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Never Throw Rocks At An Alligator

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Never Throw Rocks At An Alligator

Real estate transactions can become tedious, especially when the other side drops the ball, creating undue stress. Missing timelines? That can be the death of an under-contract status. Ignoring the looming financing deadline can tank the contract. When paperwork lapses, it means trouble's brewing.

Several other frustrating mistakes like; using outdated forms, forgoing the verification of funds, missing signatures and dates, boxes left unchecked, misspelled names, add to the mix. Failing to include which items are included in the sale, such as appliances, specific fixtures, can lead to misunderstandings.

When associates put their own interests in front of their clients, it's a fiduciary breach. It’s thought-less to leave on vacation without a head's up, then forgetting to hand over paperwork to a fellow agent. Calling the broker because messages go unanswered, no return calls or email response is the solution.

The day the Due Diligence period is set to expire, a long list of repairs is requested in an addendum, giving the seller no time to get bids on remediation. The sellers refuse to sign the addendum. The listing agent calls, the buyer's agent, in between sips of a margarita while lounging on the beach, snaps, "Tell them to sign it!"

My advice: Stay to the professional side. Biting your tongue stings and you might fantasize about sharp words but you’ll likely cross paths again. As the saying goes, "Never throw stones at an alligator because you might have to swim in the same stream again!"

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Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Your point is well taken, Liz and Bill Spear. People want to be a part of what makes both parties successful and that is putting the client first and being professional through the process. Yes to that!

Oct 10, 2025 06:45 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Putting your best self forward every day in life has its rewards and attracting like-kind people is just natural, Kathy Streib. I also know that tough transactions happen and we must use tolerance and mindfulness for our clients, to get through it, for their sake!

Oct 10, 2025 06:50 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

I never heard that saying before but it definitely is appropriate. There are so many things that can go wrong in a transaction, and yes, sometimes it is definitely due to the agent on the other side. And while addressing the issues as they come up is a must (i.e., contacting a broker, dealing with ridiculous demands), doing so in a way that won't ruin future deals is a helpful skill to have.

Oct 11, 2025 04:33 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

Excellent advice, Wanda. 

Oct 11, 2025 06:20 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

That is very good advice!  I know that Barbara Todaro doesn't like alligators, but I think Kathy Streib has been known to play with them when she was in Florida, haha.

Oct 11, 2025 06:33 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

I get so many who wait right up until the end of the inspection period to present their "offer"

My remedy...which I discuss with my clients...do not answer. Force the buyer agent to call and ask for an answer before it expires. Tell them they will likely need to ask for a one or two day extension because THEY did not leave us time to get costs. If they cannot get you an extension in time, the repair period expires. 

Oct 11, 2025 07:01 AM
Chris Lima
Turtle Reef Realty - Port St Lucie, FL
Local or Global-Allow me to open doors for you.

Hello Wanda,

This analogy is spot on and your high road mindset is exactly what buyers, sellers, renters, investors etc. deserve.  KUDOS!

Oct 11, 2025 07:27 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Hello, Miss Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can! - Life is a journey of learning and acquiring wisdom. These days I find myself saying less, if anything at all ... and just listen, take it all in, and take notes. People will eventually show us who they really are. 

Oct 11, 2025 01:32 PM
Alan May
Jameson Sotheby's International Realty - Evanston, IL
Home again, home again...

That's not a phrase I'm familiar with, but they are wise words, nonetheless.

Oct 11, 2025 02:49 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

We are all at risk of making honest mistakes but when it  becomes contagious on the other side, that spells T-R-O-U-B-L-E, Kat Palmiotti. Not something I even consider dabbling in!

Oct 11, 2025 06:50 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Thank you, Carol Williams. Past experience is speaking in this post!

Oct 11, 2025 07:02 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

If you're ever going to wrestle an alligator, make sure it is well fed right before the production begins, Brian England! I just made that up...

Oct 11, 2025 07:22 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

So much is riding on being effective and allowing adequate time to respond to alterations of a contract, the least an agent can do is to be considerate, Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty. Most do that, thankfully!

Oct 11, 2025 07:28 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Imagine how the industry would thrive if everyone had that mindset, Chris Lima. I'm all for that, if only!

Oct 11, 2025 07:53 PM
Chris Lima

AMEN!!

Oct 12, 2025 06:33 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

We all started somewhere but the goal was to improve through time and experience to serve clients well, Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist. Some forgot to read the memo!

Oct 11, 2025 07:55 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

It does say a lot, Alan May! Some industries are one-and-done. Ours is repetitive, within a smallish, geological area, where we may do business with the same person many times over a period of time.

Oct 11, 2025 08:00 PM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

That’s just like tempting feats  to just eat you alive and spit out your bones, you know?

Oct 11, 2025 11:59 PM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

There are no guarantees, Laura Cerrano! Instead of swimming, it's smart to go boating in alligator-infested waters. At least, there's a barrier between you and them!

Oct 12, 2025 06:54 AM
Virginia Hepp - Mesquite NV REALTOR
Desert Gold Realty - Mesquite NV Homes For Sale - Mesquite, NV
Mesquite NV Homes and Neighborhoods - Search MLS

And alligators never forget!  Wait, that is elephants.

Yes, you have to pay attention.

Oct 12, 2025 11:12 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Some of us agent’s keep notes and rightfully so,  Virginia Hepp - Mesquite NV REALTOR!

Oct 12, 2025 04:56 PM