to write a post.

Oct 05, 2025 04:30 AM
Kat Palmiotti
Kalispell, MT
Montana is the place to be

Good morning! I do get memories that pop up on Facebook from time to time and it's amazing how long as passed and/or who I was with/what I was doing. I enjoy seeing them.

Oct 01, 2025 05:29 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Kat Palmiotti  what it did for me is to nudge memories and give me reason to reach out to some of the others that were early leaders here,

Oct 05, 2025 04:29 AM
Bob "RealMan" Timm
Ward County Notary Services - Minot, ND
Owner of Ward Co Notary Services retired RE Broker

Good morning Ed Silva, 203-206-0754 and thank you for your contribution to the September Challenge. I remember the early days as well and how I scrambled to get to the top of the North Dakota leaderboard. It seemed a daunting task but pretty soon I was there and it seems like everyone else in ND quit blogging altogether.

 

Ps. You should add a link into the body of your post to the challenge page. If you tag us (the hosts) we know much faster that you entered.

Oct 01, 2025 06:28 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Bob "RealMan" Timm  with the transitions a lot of the strong bloggers lost their mojo here. The change caused a lot of strength to get lost as well.

Many are finding opportunities to come back occasionally, but  time goes on, the early members are jut retiring nd moving on.

Oct 05, 2025 04:28 AM
Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

Glad the Cosmos inspired you. Thank you for your entry into this month's challenge. I appreciate sharing some of the early beginnings of this forum.

Oct 01, 2025 06:40 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Leanne Smith   It seemed ironic that that photo would pop up as I am thinking of how I might get into the challenge.

It also gave me a chance t reach out to the other Rainer in the post, who didn't get as much attention

Oct 05, 2025 04:26 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I have always found it a bit scary that our memories pop up for us on the computer, but I have to admit that I enjoy them at times, haha.

Oct 01, 2025 07:06 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Brian England   it's October, a lot of strange things happen in this month

Oct 05, 2025 04:24 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Oct 04, 2025 06:00 PM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754

Thank you for the recognition, Kathy Streib  as this old mind starts to ramble.

Oct 05, 2025 04:23 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Ed. As far as being active in real estate my towel got tossed into the ring long ago. As for here in the Rain, have toyed with throwing in the towel, but not ready yet. And I guess the cloud says wait because I keep getting memory reminders of things I don't readily remember. Enjoy your day.

Oct 05, 2025 05:41 AM
Leanne Smith

And I hope you don't throw in the towel as I enjoy your trivia as well as wisdom comments. 

Oct 08, 2025 08:22 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

I somehow missed the September challenge. Liked your post and the memories as well. I remember Lenn when I first started on here.

Oct 05, 2025 07:25 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!

I missed it as well, Nick! Had intention to do it and then other things took over.

Oct 05, 2025 06:24 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Looking back to when I finally had the nerve to post made me thankful and grateful for those who were already here, posting and educating and sometimes, involved in a heated debate. Lenn was one of my favorite people here becuae she was straight forward and shared with the ones who wanted to learn.

Keep squeezing those lemons, Ed. Eventually, there will be enough to make a tasty, lip smacking drink!

Oct 05, 2025 06:24 PM
Jan Green - Scottsdale, AZ
Value Added Service, 602-620-2699 - Scottsdale, AZ
HomeSmart Elite Group, REALTOR®, EcoBroker, GREEN

Those reminders are wonderful when its' my grandkids past photos popping up!  The automatic posts on FB after I visit a website are frustrating!  Too much technology is not always welcome!  I do remember Lenn from way back.  I never spoke with her, but read MANY of her posts.  Thanks to her I understood the copyright of photos so I never borrow someone else's.  I produce my own or now use ChatGPT for those.  Sometimes it takes a lot of tweaking, but it's a great source.  

Oct 06, 2025 10:15 AM