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Aspirational Pricing: When Your Heart and the Market Don’t Match

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc 10307

Every seller wants to get the best price for their home. That’s natural — your home is full of memories, hard work, and improvements you’ve made along the way. Maybe you added a deck, remodeled the kitchen, or replaced the roof. You’ve invested time, money, and love, and it’s easy to believe the price should reflect all of that.

But here’s the truth: the market doesn’t price a home based on what you paid or what you’ve spent. It prices your home based on what buyers are willing to pay right now. That’s where aspirational pricing comes in.


What Is Aspirational Pricing?

Aspirational pricing occurs when sellers price their homes based on emotion or hope rather than current market data. It’s the “wishful thinking” price — the number that feels right in your heart, but not necessarily in today’s real estate reality.

When you list your home too high, buyers notice. They scroll right past your listing or decide it’s not worth touring. Even worse, a house that sits on the market too long can start to look stale, and buyers begin to wonder if something is wrong with it.


Why Old Comparables Don’t Work Anymore

Real estate markets move quickly. The numbers that mattered six months ago may be out of date today. That’s why I always use comparable sales — or comps — from the past three months or less.

Interest rates shift—buyer demand changes. Even the season of the year can make a difference. In a changing market, using older comps can give a false sense of value and lead to overpricing — which can slow your sale and cost you money in the end.


You Can’t Add Up Your Costs to Find Market Value

It’s easy to think,

“We paid $400,000 for the house, put $50,000 into upgrades, and made payments all these years — it should be worth at least $500,000.”

Unfortunately, that’s not how buyers think. Buyers compare your home to others they can buy today. They don’t see the money you’ve spent or the memories you’ve made — they see a house they might want to live in and decide what it’s worth to them right now.


The Power of Realistic Pricing

Realistic pricing doesn’t mean giving up your dream. It means finding the sweet spot between what you hope for and what the market will actually pay. When you price your home correctly, you attract more serious buyers, generate more showings, and often get stronger offers.

Overpricing, on the other hand, can lead to price reductions, longer time on market, and added stress. Smart pricing creates momentum — and momentum sells homes.


Have Someone Who Will Tell You the Truth

Selling a home is personal, and emotions can run high. That’s why you need someone who will give you the good news and the bad — the truth that helps you make the best decisions. A trustworthy agent won’t tell you just what you want to hear; they’ll tell you what you need to know.

At Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc., I believe in honesty, experience, and results. The goal isn’t just to list your home — it’s to get it sold at the best price the market will support.

If you’re thinking about selling and want straight answers about your home's current value, call me at 864-710-4518. I’ll give you the real story — no fluff, no hype — just the truth that helps you move forward with confidence.


Posted by Gwen Fowler, Broker/Owner
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.
Helping buyers and sellers across the Foothills and Lakes of Upstate South Carolina
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West Union SC 29696
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Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Gwen... love that term "aspirational pricing." I'll have to use it the next time a prospective seller tells me they want to "test the market."

Oct 29, 2025 06:27 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

Time is money and unless you are a researchest, you need to listen to your agent.

Oct 29, 2025 11:01 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

A very good educational post for those considering selling their home. At the moment with markets slowing down, it is interesting to see people struggling as to why homes are not selling. it is not always the price, there are many reasons people are not making offers right now.

Oct 29, 2025 06:45 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

Our market is very slow.  October is usually my 2nd highest month of the year.  This year --just crickets.

Oct 30, 2025 05:46 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Gwen, funny, I just had this conversation this week with a seller!   Not every penny equates to your bottom line!  Great post!

Oct 29, 2025 11:28 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

Seller math is very different from reality.  Thanks for the comment.

Oct 30, 2025 05:47 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Aspirations are great, but they also have to be filled with merit based on what is going on in the market, haha.

Oct 30, 2025 05:53 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

The problem is that we have been doing Aspirational pricing since 2015.  Agents will have a new rule if they want houses to sell. You can't look at what they sold for last time ...no a determining factor for what it is worth now.

Oct 30, 2025 09:06 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

Such a timely and thoughtful post, Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518. Thank you for cutting through the noise with clarity and heart. Your insights on pricing hit home and offer a gentle nudge toward smarter, more grounded decisions. Really appreciate you sharing this with such care 😊.

Oct 30, 2025 11:20 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

Lew Corcoran , we southern girls deliver bad news with a smile and a box of tissues.  

Oct 31, 2025 06:41 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Great post Gwen! I recall a few of those 'aspirational sellers'  that needed my /Come to Banana Talk'!  Like you I always had 'the talk' about the current market and trends. Normally when they saw the figures in black and white they came to their senses and priced correctly.  

Oct 30, 2025 12:35 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

Some are just dreamers "We don't have to sell and will not sell unless we can get our price"  I always remind them they can sell while they are in control or their kids will sell as they do not have emotion in the equasion.

Oct 31, 2025 06:40 AM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Excellent post on this topic! We need clients to have a good understanding of these points.

Oct 30, 2025 02:21 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

That is our job.  We have to educate sellers that we are not back in 2020, multiple offers are rare, over-asking price is rare, and the days on the market are increasing.

Oct 31, 2025 06:38 AM
Kathy Streib
Cypress, TX
Retired Home Stager/Redesign

Well done, Gwen!  How many times have sellers wanted to figure in their expense of adding a pool or new flooring, or the new windows?  

Oct 30, 2025 07:24 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

I keep telling sellers, you have lived here.  There is a cost of living space if you rent or if you make a mortgage payment.  The difference is who does the maintenance and who takes home the profit if there is any.

Oct 31, 2025 06:37 AM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good evening Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 

Aspirational Marketing is a new term to me and I like it! t's our job to educate our clients on the reality of pricing their home at a given time in the market place because it varies!

Oct 30, 2025 08:38 PM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

My first broker called it buying the listing.  Does not work in any market.  You must be able to justify the price you are listing.  IF you can't, then you need to be the 3rd agent who works the listing.

Oct 31, 2025 06:35 AM
Patricia Feager
Currently inactive - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Congratulations on an excellent blog post selected for a FEATURE story! Sellers should know Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 gives clear, compassionate guidanc,e and marketing solutions to sellers.

I love this line: In a changing market, using older comps can give a false sense of value and lead to overpricing ___ which can slow your sale and cost you money in the end.

Oct 31, 2025 01:23 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

Thanks for the comment.  This is something everyone needs to hear. We are professionals, not your friends. I would rather walk away from an overpriced listing than have the weekly conversation about why those homes didn't get any showings this week or that I feel the market has left us behind and we need to reduce the price or enhance the terms to get a buyer.

Oct 31, 2025 06:32 AM
Andrew Mooers | 207.532.6573
MOOERS REALTY - Houlton, ME
Northern Maine Real Estate-Aroostook County Broker

     The agent that is so sure the seller's expected price is too high. If that seller smells "commission breath" and desperation from the agent who wants a quick in and out sale with little effort, what would you do as the property owner Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518?

     Agents have to be careful on stating "the real estate market is slow, off" in whatever they post. The public can think that is true everywhere when that's not what is happening in other markets.

     Sometimes the agent is the problem and it's easy to blame the seller pricing for the lack of sale on the market when it is the marketing, the attitude of a defeated agent to blame. Yearly, 1.5 million real estate agents compete for the 5-6 million home sales.

Oct 31, 2025 02:17 AM

Great points Gwen and all true!   When I first got my license a good friend of mine gave me one of my first listings.  I asked him, what do you need to get for your home?  HIs reply was, Pete, it doesn't matter what I need or want to get for the property, all that matters is what a qualified buyer is willing to pay.   I took that lesson to heart and always counsel our clients to be reasonably aggressive with their pricing.   We have been very successful with that strategy.

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Leanne Smith
Dirt Road Real Estate - Golden Valley, AZ
The Grit and Gratitude Agent

Your posting reminded me of a seller who believed is 20 fruit trees had a value of $1k each or an additional $20K.  I told him trees are not part of the appraisal process. He decided to go with another agent and the property sold for what I suggested when we had our initial listing meeting appointment. Also the higher price increased days on market. 

Oct 31, 2025 07:54 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

Days on the market as well as the costs in keeping the property for those days on the market. Sometimes it is not worth it.

Nov 02, 2025 05:19 AM
Will Hamm
Hamm Homes - Aurora, CO
"Where There's a Will, There's a Way!"

Hello Gwen and hope it is not to much of a scary night for you in your area.  I have lots of candy to hand out tonight.

Oct 31, 2025 10:06 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

We moved from a neighborhood with kids to one without.  Very quiet, and we had a beautiful sunset.

Nov 02, 2025 05:19 AM
Praful Thakkar
LAER Realty Partners - Burlington, MA
Metro Boston Homes For Sale

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518Great reminder that setting the right price is key—just wishing doesn't change the market!

Insightful post on balancing hope and reality in real estate decisions. 

Oct 31, 2025 10:43 PM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Monday morning, Gwen. This is great information to share with prospective home sellers. Have a productive November!

Nov 03, 2025 06:04 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518

Yes, the end of the year is near, and I am pushing to move up another bracket before the year's end.  Have a great week.

Nov 03, 2025 06:06 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Hello, Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 I am so happy to see that the Feature Fairies blessed your post with a well-deserved Gold Star - you nailed the pricing issue. 

Nov 03, 2025 08:35 AM