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Cooking for One, the Mediterranean Way

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You don’t have to cook fancy or complicated masterpieces, just good food from fresh ingredients.”  -Julia Child

I was disappointed to miss the Zoom presentation that John Henry, Florida Architect gave on Tuesday about the Mediterranean way of eating. 

Inspired by the reactions to the meeting and an old post I found that John wrote, I’ve decided it’s time to re-evaluate my approach to food and nutrition. As some of you know, cooking for one since being widowed has been a challenge for me. Thank you Kat Palmiotti for the Cooking For One cookbook. ❤️

I'm not good with a rigid diet, but leaning into a mostly Mediterranean-inspired lifestyle would probably do me good. 

My goal is simple: better overall health. The Mediterranean way seems to check all the right boxes. It’s full of heart-healthy fats, lean proteins, whole grains, fruits, and vegetables. It’s not about what I can’t have, but instead about what I get to enjoy.

I’ve made peace with the fact that I’m not going to whip up gourmet dinners, but I can make smarter, simpler choices. Homemade soups are my go-to. They’re comforting, packed with protein and vegetables, and can stretch into several meals. I know I don't eat enough salad, and I'm not really sure why, since I like salads of all kinds. 

The biggest challenge isn’t the food itself. It’s a mindset.  Prepping and cooking “just for me” has been a challenge. I'm not sure why. I don't mind chopping veggies or cleaning up afterward, so what's the problem? I guess it’s a psychological block of some kind. 

When I eat out, I tend to order something that will make great leftovers. Unfortunately, that doesn’t always translate into the healthiest choice. So maybe my next step is to look at takeout with a new perspective. If I can make it at home, fresher and lighter, I might enjoy it even more.

The Mediterranean approach seems like a nice change.  I'll try to be more mindful of my choices, especially when eating out. 

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Patricia Feager
Referral Specialist - DFW FINE PROPERTIES - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Hi Carol Williams - Cooking and shopping for groceries for one has been my biggest challenge too! You were lucky that Kat Palmiotti blessed you with a cooking for one recipe book. You have made such a great impact on everyone on ActiveRain and you have a good heart. 

Oct 19, 2025 01:06 AM
Carol Williams

Hi Patricia Feager 
It sounds easy enough. We'll see how it goes. 

Oct 19, 2025 06:56 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Carol. My wife is Italian and cooking for two is a challenge, can't imagine just one. That said, we to are focusing on healthier eating. My biggest challenge is to put down the utensils and saying enough. Enjoy your day.

Oct 19, 2025 05:06 AM
Carol Williams

Hi Wayne Martin 
One thing I'm good at is putting the fork down when I am full. I rarely finish a meal when I eat out. 

Oct 19, 2025 06:57 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I adhered to the Mediterranean diet for a bit a while back, and found it to be helpful for cooking for one, as I would make large quantities of minestrone soup, haha.

Oct 19, 2025 05:17 AM
Carol Williams

Hi Brian England 
I always have homemade soup in my refrigerator and freezer (in individual serving containers). It's a healthy, easy go-to meal.

Oct 19, 2025 06:58 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Carol... it is very much about mindset. And I applaud your new mindset. As for me, my mindset is to eat what I like and in moderation.

Oct 19, 2025 05:44 AM
Eileen Burns 954.483.3912

I agreed to Nina and Carol.  Variety is the spice of life.😎

Oct 20, 2025 08:39 AM
Carol Williams

I'm pretty much the same way, Nina Hollander, Broker 
My M.O. is to only eat when I'm actually hungry, remember my stomach is only as big as my fist, and get some exercise each day.  Mostly, I just need to add more salads to my diet.

Oct 19, 2025 07:01 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Thank you for the mention! For some reason, I find salads seem to taste better when eaten out. It doesn't make sense, but that's just the way it is!

Oct 19, 2025 06:30 AM
Carol Williams

That must be it, Kat Palmiotti 😊

Oct 19, 2025 07:02 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Sunday morning, Carol. All of us need to opt for healthy food selections. I have to watch my weight and check it every morning.

Oct 19, 2025 07:23 AM
Carol Williams

Hi Roy Kelley 
Some people are very disciplined in how they eat. I can be, but as long as I am active, I do ok eating pretty much what I want in moderation. I do want to add more salads to my diet, though.

Oct 19, 2025 08:22 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Carol - regardless of method, food preparation for one can be challenging. It seems you are facing it well.

Oct 19, 2025 07:38 AM
Carol Williams

Thanks, Michael Jacobs 
So far my health issues have not been related to how I eat, but it doesn't mean I can't do better! 😂

Oct 19, 2025 08:23 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Carol Williams ,

Cooking for one is a challenge but I have to admit eating more the Mediterranean way makes it easier! Having on hand salad makings, fruits and vegetables, nuts, yogurt and cooking with olive oil makes things easier.

Oct 19, 2025 08:01 AM
Carol Williams

You're right, Dorie Dillard Austin TX 
And, I always have fish in my freezer, thanks to my fishing cousins. 

Oct 19, 2025 08:23 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Happy Sunday Carol and I try to eat healthy and small portions and have something left over for lunch the next day.

 

Oct 19, 2025 08:40 AM
Carol Williams

Me too, Will Hamm 
My weakness is that I love bread and pastries. I do try to eat the in moderation. 🤨

Oct 19, 2025 08:55 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Hi, Carol Williams I hear you on cooking for one. My solution is when I make soup, which I do frequently during the colder months, is to make a big batch and freeze individual servings. 

Same with salads, I can premake three and they will not go bad in the refrigerator - the dressing is added just before eating. 

Generally, one day a week, I have a "food prep" day, so I am good to go for the week. 

Rarely do I eat out. 

Oct 19, 2025 08:51 AM
Carol Williams

Hi Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist 
I always have individual servings of homemade soup in my freezer at home. I need to get a batch made now that I am settled in AZ for the winter.  Other than soups, I'm not very good about prep ahead food. I do always have fish and chicken in the freezer, though.  As for salads, I always ask for dressing on the side when I eat out. I don't like much dressing on my salads. 

Oct 19, 2025 08:57 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Carol! This is such a heartfelt and relatable post — thank you for sharing it. Reframing the idea of “cooking for one” into “caring for one” is such a beautiful mindset shift. The Mediterranean lifestyle feels like the perfect fit — it’s flexible, flavorful and focused on nourishment rather than restriction. You’ve got the right attitude and those homemade soups sound like a delicious start!

Oct 19, 2025 09:51 AM
Carol Williams

Thanks, Debe Maxwell, CRS.
I need to get a batch of homemade soup made now that I'm settled in Yuma for a few months. 😊

Oct 19, 2025 02:54 PM
Tina Hannaford
Berkshire Hathaway Florida Realty - Sarasota, FL
Listing Agent - Luxury Collection Specialist

I was told by a natural path to start a Mediterranean diet. Hard to do though, as I always want carbs!! 😬

Oct 19, 2025 10:11 AM
Carol Williams

Hi Tina Hannaford 
I love carbs too. I try to limit them. 

Oct 19, 2025 02:55 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Hey Carol seems to me anytime you've been here you eat pretty healthy and not that much either!  I do get the mindset shift - caring for one is a nice way of shifting it.  I'm into homemade soups too. In fact I'm making one today.  Enjoy Yuma!  

Oct 19, 2025 10:23 AM
Carol Williams

Yes, Anna "Banana" Kruchten 
I don't eat a lot at any one time. I need to make some homemade soup now that I'm settled in Yuma for a few months. I bought some serving individual freezer containers today. 

Oct 19, 2025 02:57 PM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Carol, cooking for one is a challenge, and boring!   I make a lot of chicken in my tiny crockpot, which holds only 2 pieces, and usually one is a leftover.   I don't make many salads either, but because I hate the prep work.   They now have prepared salads, but I have been added olive oil and red wine vinegar to it versus the dressing it comes with.

Oct 19, 2025 01:11 PM
Carol Williams

Hi Joan Cox 
I tend to buy those packaged salads too. It's nice to have a variety. I usually don't use much of the dressing. 

Oct 19, 2025 02:58 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Carol Williams John did a great job with his presentation and made some good suggestions on how we can eat healthier last Tuesday

Oct 19, 2025 05:35 PM
Carol Williams

Hi George Souto 
I was disappointed to miss John's presentation. I'm sure it was excellent. Sometime back, I actually bought a Mediterranean Diet cookbook, but I don't have it with me here in AZ. Darn it.

Oct 20, 2025 09:03 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

This post hit home in the gentlest way, Carol Williams. Thank you for sharing such honest reflections and practical wisdom. It’s a beautiful reminder that nourishment isn’t just about food, it’s about caring for ourselves in small, meaningful ways. Your words made the Mediterranean mindset feel both doable and inviting.

Oct 20, 2025 08:56 AM
Carol Williams

Hi Lew Corcoran 
It's very doable. I just need to commit to doing it! 😊

Oct 20, 2025 09:03 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

HI Carol- I hear you!!!  I know that in our local H-E-B there is a growing section of prepared foods and they look good!  I know what you mean about salads. I used to really hate making them, even though I like them. But I learned a better way to store the veggies to keep them fresh. I will often prep by putting my dressing in a large bowl first, then layering the veggies, and finally the greens. Then I toss it when I'm ready. 

 

Oct 20, 2025 07:04 PM
Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

I do LOVE to come home from a restaurant with leftovers!

Oct 22, 2025 09:12 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
Southern Utah's Preferred Real Estate Agent.

Homemade meals are so much healthier and you know exactly what's in the recipe, Carol. Soups are so easy and can be frozen for future lunches or dinners!

Oct 22, 2025 06:24 PM