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Sometimes Life Happens

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Real Estate Agent with Dirt Road Real Estate SA676002000

For several decades my health has been very good to exceptional. No major health issues. No doctor ordered prescriptions.

Unfortunately, sometimes life happens and things change.  Since mid-August 2025 I have been experiencing not the best of health. Nothing really significantly serious, but for me who has been quite active, serious enough. My health care provider believes I was exposed to long term COVID as I have the many of the symptoms. I do not believe in COVID tests due to my cynical nature. 

On top of that “great” news, after five plus decades of typing, my wrists decided to suddenly to hurt and the diagnosis was carpel tunnel. I am in the process of meeting with the surgeon which is another long and boring story. Add in seeing double that was due to a new glass prescription that was not accurate, only added to the sometimes life happens.

Finally during the first four weeks of the “COVID” exposure, I was not eating and not taking in the necessary protein.  Failure to take in protein I learned resulted in the continued pain in my arms to legs muscles.  That pain has been reduced to only the legs.  I learned it will take up to four to five months if I ingest at least 70-85 grams of protein on a daily basis. One benefit of this lack of appetite is that I have lost 22 pounds.  And the good news is that I am keeping it off. Yippee

Yes, sometimes life happens and we are not prepare for all the changes that accompany the happening. For  me, this has meant:

  • Reducing my work commitments and schedule
  • Reducing the time on the computer typing hence why I have not been blogging here on Active Rain
  • Taking breaks
  • Changing my dietary habits and requirements.

Probably the most important lesson learned when sometimes life happens is realizing what you are currently encountering is far less than someone with cancer, someone who lost his or her business or home to floods. 

Keeping one’s perspective Is essential when

sometimes life happens.

Hopefully as time moves forward these sometimes life happens experiences will bring me back physically and mentally to where I was or close to where I was.  I am grateful that I have the opportunity to move forward and I believe my faith has been a strong partner with me during the last two months.

“Perspective is everything when you are experiencing the challenge of life.”

Joni Eareckson Tada

“Life is about perspective and how you look at something…ultimately you have to zoom out.”

Whitney wolfe Herd

“Faith gives you an inner strength and a sense of balance and perspective in life.”

Gregory Peck

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Leanne M Smith, The Grit and Gratitude Agent Who Goes the Extra Mile Because Life Begins Where the Pavement Ends.

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Leanne M. Smith, MS, GRI, rCRMS

2018 KGVAR Rookie Realtor of the Year-55+
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Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

Wish you feel better soon, I have been having some health problems as well, again nothing serious, but whenever pain rears it's head it can make life uncomfortable. I am sure you will be back to feeling stronger and healthier soon.

Oct 27, 2025 09:14 AM
Leanne Smith

Yes pain does raise its ugly head.  I am learning to deal with it and hopefully within a few months, the pain will be gone.  I also believe you too will back feeling stronger and healthier soon. 

Oct 27, 2025 12:00 PM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Leanne and I wish I could loose some more weight, I had back surgery back in 2021 and that worked for me but the older I get the more I have to take more pills

 

Oct 27, 2025 10:57 AM
Leanne Smith

Losing weigh is difficult the older one grows. Thankfully I still do not have to take any pills and I count that as a blessing. 

Oct 27, 2025 11:59 AM
GilbertRealtor BillSalvatore
Arizona Elite Properties - Chandler, AZ
Realtor - 602-999-0952 / em: golfArizona@cox.net

good post with great information. Thanks for sharing it. Bill

Have a fantastic week!

Bill Salvatore, Realtor- Arizona Elite Properties

Oct 27, 2025 11:55 AM
Leanne Smith

Thanks for stopping by and make it an exceptional week. 

Oct 27, 2025 11:58 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Oh Leanne I am so sorry to hear that it's been a rough road for you for sometime now.  Trust me, I so get this one. It's take true grit to get through these difficult times and knowing you that is going to happen. Everything is mind over matter - EVERYTHING. Easier said than done in some moments. You'll get there.....hang in there ❤️And if there is anything I can help you with here on AR just let me know.

Oct 27, 2025 01:47 PM
Leanne Smith

First Anna "Banana" Kruchten thank you for your most gracious offer. Yes mind over matter and "suck it up buttercup" often comes to mind.  Life is just a little better every day and I believe by the first of the year, I will be back to almost where I was in early August.  What I have learned is I must adjust my schedule and make time to rest. 

Oct 28, 2025 06:29 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Resting is a good idea.  I had to figure that one out too.  Hard at first, wasn't it.  When you're used to running at top speed!!  

Oct 29, 2025 09:56 AM
Kelly McGovern
Realty Concierge International - Bellingham, MA
Working with Kelly is a good move

Hoping you are feeling better.  I'm happy to see that you seem to have a good handle on your health again.  Life does happen!  Stay safe!

Oct 27, 2025 03:40 PM
Leanne Smith

Good morning Kelly McGovern and thank you for your most kind thoughts  I will stay safe and continue on this path toward improved health. 

Oct 28, 2025 06:27 AM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Leanne Smith unfortunately the "Golden Years" are sprinkled with a lot of pyrite along the way.

Oct 27, 2025 05:30 PM
Leanne Smith

Yes that "fool's gold" does happen as we age in our Golden Years. Good morning George Souto 

Oct 28, 2025 06:26 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Leanne- I am very sorry to read about the health issues you've had.  Were your ears burning?  I spoke to  Marte Cliff this evening and mentioned you. It had to do with your water sources. 

You are the second person I've heard recently discuss how important protein is in our diet. 

Stay the course and you'll get better every day. And on days when it gets tougher than you'd like...check in here and shout out for a boost! We'll give it to you!!!

Oct 27, 2025 06:20 PM
Leanne Smith

Kathy no I didn't hear my ears burning. As to protein, I wasn't aware of the side effects when not maintaining certain levels of protein.  My health provider said I need 180 grams on a daily basis which would return most of the lost weight.  Right now keeping the grams between 70-85 on a daily basis. The soreness of the muscles will hopefully end within the next 2-4 months as per my health care provider shared. 

Oct 28, 2025 06:25 AM
Jeff Masich-Scottsdale AZ Associate Broker,MBA,GRI
HomeSmart Real Estate - Scottsdale, AZ
Arizona Homes and Land Group/ Buy or Sell

May the Lord's blessings be with you Leanne. Thanks for sharing with us. Jeff

Oct 27, 2025 06:35 PM
Leanne Smith

Jeff, thank you for those blessings. You are more than welcome about the sharing. May you have an exceptional week. 

Oct 28, 2025 06:21 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Leanne... I was just thinking the other day that I hadn't see you around the Rain. So sorry to hear about all your health issues. I can totally relate. When you've been healthy and active all your life it's a shock to the system mentally and physically when activity is curtailed. After I had recovery issues from my two hip replacements in 2024, I was totally bummed. Hopefully you'll be back on your feet at full speed in no time.

Oct 28, 2025 04:27 AM
Leanne Smith

Good morning Nina Hollander, Broker and though I do not like to share personal issues, I wanted to let my fellow AR friends understand my absence as well as what I have learned from this unexpected "sometimes life happens." Thankfully so far my hips are OK and I am not looking to that type of surgery.  My potential forthcoming surgery will be carpel tunnel. So true about the shock to your mental thoughts.  I am continually repeating several thoughts to keep the positive mental attitude. 

Oct 28, 2025 06:21 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Leanne Smith sending you all the best wishes possible for a successful surgery and easy recovery.

Oct 28, 2025 08:01 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Leanne - each of our paths on the journey of life is filled with detours.  I hope your route to better health and a return to the track that is on a better direction is found quickly.  Your history underscores that you have a keen sense of navigating many things.  

Oct 28, 2025 04:30 AM
Leanne Smith

So appreciate your kind and encouraging words.  Staying aware of one's limitations while staying focused on the end results helps to move one forward. 

Oct 28, 2025 06:18 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

Good morning. I am sorry to hear about the health issues - they can definitely strike at any time, and change what our normal abilities are. Here's wishing you a short healing process.

Oct 28, 2025 05:18 AM
Leanne Smith

Thank you Kat Palmiotti for the warm wishes of better health. I believe it will improve and I have learned health improvement at this age in my life are not as quick as when I was much younger. 

Oct 28, 2025 06:16 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Leanne. Wondered why our paths were not crossing here in the Rain as much as before and now I know. May you recover from all your problems over time. Your attitude "sometimes life happens" has become clearer to me the older I get. Accepting it is difficult but no alternative available. You're a pure inspiration for the term "Attitude of gratitude". Enjoy your day. 

Oct 28, 2025 05:19 AM
Leanne Smith

Good morning Wayne and thank you for your caring comments. Yes getting older is not for the faint of heart. I continue to think "There I could be if not for the grace of the Father"

Oct 28, 2025 06:15 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

I am so sorry to hear that you have not been feeling well lately.  I will certainly say extra prayers for you.  I think that the thing you mention about changing your dietary habits will have the greatest effect on improving your health.  Since I have chosen a more holistic approach to my health, it has improved significantly.

Oct 28, 2025 06:52 AM
Leanne Smith

I appreciate your kind thoughts. Yes being aware and taking a new path is sometimes necessary as one ages.  What I could do years ago, I cannot do today. That is reality though it is hard sometimes to face that reality. 

Oct 28, 2025 07:03 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Thank you for sharing such a raw, honest glimpse into your journey, Leanne Smith. Your words remind us that healing isn’t always linear, and perspective really does shift everything. Wishing you continued strength and brighter days ahead 💛.

Oct 28, 2025 09:34 AM
Leanne Smith

Sometimes I believe sharing our challenges can help others.  Thank you for your comments as well. Good morning and enjoy your day.

Oct 29, 2025 04:09 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Leanne Smith ,

I'm sorry to hear this has happened to you and wishing you great success in the next months ahead to regaining your strength. Protein in your diet is so important, as well as perspective. I especially like the quote by Joni Eareckson Tada! 

Oct 30, 2025 06:41 AM
Leanne Smith

Appreciate the warm well wishes.  Health life is slowly returning to where it was.  I take each day as it comes. Yes I now realize the importance of protein. Good to read you enjoyed the quote. 

Oct 30, 2025 07:08 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Nov 01, 2025 06:40 PM
Leanne Smith

Good morning and thank you for the feature. 

Nov 02, 2025 08:50 AM
Laura Cerrano
Feng Shui Manhattan Long Island - Locust Valley, NY
Certified Feng Shui Expert, Speaker & Researcher

I feel this, Wayne. Life getting in the way of living is the story of most of our lives. It takes a lot of focused attention for me..

Nov 02, 2025 09:33 PM
Leanne Smith

I believe for most of us, it take a lot of focused attention to stay the course. Thank you for your comment. 

Nov 03, 2025 05:39 AM