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November Challenge: The Client I Wanted to Clone

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November Challenge: The Client I Wanted to Clone

 

It’s never easy for sellers to welcome someone into their home, knowing they’re about to hear a critique of it. When I consulted on occupied listings, I could see the apprehension in their eyes. 

 

There were occasions when I could sense the tension…the husband or wife was resisting everything about the move, or the client was still old school and felt the house would sell itself. You’ve met them. “If they don’t like the paint color, they don’t have to buy the house.”

 

 

This is why it was so refreshing when one of my first clients greeted me with Be brutally honest with me!

 

This was in 2008, when the market was down and very few people in FL knew about staging. My client was relocating due to a job transfer to Central FL. 

 

Jeff offered me an Espresso, then told me he’d spoken with his landscaper and other vendors, and they were ready to go after our consultation.  He’d watched a few HGTV shows and even clipped some “Before” and “After” photos he thought might work. 

That said, he was open to what I said and never let what he saw on the cable shows get in the way of what I was saying. 

When I pointed out the cracked tiles on the kitchen floor, he said, “I’d rather spend the money to fix what’s broken than lose an extra $20,000 on the sale.” Finally—a client who gets it! Repairs, upgrades, and staging aren’t expenses—they’re investments that pay off.

 

Home stagers rarely have the opportunity to establish the kind of relationship agents have with their sellers or buyers. But Jeff texted me after his house sold and once he was settled in his new home.

 

In the early years, it was not easy getting agents or sellers to understand home staging, much less agree to a consultation. My client was a breath of fresh air.  

 

 

 

I am eternally grateful for my client, who let me know that I was not going to have to “butt heads” with every seller. 

 

 

This is Post #1 in the ActiveRain Thankfulness Challenge.

 

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Kathy Streib
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Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Kathy. Jeff was a wise man. If you call an expert, take their advice or you are wasting your time and their's. Enjoy your day. 

Nov 04, 2025 04:38 AM
Kathy Streib

Wayne Martin He was. He spoiled me for some of my other clients.

Nov 04, 2025 10:18 AM
Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc - Walhalla, SC
Gwen Fowler Real Estate, Inc.

I will not put my name on something that is not in good repair unless the price supports it.  Condition, location and price all have to be inline to get a sale in this market.

Nov 04, 2025 04:39 AM
Kathy Streib

Gwen Fowler SC Lakes & Mountains 864-710-4518 I know what you mean Years ago I looked at a home that was awful in terms of how clean it wasn't. The yard was a mess. I couldn't believe the agent listed it for the price he did. 

Nov 04, 2025 10:19 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker
Coldwell Banker Realty - Charlotte, NC
Your Greater Charlotte Real Estate Broker

Good morning, Kathy... I can't tell you how many sellers I've met that are resistant to changing anything. That's when I bring in my stagers and somehow the resistance goes away. I've long said that one thing I'll give HGTV credit for is teaching people the value of staging. I remember the days when if I said the word staging I'd get blank looks. Then suddenly people were calling me to say they'd already begun decluttering and would I come and give advice on staging.

Nov 04, 2025 04:40 AM
Kathy Streib

Nina Hollander, Broker I suggested to the agents that they let me be the bad cop to their good cop. 

Nov 04, 2025 10:20 AM
Nina Hollander, Broker

Kathy Streib hi Kathy... what I found was that sellers consider me an expert in real estate... and even though I would give them the same advice as a home stager, they took that advice less seriously than from the stager, whom they considered the expert in that regard. I call my stagers and they say "you already know what to tell them." Yes, I do. But they listen to the "expert" more than to me.

Nov 04, 2025 10:45 AM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

That's an awesome story. It's great when someone "gets it!"

Nov 04, 2025 04:45 AM
Kathy Streib

Kat Palmiotti it was so refreshing, especially back then.

Nov 04, 2025 10:21 AM
Sham Reddy CRS
Howard Hanna RE Services, Dayton, OH - Dayton, OH
CRS

Thanks Kathy for sharing your experiences with AR family!!!

 

Nov 04, 2025 04:52 AM
Kathy Streib

Thanks Sham Reddy CRS hope to see you soon.

Nov 04, 2025 10:21 AM
Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Kathy - "butting heads" and responses like "yes, but" are strategies that some take to be or stay in control.  In real estate-related discussions or everyday life chatter.  Thankfulness for those who "get it" is definitely appreciated.  

Nov 04, 2025 05:03 AM
Kathy Streib

Michael Jacobs   it took some time but eventually more people understood the importance of a good presentation.

Nov 04, 2025 10:24 AM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Our jobs would be so much more fun if we could clone the clients who get it and follow our advice for the best results!

Nov 04, 2025 06:54 AM
Kathy Streib

Brian England I agree. I loved it when agents were fully onboard. This made it easier working with the seller.

Nov 04, 2025 10:25 AM
Roy Kelley
Retired - Gaithersburg, MD

Good Tuesday morning, Kathy. Thank you very much for sharing this experience.

Have a great day!

Nov 04, 2025 07:26 AM
Kathy Streib

HI Roy Kelley Thank you. Hope you and Chef Dolores are doing well. 

Nov 04, 2025 10:26 AM
Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543
Realty ONE Group Advocates 484-237-2055 - Downingtown, PA
Selling the Main Line & Chester County

I love everything about this client Kathy. So refreshing, he really got it, from the sound of it he was a businessman who understood investment and return on that investment.

Nov 04, 2025 07:49 AM
Kathy Streib

I couldn't agree more Nick Vandekar, 610-203-4543   He got it and was ready to do what it took to seel his house.

Nov 04, 2025 10:27 AM
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Kathy, That seller truly understood it.  Taking care of small repairs costs far less than letting a home sit on the market. Not everyone sees it that way.

Nov 04, 2025 07:53 AM
Kathy Streib

Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400 usually, I get "I don't want to put any more money into a house I'm leaving."

Nov 04, 2025 10:28 AM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

Hello, Kathy Streib I can relate to a client one would want to clone.  We all have that "ideal" client and experience.  Once the bar is set that high, it is a challenge to accept anything less. 

Nov 04, 2025 08:14 AM
Kathy Streib

Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist you're not kidding!  He set the bar high...especially with the cup of espresso! LOL

Nov 04, 2025 10:29 AM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Kathy,
I don't think Wenatchee has a dedicated home stager yet. I think there are agents who have taken some staging courses, though. 

Nov 04, 2025 09:18 AM
Kathy Streib

Carol Williams when I took the Staging course, most of the people n there were agents. (they got credit) I sat next to a really nice agent. She told me that any agent who's any good won't have time to do all the staging on their properties. But she took the class to learn what it was about. 

Nov 04, 2025 10:30 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Kathy I'm glad your client 'got it' and understood that making the necessary repairs would be good for the ROI.  

Nov 04, 2025 10:00 AM
Kathy Streib

Anna "Banana" Kruchten    Like I said...wish I could have cloned him. 

Nov 04, 2025 10:31 AM
Lew Corcoran
Better Living Real Estate, LLC - East Bridgewater, MA
Expert guidance. Exceptional results.

What a gem of a story, Kathy Streib! Your post hit home with its honesty and heart, and I’m so grateful you shared this reminder that the right client can make all the difference 😊. Thanks for letting us peek behind the curtain—it was both insightful and uplifting!

Nov 04, 2025 10:56 AM
Kathy Streib

Thank you Lew Corcoran And thank you for attending our Zoom calls.

Nov 04, 2025 05:13 PM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

Kathy, whether you are a stager or a REALTOR, when a client states they will do whatever it takes to get the home sold - you have to LOVE them.  KUDOS.

Nov 04, 2025 06:56 PM
Jeff Dowler, CRS
eXp Realty of California, Inc. - Carlsbad, CA
The Southern California Relocation Dude

Hi Kathy:

What an awesome client you had to work with and a great story.  You couldn't ask for a better situation.

Jeff

Nov 06, 2025 03:31 PM
Lynn B. Friedman CRS Atlanta, GA 404-617-6375
Atlanta Homes ODAT Realty - Love our Great City - Love our Clients! Buckhead - Midtown - Westside - Atlanta, GA
Concierge Service for Our Atlanta Sellers & Buyers

Kathy Streib 
Wonderful support and feedback from that Client.
Smart person to listen to YOU! Lynn

Nov 17, 2025 08:43 PM