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Ask An Ambassador: You Sir, Are A Jackass

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Real Estate Agent with Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.WarrenCountyOhioRealEstate.com SAL.2002007747

Look, that might not literally be the message that shows up in my Inbox day after day, but it might as well be.

Negative advertising.

Negative soliciting.

Personally, I can't stand either one.   If you can't make a case for your product or services without bashing the competition, do you REALLY have what I want?

"I was going through your website, which isn't doing well" followed by promises to put us on page 1 of Google.

What that comment says to me is, you don't even begin to know the purpose of my website and the audience I'm targeting, nor whether it is effective at bringing me the clients I seek.

It also tells me you offer the "holy grail", page 1 of Google.  Now for what search term??  Pffft.   There are only so many spots on page 1 of Google and only so many keywords that I'd have interest in.  Basically, it's not an appealing proposition.

On the other hand, another email offers me "would you be open to discussing a collaboration on a customized digital marketing strategy?", while still a hard pass for me, isn't off putting.

Frankly, some things that are considered standard marketing in our business just might come off the same as the first guy.

"It's a great time to buy!".
Interest rates are double, home prices are up 75%, and my job is laying off people left and right.   You sure about that statement?

"FSBOs sell for less money".
I tend towards "it depends".  As Sold data is often readily available, and if the seller can detach their emotions from the house and recognize market value, there's a pathway for success that doesn't leave dollars on the table.  But blanket advertising telling the world you're an idiot if you don't list with an agent? (yeah, I know this might sound like sacrilege coming from an agent, but shoes that fit...)  

"I've got a buyer!" to the seller who just came off the market after 90 days and you never showed their house once, but the day they expire, SUDDENLY you have a buyer if they'll just sign a listing agreement with you.  Don't be shocked if they think you're related to Pinocchio.

Bottom line, I hate feeling like I'm being manipulated, and I don't think that feeling is isolated to just me.

Make a clear and objective case for why your product/service will solve a problem of mine and your message is more likely to be heard.  

E.g. our message to the buying public doesn't have to be spoken, it's strictly pull, not push advertising.  They find our information about Cincinnati patio homes...we're EVERYWHERE they look (their words, not mine).  While it's no guarantee they still won't hire the agent who is a friend of the family, we've had our opportunity to gain their attention without once calling them a jackass :)

Until next Tuesday, just Ask An Ambassador if you need help,

Bill & Liz aka BLiz

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Michael Jacobs
Pasadena, CA
Pasadena And Southern California 818.516.4393

Hello Bill (and Liz too) - there has been advertising that irks me where "we will buy your home for cash sight-unseen ".  Who buys this sort of message - obviously someone (and a lot of them too) because the messages continue.       

Sorry, "rant" over - b.p. returning to "normal".  . .   

Nov 04, 2025 05:18 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

I've seen enough of the we buy houses templated websites to suspect just like a lot of things in real estate, the "real" money being made is by those that sell stuff to other practitioners.   The we buy houses for the most part appear to be franchised.  Here's a standard website that touts the "evils of real estate agents", how they have "market value offers"...yeah, because a person not intending to keep the house is going to pay true full market value?   The profit is in the delta of below market payments, so by its nature, they need a seller that wants convenience over money, and doesn't understand the market value of their home.  They're counting on P.T. Barnum tactics.

Nov 04, 2025 05:29 AM
Wayne Martin
Wayne M Martin - Oswego, IL
Real Estate Broker - Retired

Good morning Bill. Your message is absolutely true. Bashing all others claiming you are the only savior is a clear indication you have no clue. Just look at our present day politicians. Enjoy your day.

Nov 04, 2025 05:35 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Please don't make me look, I don't want to have to disinfect my eyeballs!

Nov 04, 2025 04:30 PM
Kat Palmiotti
eXp Commercial, Referral Divison - Kalispell, MT
Helping your Montana dreams take root

It's not just you that feels that way. I get a lot of those "your site sucks but we can make it amazing" emails that luckily usually go in my spam folder.

Another one that bugs me are the emails that start "I want to.." (fix your site, have you hire me, etc). Any email that starts "I want" usually gets a "I don't care what you want" from me! 

Nov 04, 2025 06:11 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

What's in it for the recipient?  Amazes me how many of these emails just keep coming and demanding a response.  Sorry, but you're cold contacting me, nothing is owed from my side.  Silence is indeed an answer.

Nov 04, 2025 04:31 PM
Alan May
Jameson Sotheby's International Realty - Evanston, IL
Home again, home again...

I get that email at least once daily.  "I was checking your website, and it's not ranking well on Google.." blah, blah, blah..  well there's a pretty good reason for that... I don't have a website, gashole!!

Nov 04, 2025 06:15 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Even MORE amazing!
At least in my case I can wonder if they have supposedly looked at our old iHouse template site, or our current Wordpress site.

Nov 04, 2025 04:32 PM
Alan May

I can assure you, they haven't.  I received six identical emails overnight about my nonexistent website.

Nov 05, 2025 04:04 AM
Jeffrey DiMuria 321.223.6253 Waves Realty
Waves Realty - Melbourne, FL
Florida Space Coast Homes

Kind of sounds like our politics today. They do not really tell us what they will do, they bash the other side and tell us how bad things would be had THEY been elected. lol

Nov 04, 2025 06:17 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

I don't even want to start down that rabbit hole!

Nov 04, 2025 04:33 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Good morning Bill,

I'm in complete agreement with you..can't stand negative advertising and negative soliciting! My email gets crowed with this nonsense each day and they are promptly deleted!

Nov 04, 2025 06:23 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Definitely no shortage of these solicitations.  Mondays tend to be the worst, but no day is immune.

Nov 04, 2025 04:33 PM
Kelly McGovern
Realty Concierge International - Bellingham, MA
Working with Kelly is a good move

The emails and phone calls about websites have become harassing. One after the other, and it's multiple times a week.  An advertising negative I often see in my area is "If we can't sell your home, we'll buy it".  Ya, right!

Nov 04, 2025 08:10 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

I've seen some of the terms and conditions on the we'll buy your home.   The only thing good about it was the seller had a set date.   The other terms (especially price) did them no favors.

Nov 04, 2025 04:34 PM
Carol Williams
Although I'm retired, I love sharing my knowledge and learning from other real estate industry professionals. - Wenatchee, WA
Author, Golfer, Retired Broker, Wenatchee, WA

Hi Bill,
Do you know what this post reminded me of: 
"We're from the government, and we're here to help you."  😂 

I get those emails all the time, too. They say how much better my website would do with their "expert" help. If I don't ignore them completely,  I write back to ask, "Which website"? I never do hear from them again because they have no clue what they are talking about. 

Nov 04, 2025 08:36 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

And that is the thing, they're generic solicitations.  You want to add some value to the solicitation?  Provide one solid example of what they see as "wrong".  Because there is absolutely no way I'm opening an attachment or link from any of these people unless they came recommended and I'd already hired them.  I have people for my Wordpress site, so all others are wasting their time.

Nov 04, 2025 04:36 PM
Kathleen Daniels, Probate & Trust Specialist
KD Realty - 408.972.1822 - San Jose, CA
Probate Real Estate Services

I confess, I love the title of this post! 

I get those emails and calls all the time. Completely clueless. They know nothing about my website or keywords yet they imply I am a loser becaues of [fill in the blank]. 

Nov 04, 2025 08:41 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

And that approach definitely rubs me the wrong way.  It's true, I won't rank highly for "first time home buyers", because that's not my ideal audience.  But for what I want to rank for, we do.

Nov 04, 2025 04:37 PM
Don Baker
Lane Realty - Eatonton, GA
Lake Sinclair Specialist

Yeah, I get those and I don't have a website and am not even mentioned on the company site.  I'm an "extra" in real estate.  And right now, the market is slow.

Nov 04, 2025 08:56 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

So it becomes even more apparent they just have massive agent email lists and hope someone bites at the bait.

Nov 04, 2025 04:38 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Oh, right there with you on this. These tactics do not encourage me in any way.

Nov 04, 2025 09:05 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

Not even a little bit!

Nov 04, 2025 04:38 PM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
Retired Broker/Owner - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

All right apparently it's rant week Bill.  I did one yesterday about idiot drivers.  And OMG the stupid texts and messages I still get for 'this that and you know what' is nuts.  I delete and send to junk.  I am still getting stuff for the company we sold 4 years ago. Seriously folks are you that stupid!!

Nov 04, 2025 10:05 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten

Right!

Nov 06, 2025 09:09 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

For sure, we get emails mentioning our brokerage two moves behind.  They need to at least be current, right?

Nov 04, 2025 04:38 PM
Patricia Feager
Currently inactive - Flower Mound, TX
Licensed to April 2027

Liz and Bill Spear

Hi Bill, there are too many asses and not enough brains in sales and marketing. Real Estate Agents are not Dummies. Opting out/unsubscribing doesn't work either. I have to say, I don't get emails any more about selling my house or asking me if I have sellers moving to Las Vegas, but I do get a lot more text messages than ever before. 

Nov 04, 2025 01:07 PM
Patricia Feager

Liz and Bill Spear

Bill - I wish there was a crackdown on the AI/bot texts. They aren't just annoying; they can cause enormous stress having to constantly delete them. Each time you delete they multiply like gnats and flies that nobody wants!

Nov 05, 2025 01:15 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

I have out of state politicians that bombard our inbox.  Unsubscribing?  Worthless.   They just use a different email distribution list every time.

And I'd definitely seeing more AI/bot type texts fishing for a response.  Just today, a query about setting a manicure appt, and another about golf equipment.  All out of state area codes.

Nov 04, 2025 04:40 PM
Debra Leisek
Bay Realty,Inc Homer Alaska - Homer, AK

I wish there was a way to stop all the scammers and scamming and emails from 

I got an email about a service that would stop it all but I am pretty sure that was a scam too!!  It is never ending!  

Nov 04, 2025 11:37 PM
Debra Leisek

That is true Liz and Bill Spear  We just cant win for losing with the scammers!! 

Nov 05, 2025 08:13 PM
Liz and Bill Spear

I don't know how anyone can truly filter out all sources of contact from the scammers.  False positives might stop an actual potential client from reaching us.

Nov 05, 2025 06:53 PM
Brian England
Ambrose Realty Management LLC - Gilbert, AZ
MBA, GRI, REALTOR® Real Estate in East Valley AZ

Haha, all of those emails go directly to my spam folder, and rarely do I even read them.  I have been on calls where they are very complimentary of my website and point out things that are done well, which makes me a little more likely to hire them, but I doubt that I would ever hire someone who solicited me, haha.

Nov 05, 2025 05:54 AM
Liz and Bill Spear

I've gotten pretty selective regarding who I trust enough to give my money.  Cold calling won't have a chance.

Nov 05, 2025 06:53 PM
Peter Mohylsky, www.athome30a
Property Management Inc.-Destin - Sandestin, FL
Call me at 850-517-7098

There is a perfect match for all folks,  being honest,unfiltered  shines  thru the bs

Nov 06, 2025 03:26 AM